Sonke sithanda ukuphupha. Abanye benza isifiso ngosuku lokuzalwa noma unyaka omusha, benethemba lokuthola isipho esithakazelisayo kubo, abanye - ngenkathi inkanyezi ewa. Kodwa umphumela ungenye - ukudumala. Kungani lokhu kwenzeka? Ngendlela, bonke abantu abakhulu babethanda ukuphupha ngesikhathi sabo samahhala. Bayazi nje ukuthi bangakwenza kanjani kahle.
Yena ngokwakhe ungumhleli.
Ake ucabange ungumklomelo. Manje cabanga ukuthi kufanele ubhale uhlelo lwekhompuyutha eyinkimbinkimbi kakhulu emhlabeni - ubuchopho bomuntu. Ngemuva kokuthi kuhlanganiswe uhlelo, kuqhubeka ukucindezela ukungena. Ukuphupha akuyona eyingozi, njengoba kuhlabelelwa engoma, i-apolitical. Futhi uma uvula imfihlo yamaphupho okulungile, ungajika ngakolunye uhlangothi lomhlaba. Okungeke ucabange ngaphambilini kuzovela empilweni yakho.
Cabanga: umuntu ongaphandle uthola amaphesenti angamashumi amabili kuphela kolwazi oluvela ezweni langaphandle. Amaphesenti ayisishiyagalombili asele angamaphupho ethu nezifiso zethu, ezisemqondweni. Ngakho-ke, kubalulekile ukwazi ukuthi uzilungiselele futhi uhlele ukuphila ukuze uphumelele, udinga ukukhumbula eyodwa "ukubusa kwegolide": yilokho ocabanga ngakho! Umuntu uthola ngokuqondile lokho akufunayo. Konke okwenzeka kuwe manje kubonisa imicabango yakho yangaphambilini. Ngakho-ke, chaza izifiso zakho.
1. Zilalele.
Ngokuvamile sifuna into esingayidingi. Amazinga anikezwe umphakathi kanye nokukhangisa kuthelevishini, lapho izakhamuzi ezingamaphesenti angamashumi ayisishiyagalombili zilalela, ngeke zisenze injabulo ekulindelekile. Yingakho kubalulekile ukuqonda ukuthi yini oyifunayo ngempela. Ukuze usondelane nokuqonda izifiso zakho, buyela emuva ebuntwaneni. Yebo, ncamashi, uzicabange ungumntwana. Yini oyifunayo ngaleso sikhathi? Mhlawumbe ufuna ukuba umuntu odumile noma ufanise umlingisi wakho ozithandayo? Yiziphi zezifiso ezingazange zenzeke? Uma ufuna imoto enkulu, kodwa awuzange uyithole - hamba ukuyothenga futhi uthenge. Ingane ephakathi kwakho izothola indlela yokuqaphela iphupho langempela.
2. Ukulahla ngokweqile.
Futhi manje ake ucabange ukuthi wonke amaphupho akho agcwaliseke. Pheqa isimo ekhanda lakho kusukela ekuqaleni kuze kube sekupheleni bese ubheke phansi. Konke kuzokwenzeka ngendlela oyifunayo? Lokhu kusebenza kuzokusiza ukulahla izimpikiswano ezingafuneki ezingamashumi ayisikhombisa futhi unake kuphela okuphezulu. Izifiso ezimbalwa onakho, ziphakeme amathuba okuba zikhona.
3. Yakha kahle.
Uma ubeka umgomo ukuze uthole imali eningi, khona-ke uzokwazi ukukuthola. Kodwa imali ngeke ihlale esikhwameni sakho isikhathi eside. Uma ufuna ukufunda isiNgisi, uzofunda, kodwa ngeke uqale ukukhuluma kuso. Kulungile kakhulu ukuphupha ngalokho ozokusebenzisa imali yakho. Futhi ngokuqondene nolimi - kungcono ukusetha umgomo wokukhuluma kuwo.
4. Masikhohlwe ngamazwi-amagciwane.
Uma ungakholelwa kulokho okufunayo, ngeke uwuthole. Lokhu kubhaliwe ngisho naseBhayibhelini. Gwema imisho - "Ngeke ngithole lutho" noma "akukho okufanayo okunye." Gcina ithrekhi yale micabango, futhi ngokushesha nje uma ivela - vimba.
5. Ungasheshi.
Ngokuvamile, wena nami, sizibekela umgomo ongaqondakali, asikwazi ukuzigcwalisa ngokomzimba. Ungakhathazeki ukuthi awukwazi ukuthola konke futhi ngokushesha ngesikhathi esifushane. Akunakwenzeka ukweqa umgwaqo nge-jump one. Kunengqondo kakhulu ukuya emgomweni ngezinyathelo ezimfushane, ngenkathi ulondoloza amandla.
Hlukanisa indlela yakho zibe izingxenye eziningana. Ungakwazi ukwazi ulwazi oludingekayo, uma usuku ngalunye lunikeza lesi sifundo okungenani isigamu sehora. Hlala uphilile ngokusebenzisa ukuvivinya umzimba nsuku zonke imizuzu eyishumi nanhlanu. Ukuxazulula izinkinga ezikhishwe, ungenza isimiso futhi unqume nsuku zonke ezimbili noma ezintathu zazo. Futhi okubaluleke kakhulu ukukhumbula - njalo ujabule ngisho nasezintweni ezincane, futhi ungayeki ukuphupha.