Izingxabano zivela ngezikhathi ezithile emndenini ngamunye. Ungazigwema kanjani noma uzixazulule kahle, lesi sihloko sizokutshela.
Kunoma imuphi umndeni, ngezikhathi ezithile, kunezingxabano, ukungavumelani, ukungqubuzana nokungaqondi kahle. Ngeshwa, bambalwa kakhulu abantu abangabagwema, ngoba abantu ababili abakwazi ukuba nombono owodwa, benze konke ngokufanele futhi bafeze zonke izifiso zomunye nomunye. Kodwa noma yikuphi ukungqubuzana kulula ukuxazulula esiteji sokuqala, kunokuba ulethe endaweni yokubilisa. Ngakho-ke, kubalulekile ukuvimbela ukungezwani noma ukuxazulula kahle. Amathiphu ambalwa alula okuxazulula ukungqubuzana nomyeni wakhe.
Izinkumbulo ezimnandi
Ekuseni ... ilanga ilanga ngomusa imisebe yalo yokuqala, ungaphakamisi ukuvuvukala, welula kahle, uphenduke ohlangothini oluhlangothini ... futhi uzithole ezandleni zomyeni wakho othandekayo. Kuhle, akunjalo?
Ngokuqinisekile wonke owesifazane unezinkumbulo zakhe ezimnandi, ezihlobene nokuphila komshado, ukuphumula okuhlanganyelwe, amaholide amanye, izenzakalo noma ukuphila okulula kwansuku zonke. Nayi indlela yokuqala yokuvimbela ukungqubuzana noma ukuxabana. Noma kunini lapho uzizwa ucasuliwe, futhi ufuna ukuveza konke ukungavumelani kwakho nomyeni wakho, yeka, khumbula izikhathi ezimnandi ezisebenzisana ndawonye, futhi intukuthelo yakho iyodlula. Futhi-ke, ngethoni ezolile, ngomqondo nangelungiselelo, ungaxoxa ngezinkinga zonke eziqoqiwe. Futhi ezimweni eziningi zonke lezi zinkinga ziyanyamalala. Ingxabano ixazululwe.
Shintsha izindawo
Uma ukucabanga kwakho kukuhluleka, futhi awukwazi ukukhumbula izikhathi ezimnandi ekuphileni, khona-ke kukhona indlela yesibili - zama ukubeka endaweni yomlingani wakho. Yebo, yebo-lena yiyona ndlela ehlonishwa kakhulu futhi enesizungu kakhulu mayelana nalokho esitsheliwe kusukela ebuntwaneni. Kodwa cabanga, singayisebenzisa kaningi kangakanani ekusebenzeni, hhayi nje ukudala ukubonakala ukuze kuthulise unembeza wethu? Phela, noma yimuphi umuntu ofuna ukuzwakala, ngifuna "ukuhlala endaweni yakhe", "esikhumbeni sakhe". Isinyathelo esilandelayo, ngokuphikisana okulandelayo nomyeni wakhe, cabanga ngezimo ezenza ukuba oshade naye abe namagama nezenzo. Futhi umbono wakhe ungalungile yini? Noma ingabe ikhona indawo okufanele ibe nayo? Mhlawumbe lokhu "ukushintshaniswa kwemizimba" kwengqondo kuzokutshela ukuthi ungaza kanjani isivumelwano esivumelwaneni ngesikhathi esiphikisanayo.
Thatha isikhashana
Futhi enye indlela ebaluleke kakhulu yokugcina isimo esinokuthula emndenini. Uma kukhulumisana kwakho kunamazwi amaningi ahlambalazayo mayelana nomlingani wakho, lapho amaqiniso aqinisekisiwe efakwe esikhundleni sokucabangela kwakho, uma kukhona isinyathelo esisodwa kuphela ekuqedeni izitsha nokushaya iminyango, kufanelekile ukuthatha isikhashana futhi ucabange ngesimo sonke. Omunye ulahlekelwe amaminithi angu-10, omunye unqunyelwe emahoreni amaningana, kanti abanye balungele ukuqala ingxoxo kuphela ekuseni ngakusasa. Kunoma yikuphi, inqubo yokuxazulula inkinga "ekhanda elibandayo" izoba ngokushesha nangempumelelo kakhulu.
Sakha ubuhlobo bethu ngokwethu. Futhi kuhlale kudingeke ukhumbule ukuthi ukubekezela nokuqonda okuhambisanayo yizingxenye eziyinhloko zokuxhumana okuthembekile, okuhlala njalo nokuhlala njalo.
Uthando futhi uthandeke!