Uma uhlale uzibuza ukuthi intombi yakho, usebenza naye noma umama uphatha kanjani ukusebenza, ujabule futhi ugcine umyalelo omuhle, yisikhathi sokudalula izimfihlo zabo.
Ngaphansi kwedoti!
Noma yikuphi ukuhlanza kuqala ngokuhlola. Kulesi sigaba kubalulekile ukuhlola ngokungakhethi ukuthi yiziphi izinto ezisendlini yakho ezidingekayo futhi eziwusizo, futhi okumele zibheke futhi zisebenzise esikhathini esizayo. Susa ngokungafani izingubo ongazange uzigqoke okungaphezu konyaka, ezincwadini ongaze uzifunde, kusukela kumamagazini endala, ezintweni ozinikezwe zona namanje ezisebhokisini.
Ungakhathazeki ngemikhumbuzo ongayithandiyo futhi engathandeki engaba khona lapho ushada, ubeletha ingane noma uthatha umhlalaphansi. Manje abakudingi, ngakho indawo yabo ingaphandle kwendlu.
Izinto eziyigugu kakhulu azilahli neze. Banganikelwa noma banikwe omunye umuntu, bathathe endaweni yokukhosela noma ngisho nasezintandaneni. Ngakho uzokwenza izinto ezimbili ezinhle: zize wena nabanye.
Ngokushesha nje uma usula yonke imfucumfucu eyayivale amakhabhinethi, ama-pantry, amakona namafasitela, uzobona ngokushesha ukuthi kube lula ukuphefumula, futhi umsebenzi wehlile kakhulu.
Hlela ifenisha ngendlela efanele!
Yiqiniso, mhlawumbe yisibani sakho okufanele sime phakathi kwekamelo, futhi izitsha zokugcoba zihanjiswe emgodini. Mhlawumbe izintaba ezinhle ezivela ezincwadini noma i-gizmos ezihlobisa futhi zihlobisa ingaphakathi, kodwa uzozihlanza kanjani uthuli futhi ugeze phansi?
Yiqiniso, ukuyihambisa njalo njalo, bese ubeka ezindaweni ongafuni muntu. Ngakho isikhala samahhala. Uma unayo isikhala samahhala, izindawo ezingenalutho, kulula futhi ngokushesha uzokwenza ukuhlanza. Ngakho-ke, kungcono ukugcina izinto eziningi emakhandini, hhayi emashalofini.
Ungazami ukwenza konke ngesikhathi esisodwa!
Into esemqoka eyenza ukuhlanzwa kungumsebenzi womsebenzi. Qonda, awuyena robot futhi awukwazi ukuhlanza amapayipi ngosuku olulodwa, ugeze amafasitela bese usika phansi. Akekho okufunayo lokhu kuwe. Vele uhlukanise umsebenzi ngezigaba eziningana, ukushintshana okuyinkimbinkimbi ngokulula. Isibonelo, ngemva kokugeza amawindi, hlanisa izithombe, futhi emva kokuhlanza indlu yokugezela, hlambulula itafula.
Kodwa ungalibali ukuhlanza. Izinsuku ezimbalwa zanele ukususa kancane kancane indlu ejwayelekile, uma ukuhlanza kubambezeleka inyanga, ngeke kube nomqondo kuwo.
Yilethe ekupheleni!
Ungalokothi ushiye isibuko noma phansi. Uma ufika ebhizinisini, thola umphumela, ngaphandle kwalokho umsebenzi uzobonakala ungenakwenzeka.
Ukuze usebenze ekhaya akubonakali umsebenzi onzima, kufanele ubone lapho imizamo yakho ihola khona. Futhi yini engase ibe ukwaneliseka, uma konke kukhanyisa ekhoneni elilodwa, kodwa kwenye i-pogrom?
Sebenzisa imikhiqizo yokuhlanza yansuku zonke kanye nokusiza, kodwa qiniseka ukuthi indlu yakho kancane kancane ithola uhlobo oluthandayo ngaphambi kokuba uthathe isikhwama kanye ne-rag.
Gcina i-oda!
Lesi yisimo esibophezelayo, ngaphandle kwalokho uzochitha wonke amaviki kuphela ukuhlanza, kepha phakathi kweviki indlu yakho izobukeka sengathi awuhlanjulwanga nhlobo. Kubalulekile ukugeza izitsha ngokushesha emva kokuyisebenzisa, ukusula uthuli izikhathi eziningana ngeviki, ugeze phansi uma kudingeka futhi ungabi nobuvila, uhlanze imipulazi okungenani kanye njalo ezinsukwini ezimbili.
Ukuvimbela akudingi kuphela impilo. Uma unikeza okungenani imizuzu engama-30 ngosuku emisebenzini yemisebenzi evamile, ukungcola nokudideka ekhaya lakho ngeke kube njalo. Kwanele ukubeka zonke izinto endaweni futhi uhlanze ukungcola ngokushesha nje uma kubonakala, kungabi ukuhlehlisela umsebenzi okwesikhashana futhi hhayi ukuqoqa inani elikhulu lokungcola.
Ngakho-ke, ngemizuzwana embalwa nje ngosuku, uzofeza umphumela ofanayo nokulandela ukuhlanza kwentwasahlobo yokuqala.
Zikhuthaze!
Angifuni nje ukwenza noma yini. Futhi ubuvila kunzima kakhulu ukunqoba. Yakhele uhlelo lwamabhonasi azosiza ukunqoba ukwesaba umsebenzi nokuvilapha. Isibonelo, ngemuva kwesonto ngalinye eliqedile ekuhlanzeni, ungazinikeza incwadi noma i-disc nge-movie, futhi ekupheleni kwenyanga, iya eklabhu noma ku-blouse entsha ngaphezu kwalabo abahlelwe.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, uzothanda ukuhlala ubungcwele futhi ube nendawo ehleliwe ezungezile. Uzozizwa izinzuzo zendlela entsha yokuphila. Manje awudingi ukucinga noma yini, uhlale wazi ukuthi kuphi futhi kuphi amanga. Awudingi udoti lomfutho ngaphansi kombhede, uma izivakashi zifika ngokungalindelekile. Ungamema ngokuziqhenya ngisho nomama womyeni ukuba adle ukudla. Ukuhlanza kwakho kuthatha imizuzu, hhayi amahora, futhi umphumela uyamangalisa. Waba yinto yokuhawukela, hhayi ukuhlekwa usulu, njengakuqala. Hhayi, ekugcineni, uye waba ngumuntu ozimele owabhekana nalezi zingxabano ngakho-ke uyakwazi ukubhekana nezinkinga ezinkulu nakakhulu.
Kukhona inkulumo: "Ayikho i-oda endlini, ngeke kube khona ekhanda noma." Kuyiqiniso ngempela. Khumbula ukuthi awufuni yini ukubuyela endlini lapho isimo sikucindezela khona, lapho uzizwa unecala ngokungenzi umsebenzi, lapho kunzima ukuthola ngisho nezinto ezidingekayo futhi lapho ungakwenzi khona isitatimende nendoda. Manje, ngokubuyisela umzamo omncane, uzothola okungenani ingxenye eyodwa yempilo yakho ezoba ekahle.