Esikhathini sethu umqondo othi "Ubuhlobo Besifazane" kubangelwa izimbangela eziningi ezihambisana nokuphikisana, ukukhwabanisa, ukuzithoba. Noma kunjalo, lo mbuzo uvame ukuphakanyiswa emaqenjini ahlukene abesifazane, okusho ukuthi liqukethe ukungqubuzana okungapheli "kwe" nangokuthi "ngokumelene." Lokhu kuxoxiswane ngeminyaka eminingi futhi akukho mphakathi ongaba nombono ofanayo.
Abaningi besifazane abahlanganyeli ubungane nabo bonke besifazane nabesilisa, becabanga ukuthi ubunzima ebuhlotsheni bahlala njalo, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi banamandla kangakanani futhi baqotho kangakanani. Ngokwemininingwane yemiphakathi yezenhlalo, u-56% wabaphenduli bathi.
Ngaphandle komngane - ukukhanya akukona okumnandi.
Futhi cishe bonke abaxoxwa ngesineke bakhuluma ngezintombi zabo. Emva kwakho konke, nomngane ungase uhleke ngobuqotho ngobuwula obukhulu, uxoxe nabafana, u-boss, umkhwekazi ... nanoma ubani! Into esemqoka ukuqiniseka ukuthi akekho omunye kodwa wena ababili ozokwazi ngakho. Ingabe udinga ukufunda izinkondlo epaki, usule ama-boutiques noma ubuke ifilimu endala - uzosiza ngaso sonke isikhathi umngane.
Kukhona nomthamo omnyama empilweni, lapho ukucindezeleka masonto onke nakho konke kuwela ezandleni, futhi izwe libonakala lingu-grey nokubi. Kuyizikhathi ezinjalo ukuthi umngane uhlale eqaphele isimo sengqondo esihle. Ungakwazi ukulalela izinkinga zosuku lonke eziqoqiwe futhi avumelane nawe kukho konke, okwenza ukuthi azizethembe futhi abe nokucindezeleka njengesandla. Noma mhlawumbe angakwazi ukuklolodela, ukumemeza, azenzele ukuzidonsa ndawonye. Lokho, ngokweqile, kuzosebenza futhi. Njengoba u-Aristotle ayevame ukusho: "Umngane ungumphefumulo munye ohlala emizimbeni emibili."
Ukusekela ngokuziphatha kwezihlobo kufana neseshini nomqondo wezengqondo. Izazi zengqondo zithi umngane ungumqondo ongenacala. Into esemqoka ukuthi kukhona ukwethemba, inhlonipho, ubuqotho ebuhlotsheni. Futhi lo muntu wayenomuntu ozothululela umphefumulo wakhe obani ongethemba nokuthi ngubani ongabelana naye ngenjabulo. Phela, sekuyisikhathi eside sekuyaziwa ukuthi ungumngane weqiniso, kanye nawe. Futhi ngubani omemeza efonini bese eqa ephahleni lapho ethola ukuthi wakwenza isipho seseka? Umngani omkhulu. Ngakho, kukhona ubungane besifazane emva kwakho konke?
Uhlangothi olungezansi lwemali.
Ebusheni, ugogo, omama kanye nothisha bafaka kithi uthando lomngane, batfutfukise umqondo wokubambisana, ukwethembeka nokusizana komunye. Futhi abakuze bazibuze ukuthi ubuhlobo besifazane bukhona, kodwa bafakazela kakhulu ukuthi kubalulekile ukuba abangane "njengawo." Akuyona imali nesimo somuntu emphakathini, noma amaflaya ehhala kuma-nightclub kanye nezinto, kodwa njengawo! Ngubani owaziyo, mhlawumbe yingakho kukhona izingxabano mayelana nobuhlobo besifazane, ukuthi okokuqala kwakhiwe ekukhohlisweni nasenzuzo. Futhi kungenzeka ukuthi amantombazane yanamuhla akwazi ukuhlukanisa ubungane nobungane. Futhi-ke, uma kunesimo sokuphikisana, ukukhohliswa nezinhlobo ezehlukene zokuhleba, eziningi zibuza ngokushesha umbuzo: Ingabe kukhona ubungane besifazane?
Ukwedlulisa ukuphikisana njalo phakathi kwalabo abenqaba ukukholwa ubungane besifazane. Kuyinto engavamile ebhizinisini kubandakanyeka abanye abathandekayo. Uyakuthanda bobabili abangane, kangangokuthi kubangelwa ukuba bakhohlwe ngeminyaka yobuhlobo obumnandi obujabulisayo. Yilapho ukuphikisana okuvelele phakathi kwabahlobo abakhulu kunabo bonke, abavele baba yizitha.
U-Anne Lindbergh ukholelwa ukuthi: "Amadoda adlala ubungane njengebhola, futhi lihlala liqinile. Abesifazane badlala nobungane, njengengilazi yeglasi, futhi iphula. " Mhlawumbe yindlela okuyiyo? Ekuqaleni, amantombazane atshale ubungane bonke abasondelene kakhulu, aphuphe ndawonye, ahlonelane ngokumangalisayo, futhi ngokungazelelwe, futhi phakathi kwabahlobo abanjengekati elimnyama bagijima. Inhliziyo yalimala futhi iyamunyu, intukuthelo yezwe lonke nokuqiniseka okungenakuphikwa ukuthi akukho buhlobo besifazane - yilokho okuhlala khona. Kodwa kusekhona umuzwa wokulahlekelwa! Ukungaqondakali, umqondo ongenakuphulukiswa wokulahlekelwa komphefumulo wendabuko. Kuvela ukuthi ngaphandle kwentombi empilweni, akukho ndawo!