Okokugcina, kungenzeka ukuba uziphoqe ukuba ubonise uphawu olungabonakali, nakuba ngokuvamile abantu bengacabangi ngesimo samashiya abo, imisipha ebunzini labo, izindebe, amaconsi, abazinaki izinto ezizithintayo ngesikhathi sezingxoxo, abazigxilile esimweni somzimba womuntu siqu, ukulawula kancane ukuzwakala kwezwi lakhe kanye nazo zonke izinhlobo zezinto. Kungani? Ngenxa yezizathu ezilandelayo, ukuguqulwa okungenamazwi, okuyiqiniso, kuthathwa njengokungokwemvelo kokufaka amazwi, nakuba kungasho lutho olucacile, kodwa luyimfihlo. Ukuze ufunde ukufunda amagama angamagama akhuluma ngesihawu ekhelini lakho, noma isimo sengqondo ezindabeni ezibucayi, udinga ukukhumbula lezi zimpawu ezilandelayo ozithandayo owesifazane.
Ukuhamba komzimba emlonyeni, okubonisa ukuzwelana okuvela kulolu cwaningo
Ubuso obuncane bukhululekile, nakuba umlomo uvulekile uhhafu, amazinyo aphezulu ayabonakala. Udlala namapongipi: uwabuyisela, uhlabe, uthinta ulimi lwakhe. Iminwe, ithinta kancane izindebe zakhe ngokuthinta, uma ineminwe ende, ibathinta amazinyo angaphambili. Lezi zindlela ezibonakalayo zibukeka sengathi zithinta ngengozi, nakuba zinikeza into oyithandayo owesifazane nesifiso sakhe sokuthakazelisa.
Bheka bese uhambisa amehlo.
Ubona ummeli okhuthele wezocansi obuthakathaka ngokucophelela, futhi abafundi bakhe banwetshwa ngesikhathi esifanayo. Lesi senzo sezinto eziphilayo - asikwazi ukulawulwa noma sidlalwe. Ukukhathazeka kokwazi kwenza umfundi akhule. Abanye ochwepheshe bezokwelapha bathi isimo esimnandi (uma kungekho mthombo wesaba, isipiliyoni kanye nokukhathazeka), abafundi bakhulisa kuphela uma bebukeka ngomoya othakazelisayo, onesihawu. Izwi elithi "Amehlo - isibuko somphefumulo" sihambisana nalesi siqephu. Phakathi nengxoxo, akukhona nje ukubuka kwendodakazi encane edlala, kodwa ubuso bayo bonke. Amashiya avuka ngezikhathi ezithile, enza ubuso bubambeke futhi banentshisekelo emazwini e-interlocutor. Isihloko sokuziqhenya ngamantombazane amancane yi-cilia yabo, engazi lutho, kungenzeka ukuthi bayakwazi ukungena, bekhuluma nommeleli omuhle wezocansi eziqinile, ngakho-ke abesifazane abancane babonisa ubuhle be-eyelashes abo nabalingani babo. Futhi namanje ukuzwelana kwendodakazikazi kunika amehlo angamnandi kumnandi. Lokhu kwenzeka uma owesifazane kanye nommeli wobulili obuqinile bekude futhi banethuba lokuzivumela ukuthi baxhumane kuphela ngosizo lokubuka. Insizwa encane ibheka futhi ihumusha ngokugqamile amehlo ayo, bese iphinda iphinde iphindze, njengokungathi ifihla, noma kunjalo, impela, ibonisa ububele bayo kummeleli wesondo oqinile.
Xhumana nezinwele.
Futhi ubulili obuhle kakhulu buziqhenya ngezinwele zabo, ngenxa yalokhu bavame ukubathinta ngenkathi yokukhulumisana nobulili obunamandla, hhayi ukuwasho ngamazwi ngozwela lwabo. Ukuxhumana nezinwele kubuye kubonakale njengesenzo sengozi. Le ndoda inamandla okuwaphonsa emahlombe akhe, ukuwaqondisa, agijime iminwe yakhe izinwele ...
Ukwelashwa okungenasibindi ngosizo lokuma nokunyakaza komzimba.
Into yokuqala ehlinzeka ngommeleli wesifazane obuthakathaka yisifiso sakhe sokuheha umuntu omele ubulili obunamandla - ukuhleleka okubushelelekile kanye nemisipha enzima ngemuva. Uma kwenzeka umculo udlala ekamelweni, lo wesifazane uyaziqhenya ngokuhamba kancane, ebonisa ukuqina komzimba wakhe. Imilenze yakhe ivulekile, futhi lapho iwela, umlenze ophezulu ukhona ukuze ubonise ithanga. Phakathi nengxoxo, imilenze ibhebhezana ngomunye nomunye noma ngomlenze wetafula, isihlalo. Ethathwe umlingani, lo wesifazane osemncane uyabhala ngokucophelela ukuma kwakhe, ukuthatha isenzo, isikhundla somzimba. Uma kwenzeka uqaphela ukuthi lo mlingani ngezinye izenzo kanye ne-pantomime ikulingisa, yazi ukuthi kulokho lokhu kuwubufakazi bokuhola kwakho.
Ukuhamba kwezandla kuthathwa njengokubalulekile. Uma intombazane ngesikhatsi ingxoxo, igxila, iphendulela izandla zayo kuwe, qinisekisa ukuthi umbiza ngokuthi uthembele. Mayelana nokuvuleka nesihawu lesi sikhundla sezandla sikhuluma: igoli lihlala entendeni yesandla, nesundu, isandla esifanayo siphakanyisiwe phezulu. Ukushaya isifuba sakho, ubulili obuhle kakhulu kunika umphikisi umlutha.
Okubonisa ukuthintana kwezici zobuso ngezandla zakho, ukushaya izihlathi zakho nezindebe zakho. Uphawu lokungabonisi ngomlomo ekhelini le-interlocutor kuthathwa njengokuthinta kommeleli wesifazane obuthakathaka wezingubo zabo, izinto eziseduze, izingxenye ezincane zokuhlobisa.
Futhi, yiqiniso, izwi le-intombazane lidlala indima ebalulekile.
Kuzo uzama ukunaka, ukuthatha isifiso, ukukhunjulwa. Ingabe amagama abalulekile nhlobo? Yebo! Nakuba imininingwane engekho ngamazwi nayo iphawuleka kakhulu. Ukugxila kuwe, ummeleli wesifazane obuthakathaka uyakusho emvuthweni ofanayo nawe. Uma izitatimende zakho zithobile futhi zithule - uzonikeza impendulo efanayo, ngeke azame ukuphula ukuvumelana, futhi uma ukhuluma ngokuzwakalayo - uzokhuluma futhi ngamathoni akhule. Ngejubane lenkulumo kwenzeka ngendlela efanayo. Futhi abesifazane bayaqonda ukuthi izakhamuzi zeplanethi yethu zihlangene ngokuhleka futhi kubonga kuye bazama ukuxhumana nommeleli onamandla onamandla.