Ngomuntu osebenzayo wanamuhla, ikhaya lakhe yindawo esemqoka yokubalekela ukucindezeleka. Ngakho-ke, ingaphakathi elikhethiwe kahle liyisiqinisekiso sokuthula kwengqondo. Kusho ukuthini "okulungile" kithi?
Ngokusobala, sikhuluma ngokudala isitayela sethu esiyingqayizivele sezindlu ezanele ezweni langaphakathi lomuntu ngamunye.
Uzoqala kuphi? Okokuqala, kuyadingeka ukunquma ukukhetha "isiqondiso esiqondile" sezulu. Njengomthetho, izidingo zomthengi wanamuhla zihlanganisa ukutholakala "kwezindawo zokusebenza" - okungukuthi, ihhovisi, indawo yokuzijabulisa - igumbi lokuphumula kanye "nezindawo zokuphumula" - ukuphuma. Futhi konke lokhu "inqaba yethu" kufanele ihlale, kungakhathaliseki indawo kanye nesimo sethu somshado. Kodwa-ke, ngaphambi kokuthi uhlukanise indawo yokuhlala ezindaweni, kuyadingeka ukunquma ngezifiso zakho.
Yini esiyifunayo ekhaya? Ngakho, khetha isitayela. Kuzo zonke izinhlobo ezibonakalayo eqinisweni kuvela ukuthi izikhombisi-ndlela zesitayela ezisemqoka ziyizine kuphela: zakudala, zanamuhla, ze-ethno kanye nobuchwepheshe obuphezulu. Konke okunye sekuvele imininingwane yokwenza isitayela.
Indlela yokukhetha umklamo wangaphakathi? Abanye abaklami baqala inqubo yokudala nge ... isidlo esingakahlelekile esitolo sokudlela namakhasimende. Ekuboneni kokuqala, kunzima ukucabangela umsebenzi womqondo womculi omkhulu ngemuva kokungcebeleka, ingxoxo enhle. Lona ikhono lakhe. Ingxoxo engavamile, yezwe empeleni ingxoxo. Umklami unobtrusively uqhuba ukuhlola kwakhe: amathoni abandayo noma afudumele? I-Minimalism noma i-floridity? Isikhumba noma i-velvet? Ekupheleni kwesidlo sakusihlwa, ochwepheshe, njengombuso, usuvele ekhula "ukuxilongwa". Ukuqamba kancane - uma kungesiyo inhloso yethu ukucela usizo kumklami wezobuchwepheshe, ungaqhuba "i-interview" ngohlobo lwe "auto-ethnography" ngokwakho, uziphendule ngemibuzo elula. Kubalulekile ukukhumbula ngesikhathi esifanayo ukuthi umgomo wethu awukuthinti muntu nhlobo, kodwa ukudala izimo ezikhululekile kakhulu kithi.
Ngitshele ukuthi ungubani
Ngokwezigaba ezijwayelekile, bonke abantu bahlukaniswe ngokuzithoba ezinhlotsheni ezine: i-choleric, i-sanguine, i-phlegmatic ne-melancholic. Njengoba ngamunye wabo enombono okhethekile wezwe nokubona kwawo okuhle, indlela ehlukile yokuziphatha kanye nendlela yokuxhumana nabanye, abantu abahluke kakhulu komunye nomunye badinga imvelo ehluke ngokuphelele ukuze bazizwe bekhululekile.
Abantu abathandekayo bangempela "ama-fidgets", aqondile, aphuthumayo futhi anamandla. I-Phlegmatic, ngokuphambene nalokho, igxile futhi ilinganiswe. Kunzima ukuthukuthela noma ukumangala. Ama-sanguinics ahlanganisa ukuzwela kanye nekhono lokuthathwa ngabantu base-choleric ngokucabangela nokujula kwezizwe ze-phlegmatic. Okokugcina, abantu abancibilikisayo abanandaba neze-hypochondriac, kodwa bezwela, bephendula futhi bamukela.
Futhi nakuba esimweni sabo esihlanzekile lezi zintathu zingavamile ngokweqile, singakwazi ukukhuluma ngokuziphatha okubaluleke kakhulu, okubaluleke kakhulu.
Esinye iseluleko esincane. Ungasheshi ukuphonsela "konke okungenakuqhathaniswa". I-souvenirs, izindlalifa zomndeni, ama-trinkets azinhle azothola indawo endaweni yangaphakathi entsha. Indlu engenamaphuzu emlandweni wokuphila kufana nesundu ngaphandle kwemigqa.
Khumbula umbala. Mhlawumbe, esinye seziphakamiso ezisemqoka ekwakhiweni kuyoba yinkinga yombala. Ngokushesha nje uma uqonda, yimiphi imibala ofuna ukuhlala ngayo ngenjabulo ngemuva kwalokho - umbala ngokwayo "uzokhetha" imigqa yokwakha kanye nokuklanywa kwendawo. "Ngethoni" kulula kakhulu ukukhetha izinto zokuqedela, izesekeli nezinye izesekeli. Kungaba kuhle ukuqondiswa, ngaphezu kweziphakamiso zobuhle, ngokwenza yonke imininingwane.
Isixazululo sokwakha. Ngokuqinisekile umnikazi wesikhala esiphilayo akuyona imfihlo ukuthi akudingekile ukudiliza izindonga. Ngesizo zonke izinhlobo zamadivayisi wokukhanyisa wanamuhla, igumbi elifanayo lingashintsha ngaphezu kokuqaphela. Nokho, asikhohlwa ngokuhambisana. Asiqedi izibuko ezindala, izibani kanye nama-aquariums ngokungahambi kahle okungacabangi. Kodwa asizami ukufaka "izesekeli" izesekeli kusukela esikhathini esidlule sangaphakathi kuya lapho zicacile khona.
Ekugcineni
Ukulungiswa, yiqiniso, kuyinhlekelele yemvelo. Kodwa phatha konke ifilosofi futhi ukhumbule ukuhlakanipha kwabantu: "Shesha - abantu bayamhlekisa." Shesha ukulungiswa - yinto engathandeki kunazo zonke. Emva kwakho konke, umgomo wethu wokugcina ukuzungezela indawo yonke encane ethokomele, okungaphezu kwalokho noma yikuphi ukuzamazama komhlaba akuyona into embi.
UKUHLOLA Umvumelwane nokungavumelani nezitatimende kuhlolwa ngesilinganiso se-10: 1. Ngaphambi kwanoma imuphi umcimbi obalulekile kimi, ngiqala ukwesaba. 2. Ngisebenza ngokungalingani, ngokubanjwa. 3. Ngishintsha ngokushesha kusuka kwesinye icala kuya kwesinye. 4. Uma kunesidingo, ngiyakwazi ukulinda ngokuphepha. 5. Ngidinga ukuzwelana nokusekelwa, ikakhulukazi uma kwenzeka ukuhluleka nezinkinga. 6. Ngokulingana nginqatshelwe futhi ngiyashesha. 7. Akunzima kimi ukukhetha. 8. Angidingi ukuvimbela imizwelo yami, kuvela ngokwayo.
Bala isisindo senhlobo ngayinye yobumnene obuphathekayo kuwe ngokwemibandela: i-melancholic = 1 + 5; i-choleric = 2 + 6; i-sanguine = 3 + 7; i-phlegmatic = 4 + 8 Izimpawu ezihambelanayo - X, C, F, M - bhala phansi amanani abo ngokuhlehla. Ngakho uzothola ifomula ye-temperament eyokuqala, uzokwazi ukunquma ingqondo ekhona kuwe futhi usebenzise ulwazi oluzuziwe ekwakheni ikhaya elihlelekile nelingaphakathi kwangaphakathi.
Ungobani?
I-Choleric - engesabi ukwedlulela futhi ithatha izinqumo ezinesibindi, ngakho-ke i-eclectic, i-motley ne-ornate ingxube izobe ilungile;
- Ikamelo kufanele livuleke, ukuze ifenisha kanye nama-knick-knacks ungavimbeli ukuba kungashukunyanga ngokushesha futhi kugxile enhliziyweni;
- ukuphumula ngokomzwelo, ingaphakathi le-choleric idinga amafomu alula futhi aqinile: i-minimalism noma i-hi-tech inhle, ikakhulukazi uma ifenisha ye-modular ephathekayo izonelisa intshisekelo yenguquko futhi yenza impilo ibe namandla kakhulu, inikeze ushintsho oludingekayo lwemibono;
- Intukuthelo yomuntu ochotshozayo uyokwanelisa izinhlelo zokukhanyisa zanamuhla zokuhlobisa, ezingahlukahluka kuye ngokuthi isimo sengqondo nesimiso sokuhlelwa kwemicabango okwamanje;
- umklamo wombala wezinto zangaphakathi kufanele "upholise" ikhanda lakhe elishisayo, ngakho-ke kulungile ukuthi ama-choleric athintshwe yi-shades eluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka, engahlanjululwa kuluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka, hhayi olune-orange noma obomvu, njengoba ethanda;
- ngenxa yesimo sengqondo esinamandla, kubalulekile ukucabanga ngokucophelela ngendawo yangaphakathi yezokuzilibazisa: kufanele kube nemigoqo epholile endlini egcinwe ebangeni elipholile, elithambile kahle futhi lingekho emqondweni;
I-Melancholic
- ngaphakathi ngaphakathi kungabi nengozi;
- Into eyinhloko yokweqisa ukugwema ukucindezeleka, ngakho kubalulekile ukudala umzungezo, ukufudumala, induduzo nokuthula;
- izintandokazi zakhe zihluke kakhulu: kusukela ezindala kuya ezanamuhla, kusukela kwisitayela saseScandinavia kuya ku-ethno; Into eyinhloko yukuthi ezindlini zokuxubha lezozinto azifunayo, phakathi kwazo lapho angazizwa khona ukuqinisana nokududuza kwengqondo, ziqoqwa;
- isikhala nokungabi nalutho kucindezela ukuxolisa, kodwa emaphandleni, efihlekile ekukhanyeni amehlo, echoboza isikhala sefulethi, kubonakala sengathi uyindlela yokududuza;
- ikamelo lingcono ukuzitholwa ngokusebenzisa ama-rack, izikrini noma izimpumputhe ezibonakalayo;
- ukhetha ukukhanya okulula, okungafani, okuthanda ukugqamisa izithombe nezindwangu; ukukhanya kufanele kugijime kahle emthunzini;
- kubalulekile ukumboza phansi ngamaphepheni noma ukumboza okunethezeka ngenqwaba, ukuhambisa izinyathelo nokufudumala izinyawo;
- ifenisha akufanele ibe nama-angles abukhali, ngoba ukudla okuncibilikisayo ku-propensity kuya ovals nemibuthano;
- isixazululo sombala sendawo yaso yangaphakathi - ngaso sonke isikhathi sikhanya, sikhanya futhi singacasuli, sigcwele imibala ephuzi - kusuka emgqeni wesihlabathi somfula kuze kube se-amber ne-terracotta egcwele;
- ukuthandana nokuzizwa kwesibonakaliso sokuzenzekela ngokweqile ngokwakho ngokunamathiselwe, ngakho-ke ukugcina imidwebo yezithombe, imidwebo yezingane, izethulo, amathoyizi kanye nezimbali ezomisiwe, uzodinga ikhamera, i-niche, isifuba noma i-closet encane.
I-Sanguine
- uhlala ngokugqamile, ezwa ukugcwala kwemizwa, ngakho-ke ingaphakathi lakhe kufanele lidwetshwe ngemibala emisha futhi ekhanyayo: ophuzi, i-orange, ukhilimu, obomvu, i-amber, i-terracotta;
- Indlu yesondlo igcwele injabulo namandla, kunomoya omningi nokukhanya kuyo, ngakho-ke i-sanguine izojabula ukudiliza izindonga ezimbalwa ngaphandle kokufihla izingxenyana ezithokozile;
- Akayithandi ifenisha enkulu futhi ulawula isethi encane yezinto;
- isitayela sakhe esithandwayo kunzima ukuqagela, kodwa into eyinhloko ukuthi kukhona umoya omningi, okhanyayo nombala, ingilazi nezibuko, ezibukeka zikhulisa isikhala;
- ngokuvamile, kubalulekile ukudala isimo esimnandi nesicabangelayo sokuhlala endlini, ukuze izivakashi zifike enkosini enjabulo.
I-Phlegmatic
- ukuzinza nokuthula - izindinganiso ezimbili eziyinhloko zengaphakathi le-phlegmatic;
- Uthanda izinto ezinokwethenjelwa ezingahambisani nezitayela zetfashini, ngakho-ke ingxenye enhle yefenisha endlini izothathwa njengefa;
- isigamu sesibili, esicacile futhi esithembekile, uzothenga yena futhi uzoqaphela ukuyithumela enzalweni yakhe esimweni esihle;
- i-phlegmatic ikhetha isitayela se-classic;
- ifenisha kuye, hhayi kuphela ubuhle nokulula kubalulekile, kodwa futhi izici design, ubungane bemvelo ngezinto, ukuqina namandla amandla izindlela ezisetshenzisiwe;
- ingaphakathi lendlu yakhe lizobonakala liqinile futhi lihloniphekile, cishe lingashintshi amashumi eminyaka;
- Induduzo yezinto zangaphakathi, ngokuyinhloko idala umbala omnandi othungelekile, kanye nokuningi kwempahla yemvelo - i-ceramics, izinkuni, itshe lemvelo;
- ukuhlobisa ingaphakathi, njengombuso, kuzodinga ukudweba, izincwadi, ukudweba nokudweba izithombe;
- izibani kufanele futhi zihluke namafomu yendabuko, amancane ngisho namandulo futhi anikeze ukukhanya okulula;
- Iphansi limbozwe ngependeti futhi lihlotshiswe ngamaphepheni akhiwe ngoboya bemvelo;
- ngoba umyalelo womuntu we-phlegmatic ubaluleke kakhulu, ngakho-ke kubalulekile ukuthi ungakhohlwa ngamagumbi okugqoka, amakhabethe namakhabethe, amaphethelo kanye nama-wardrobes okusiza ukuhleleka impilo.
Kodwa noma ngabe ungubani, khumbula ukuthi akekho enye indlu ezobukeka njengeyakho! Ngempela, uhlukile!