1. Khumbula amaphupho amathathu abancane abancane
Ingane encane, wawungumcwaningi omkhulu. Babefuna ukuthinta, ukuhlangana nokuhlukanisa lokho abangakufinyelela. Futhi kwenzekani kuwe? Kwenzekani emdlandleni? Ufihlile ukuze ulondoloze. Ake sikhumbule ukuthi yini ophuphe ngayo, futhi sizokubuyisela intshiseko yakho.
Bhala konke owakuthandayo ebuntwaneni. Yenza uhlu. Sula konke ngaphandle kwezinto ezintathu. Nciphisa uhlu kuze kube yilapho kuzwakala ubuhlungu, futhi kuphela lapho uzoqonda ukuthi iziphi izakhi ezidingekayo ekuphileni kwakho kwangaphambilini. Lawa angamatshe akho ekhoneni okuzokwakha ikusasa.
2. Yakha Amaphupho Alahlekile Alahlekile & Atholiwe
Thatha ibhokisi, isibonelo isithuthuthu, ulibeke phansi eduze kwedeski. Yibize ngokuthi "amaphupho alahlekile" alahlekile futhi atholakele. "Bhala phansi zonke izigaba kwezinye izingcezu ezincane zephepha ongafanele uzifinyelele uma uzibophezela emgomweni owodwa. ufuna ukuxhumana ngokushesha noma ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, bhala phansi zonke izifiso eziphuthumayo, usebenze nezilwane, uye eHawaii, ufunde ukuthi ungabumba kanjani ama-Buddha enobumba, njll.
Mhlawumbe, usuku luzofika lapho uzobe ukhululekile, uzofuna ukukhumbula la maphupho - futhi awukwazi. Kodwa uma uzigcina ebhokisini, bazokulinda lapho. Yonke imisebenzi eqhubekayo kusukela ebuntwaneni noma ephindaphindiwe ngamafantasi - lokhu kuyisifiso sakho.
3. Yiba yi-ace
Hlala phansi ufake iwashi phambi kwakho. Futhi manje ngamasekhondi angamashumi amathathu uphenduke waba yinkosi ye-aerobatics futhi usho ngakho ngokuthakazelisayo ukuthi noma ubani ofuna ukuhlala endaweni yakho. "Ngingumshayeli. Ukujabulela inkululeko esibhakabhakeni - kuhle. Okungaphezu kwakho konke ngiyakuthanda ukuphakama ngaphezu kwezintaba bese ngilandela emifuleni, ngihamba phakathi kwezindonga zamadwala. Ngiyathanda ukuduma kwemoto nokuzwa kwamandla. "
Uyakwazi? Zizame wena bese uqala nomshayeli-pilot-kuphela ngenxa yenjabulo. Bese uphinda futhi, kodwa isikhathi ngasinye kungenye indlela. Yiba ibhola elikhulu ku-Bolshoi Theatre, umcwaningi wase-Antarctic, umzingeli wezithombe ze-cheetah. Cabanga nganoma yikuphi, bese uba ngumshumayeli osebenzayo walokhu. Uma kunokwenzeka, hlanganisa abangane bese uzama ndawonye. Sithembisa ukuthi uzoyithanda.
4. Ake ucabange ukuthi unesibindi futhi unomhlanhla
Ake sicabange izinto ezimbili. Okokuqala, ukuthi unesibindi kakhulu futhi uhlala ehlombe. Futhi okwesibili, ake ucabange ukuthi uphumelele kuwe futhi inhlanhla ayikusongeli. Manje ngitshele ukuthi yini okwenzayo ngempela - bhala phansi eshadini noma kumrekhoda okungenani izimpendulo ezingu-20 zombuzo othi "Ungenzenjani uma unesibindi futhi wazi kahle ukuthi uzofezani?"
5. Thola ukuhlaziywa kwabantu abadumile
Ama-biographies wabantu abenza okufana nawe. Futhi imibhalo yezinto eziphilayo zabantu abangekho ngokuphelele ukuthi ungubani. Phakathi kwabantu baseRashiya nabangaphandle, abantu abaphila ngesikhathi esifanayo nabomlando.
Abantu abaningi bakhuluma ngokuphila kwabo ukuze kukusize ukuba ufunde indlela yokuphila.
6. Cabanga ngosuku lwakho oluphelele
Wonke umuntu uzwile mayelana nokusebenza koMhlahlandlela we "Ideal Day". Phinda uphinde uphile usuku lwakho oluhle, kodwa manje naka amaphuzu amathathu.
Okokuqala, cabanga ngomzuzu wakho owuthandayo ephusheni lakho. Kwenzekani ngempela? Iyini isiteji esiyinhloko kumaphupho akho?
Okwesibili, cabanga ukuthi uzophumula kanjani futhi uphumule ekuphileni kwakho okuhle?
Okwesithathu, zibuze imibuzo:
- Kulo fantasy yakho, amaphupho agcwaliseka kuphela emva kokungenelela kwamandla angaphandle?
- Ekugcineni, ingukusindiswa noma umvuzo okulindelwe wena, yikuphi abantu abakhethekile kuphela abathola?
- Kule fantasy uthola "noma" uvule "?
- Futhi umbuzo ovelele kunazo zonke: ingabe impilo yakho ayinalutho ngaphandle kokuphela okujabulisayo okunjalo?
7. Gcwalisa wonke amakhono akho
Ukube ubungabantu abayishumi, ngabe ngamunye wenu wayilahla kanjani impilo yakho? Bhala phansi okwenzayo kulowo nalowo muntu. Ufuna okungaphezu kweyishumi? Sicela. Bhala okuningi ngokufunayo! Uhlu lungabonakala kanje: imbongi, umculi, osomabhizinisi ophumelelayo, isazi se-Sinologist, umpheki we-cuisine cuisine yokudlela, umhambi, umlimi wendabuko, umyeni nobaba, intatheli, umhleli wezinkulumo.
Une uhlu ezandleni zakho, phambi kwakho ikusasa lakho. Ukuze uthole indlela yokuphila ngayinye yalezi zimpilo, phendula imibuzo:
- Uhlobo luni lokuphila ongazinikela kulo nyaka ozayo?
- Uhlobo luni lokuphila ongahlala nalo uma uqaphela kuqala?
- Yini ongayenza imizuzu engamashumi amabili (noma embalwa) ngosuku?
- Futhi kuthi-ngezimpelasonto?
- Yini ongayenza ngezikhathi ezithile?
Ungacabangi ukuthi ungangena kanjani kuleli zwe - cabanga ngendlela yokuhlela impilo ukuze uvumelane ngayo namakhono akho amaningi.
8. Yenza uhlelo lweminyaka eyi-100
Hlukanisa ishidi kuma-columns angu-4:
- Ubudala (5, 10, 15 nokunye, kuze kube yiminyaka eyikhulu).
- Umcimbi oyinhloko.
- Yini engiyifundile.
- Into emangalisa kakhulu engibonile.
Ngaphambi kweminyaka yobudala bakho, lezi zikholomu zidinga ukugcwala imicimbi ebalulekile - eneminyaka engu-7 ubudala, baya esikoleni, bangamashumi amabili baya eMoscow, bashade ngo-25, njll. Qhubeka kuze kube manje, bese uqhubeka - hlela ikusasa: eminyakeni engama-50 waya eTibet, kanti u-65 uphinde washada. Yenza uhlelo lwakho lweminyaka engu-100! Khipha umcabango wenkululeko! Ngemuva kokuqedela ukuvivinya umzimba, bhala phansi ukuthi le ndlela engacabanga ngayo eminyakeni eyikhulu ifundise. Kungenzeka ukuthi uzothola incazelo yokuphila.
9. Hamba ngokushelela ephusheni kungakapheli ihora
Isinyathelo esincane ekuboniseni iqiniso kungabangela ukukhululeka okumangalisayo. Kungakapheli ihora elilandelayo, uhlanganyele ngokujulile ekuhambeni komgomo wakho. Setha i-timer ngehora bese uzizinikela kunoma yimiphi imigomo noma amaphupho owawutholile ngemuva kokuthi wenze izivivinyo eziyisishiyagalombili zangaphambilini. Misa ngehora. Noma ungayeki. Yehlisa konke ukwesaba nakho konke "uma." Yeka ukuhlela! Shayela, uvumelane, uthembisa, hamba ngaphandle kombundu, yenze. Okwamanje.
Ngendlela, uma ungasabi ukwesaba noma ukungabaza isikhathi esithile, kodwa uzwa umdlandla nenjabulo, ke usulungele ukungena ezweni bese uqaphela isimo sakho esimangalisayo.
Ukuphila kufushane kakhulu ukuhlala ngaphandle komgomo. Ukuphila kuyisimanga kakhulu ukuhlala ngaphandle kokuthanda. Ukuphepha kunengozi kunokuba ucabange. Ekujuleni komphefumulo wakho, uphupha nge-adventure. Ukhululekile ngokuphelele ukukhetha iphupho. Yini ofuna ukuyenza ngokuphila kwakho? Yini okufanele uyenze ngayo?
Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi uthatha isinqumo, ugqozi uphinde ulungele kuwe!
Ngokusekelwe encwadini ethi "Yini ongayiphupha ngayo."