Ngeshwa, imibhangqwana eminye ngenxa yezizathu ezithile noma enye inqatshelwe ukuthi kungenzeka ukuba nomntwana. Imizamo eminingi yokukhulelwa kwengane ibangela ukuwa komshado noma ithemba, kodwa imithi yesimanje ingasiza ekuxazululeni ngisho nezinkinga ezinkulu ezinjengokungabantwana. Kulesi sihloko "ukuxoshwa kokufakelwa komzimba kanye nomama wokubeletha" sizoveza indlela ongayithola ngayo injabulo. Namuhla, imitholampilo eminingi ibhekene nomama wokubeletha kanye nokuqothulwa kokufakelwa. Lezi zinhlelo zinika ithuba lokuzwa injabulo yokuba ngumama kubo bonke abesifazane abashiywa leli thuba ngenxa yezizathu zempilo.
Yonke into iqala ngokuqothulwa kwamakhemikhali - lokhu kuyindlela yokukhulelwa, lapho ukukhulelwa kwenzeka khona ngamandla okufakelwa, okungukuthi, ngosizo lwezinsimbi zokwelapha. Kulokhu, sebenzisa isidoda noma iqanda labazali besikhathi esizayo. Ama-ovules akhulelwe adluliselwa emzimbeni womunye owesifazane - umama obelethayo. Ososayensi bathole ukuthi amathuba okukhulelwa aphakathi kuka-30 no-70%. Ungaphinde ubeke iqanda lomama onomuntu onesidoda sowesilisa futhi namanje ingane idluliselwa kumbhangqwana oshadile.
Umama wokuzikhethela ubuchwepheshe bokuzala bokusiza, lapho owesifazane oyedwa avuma ukukhulelwa nokubeletha kwengane ehlukile kuye, ozoqhubeka nokukhuliswa kwabazali bezakhi zofuzo. Bazobhekwa njengabazali bezomthetho, ngisho noma umntwana ebelethwe ngumama ozithandayo.
Ngaphambi kwalezi zinqubo, ukuhlolwa okugunyaziwe kuhlelelwe owesifazane ozoba ngumama obelethayo. Udokotela ubona ukuhamba kwakhe kokuya esikhathini, amalungiselelo e-hormonal anqunywe, okwandisa amathuba okukhulelwa okuphumelelayo. Lezi zidakamizwa zikhuthaza ama-ovari ukukhiqiza amaqanda amaningana avuthiwe, ngakho-ke le mithi kufanele isetshenziswe kusukela ekuqaleni komjikelezo omusha wokuya esikhathini. Udokotela bese esebenzisa i-ultrasound nokuhlolwa ukuze anqume isikhathi esifanele sokukhulelwa. Emva kwalolu hlelo, emva kwamasonto amabili, ungathola ukuthi ukukhulelwa kufikile noma cha. Inqubo ngokwayo ihlala isikhathi esifushane, ithatha cishe ihora, kodwa ayisebenzi ngaso sonke isikhathi okokuqala, abanye kufanele baqhubeke nale nqubo izikhathi ezintathu kuya kweziyisithupha. Ukuphumelela kokuqothulwa kwamakhemikhali kuncike ezintweni ezibalulekile: iminyaka yabazali kanye nempilo yabo. Uma iqanda lisetshenziselwa umama ozithandayo, ezinye zezinhlobo zakhe zingasakazwa. Futhi uma kusetshenziselwa iqanda kanye nesidoda salo mbhangqwana, ingane izothatha ifa lomzimba wezingane zakhe eziphilayo.
Ngemuva kokuzalwa kwengane, isitifiketi sokuzalwa, imvume yomama, eyathwala ingane kanye nesitifiketi esivela emtholampilo, iyadingeka ukuba ibhalise. Umama osondelene ngemuva kokudluliselwa kwengane kubazali akasenayo amalungelo kumntwana. Uma umama wokubeletha ozayo enendoda, khona-ke le nqubo idinga imvume yakhe. Ukuze ugweme izinkinga eziningi, phetha isivumelwano. Inkontileka iyabhizinisi futhi ayiyona ezohwebo. Ngaphansi kwenkontileka yezentengiselwano, umama ozithandayo uthola inzuzo engokwenyama, futhi isivumelwano esingenzi-commercial sithatha kuphela ukukhokha izindleko ngesikhathi ukhulelwe. Inkontileka kufanele icacise izinto ezilandelayo: izindleko zezokwelapha, isinxephezelo sokulahlekelwa kwemali, indawo yokuhlala umama okhulelwe ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa, emtholampilo lapho kuzokwenziwa khona inqubo, imiphumela yokuzalwa kwengane ekhubazekile, imisebenzi yomama wokubeletha ekufezeni imiyalelo kadokotela.
Izinsizakalo zomama wokubeletha zingasetshenziselwa imibhangqwana eshadile kuphela, kodwa futhi ngamadoda nabesifazane abangashadile. Umthetho awuhlinzeki nganoma yikuphi ukuvinjelwa esimweni somshado, ubulili kanye nokuzibandakanya ngokocansi. Izifundo zibonise ukuthi abantu abaye banquma ukuthatha lesi sinyathelo baneliseke. Omunye ulungile ngomqondo wokufakelwa wengane, kanti omunye ungeyena omubi, kodwa naphezu kwale mibono ephikisanayo, loluhlangothi lwezokwelapha luzokhula, ngoba, ngeshwa, kuyoba khona imibhangqwana engakwazi ukukhulelwa kwengane ngokwazo. Ngokuqinisekile kuzoba nomphumela wokuthi lo mbhangqwana wawutholile ingane ngendlela engokwemvelo, kodwa umama ozithandayo wahlukana nengane ayeyithwele ngaphansi kwenhliziyo yakhe, kodwa konke lokhu ngeke kuthathe isikhathi lapho umama nobaba bethola ingane yabo efisa kakhulu.