Kuze kube manje, ayikho incazelo ejwayelekile evunyelwe yegama elithi "impilo", kunezincazelo ezingaphezu kuka-200 zalesi sigaba. Ngombono wami, okuncane kakhulu, okuqondakalayo, okufinyeleleka futhi okwanele incazelo yeNhlangano YezeMpilo Yezwe (WHO), ngokusho ukuthi "impilo" iyini isimo sokuphila okuphelele ngokomzimba, kwengqondo nangenhlalakahle, hhayi kuphela ukungabikho kwezifo noma ubuthakathaka.
Ngokufanayo, ayikho incazelo ejwayelekile evumelwaneni yegama elithi "injabulo", ngayinye ichaza ngendlela yayo, ngokusekelwe emigomeni yomuntu siqu. Incazelo yami siqu yilezi: injabulo impilo kuzo zonke izici zayo: ngokomzimba, ngokwengqondo nangokwenhlalo. Esihlokweni sethu esithi "Injabulo iyiMpilo" uzofunda ukuthi injabulo ithinta kanjani impilo. Futhi manje ake sibheke zonke izingxenye futhi sithole ukuthi yini edingekayo nokuthi yini esingafuni injabulo. Ake siqale ngenxenye yomzimba. Kungenzeka futhi kuyadingeka ukubuyisela nokulondoloza impilo yakho. Odokotela bathi akukho muntu onempilo, kukhona abantu abangathuthuki. Ngakho-ke kuyadingeka:
ukuhlolwa nokufaneleka kwezifo nezifo (Angiqondile "ukuxilongwa kwekhomphyutha" futhi okuthiwa "ukwelashwa" nezidakamizwa zenkampani ethile - ibhizinisi kuphela). Kulokhu ngokuvamile asinaso isikhathi nemali (manje konke akusizi mahhala), kodwa ungangena okungenani ukuhlolwa okuyingxenye yalezi zitho nezinhlelo onenkinga yokuthi kukhona izikhalazo, unake izifo ezingapheli; thola onguchwepheshe onguchwepheshe, ozophathwa ngaye futhi obhekele (ngakhetha udokotela okhetha imikhiqizo yemvelo kusuka ezitshalweni); ukuphulukisa izifo zabo, futhi esikhathini esizayo nje balondoloze umzimba wabo ngendlela efanele; qaphela ukudla. Kufanele kube nemicabango, okuwukuthi, egcwele, ukuhlangabezana nezidingo zakho. Izidingo zemvelo (gwema imikhiqizo "eyingozi", njengezinhlobo ezihlukahlukene zokwenziwa kwe-synthetic, imayonnaise, ama-yogurts, ama-chips, iziphuzo ze-carbonate nama-dyes, ama-sausages, imikhiqizo eqedile, njll). Qaphela umsebenzi owenziwe ngokwanele: hamba ngokuphindaphindiwe kunezokuthutha komuzi, yenza umzimba, uvame ukuphefumula umoya omusha, uchithe isikhathi samahhala ngaphandle, hhayi phambi kwe-TV.
Manje ake sikhulume ngempilo yengqondo nezenhlalakahle. Umuntu uhlala phakathi kwabanye abantu futhi akunakwenzeka ukugwema ithonya labanye. Kodwa ngifuna ukusho ukuthi izwe alibi noma lihle - yilokho esikubona khona.
Okokuqala, zama ukufunda ukuthi ubona kanjani izinhlangothi ezinhle zokuphila kwakho. Cabanga ngokuthi abantu abaningi abanalo lokho onakho (impilo, umndeni, umsebenzi, njll), futhi uyazisa konke onakho.
Amandla amandla - (yebo, kuyiqiniso elingenakuphikwa ukuthi labo bakhona), ngoba ukuxhumana nabo, nokuxabana okuningi, ukuxabana, ukulimaza wena kuphela. Ngami, ngiyazi ukuthi kunzima kangakanani uma umuntu osebenza naye ephenduka umuntu onamandla, futhi akekho indlela yokugwema ukukhuluma naye, hhayi ukuyeka umsebenzi wakhe ngenxa yalokhu ... Bese uzama ukwenza amasu akho namaqhinga nomuntu onjalo. Ngaphandle kwalokho ungaphikisani naye. Thula noma ngamazwi avumelane nakho konke, kodwa kwenze ngendlela yakho, ubonise ukuthula kwakho nokunganaki ekuphenduleni zonke "iziqu" zakhe. Ungaphumeleli empini ngaphansi kwanoma yisiphi isici. Thatha isithunzi (isibonelo, i-valerian) ngaphambi kokuxhumana naye futhi ukhumbule: ukubekezela kwakho kuphela kuzonqoba konke. Ngakho-ke, le vampire ngeke ithole amandla akho amabi, ayidla, futhi maduze ayesekuthola (uzothola ezinye izisulu ezibuthakathaka). Ngikholelwa, lokhu kuzokusiza, nginokuhlangenwe nakho okufanayo.
Iyancipha, iphakamisa isimo sengqondo. Zenzele okuhle wena nabanye. Phatha abanye njengoba ufuna ukuthi bakuphathe. Yiqiniso, "okuhle kujeziswa," kodwa kukhona nabantu abalungile abazokuphendula kahle ngomusa wakho. Funda ukuzithanda wena. Yenza lokho okukujabulisayo (ngaphandle kokuphula amalungelo abanye). Qala usuku ngokumomotheka - ngaphambi kwesibuko, uzomomotheka futhi uthi ungcono kakhulu, uphumelele, ukuthi uzoba ngcono. Usuku lwamanje, isimo sakho sengqondo sizoxhomeke kakhulu ekutheni uqale kanjani, ukuthi uzibeka kanjani; gqoka njengoba uthanda, ukhululekile kangakanani, hhayi njengoba abanye befuna.
Zama ukukhokha kancane ukugxila nokugxeka abanye. Wonke umuntu akajabuli, wonke umuntu akhathazekile, ngakho-ke kungani ukhathazeka futhi ulahlekelwa izinzwa zakho (futhi, ngokufanele, impilo) kuso. Gxilisa amandla akho ekufinyeleleni imigomo yakho. Zenzele wena ukhenketho nencazelo yokuphila. Phila kuye, wenqaba enye into, ngoba kufanele ukwazi ukudela okuthile. Zama ukugcina lawa macebiso alula, futhi nakanjani azokusiza.