Ingabe kunzima ukuba indodakazi yabazali abadumile?
Ezweni lakithi, lesi sici sivimbela kakhulu. Emazweni angaphandle enza ama-dynasties ahlonishwa kakhulu. Uma indodakazi idutshulwa ku-movie enobaba odumile, bayasho lokhu kuphela. E-Russia, masinyane bheka kulokhu okusobala. Ngimangalisa ukuzwa lokhu: kumsebenzi owenzayo, ukungaboni kahle kungenzeka, kodwa umbukeli akakwazi ukukubuka i-movie enezingcweti ezingenalutho. Futhi ngeke nakanjani angene emidlalo yezemidlalo. Ingabe ulahlekelwa ngempela uyise oyisekela ka-Alexander Abdulov manje?
Ngifake imibuzo eminingi kuye njengendoda. Maye, angikwazi ukuwazwisa manje ... Kodwa ngikhuluma naye kaningi kakhulu kunokuphila kwakhe. Ngiyazi ukuthi ukhona eduze, ngikhuluma naye futhi ngiyazi ukuthi manje nginesivikelo esengeziwe ezulwini.
Xenia, ubona kanjani ubaba wakho ophilayo-isi-Bulgarian?
Angithandi ukukhuluma ngale ndaba. Ngokushesha izikrini zizokhishwa ifilimu engiyibamba ngobaba wami - u-Alexander Abdulov, futhi kulesi sithombe ngizokutshela kancane ngobaba wami ophilayo. Nginabobaba oyedwa - u-Alexander Abdulov, futhi lokho kwanele kimi. Akuyona ibhizinisi labantwana ukuthethelela noma ukungathetheleli abazali: bazozihlukanisa phakathi kwabo.
U-Xenia , manje awusona nje umdlali wezithombe, kodwa futhi nomfazi oshadile, umama omncane. Uzizwa kanjani kulezi zinduna ze-Ksenia Alferova edume futhi enhle?
Mhlawumbe, owesifazane omdala, angizizwa ngami, futhi mhlawumbe ngeke ngikuthande. Ugogo "uyinhlangano yama-hooligan" endala futhi enhle kakhulu enhliziyweni yakhe kuma-80s. Ngakho-ke, lona wesifazane - akuyona neze mina! Kwakulokhu kuhloswe emndenini: waphupha indlu enkulu, uthando lokuphila nomyeni oyedwa. Ngisebenzele nami kubalulekile, kodwa kuyindlela yokuziveza, ngoba amandla nemibono ehlukahlukene bangishaya ngesikhiye. Ngangiqiniseka: izinguquko eziyinhloko owesifazane zenzeka uma eba umama, hhayi lapho indoda nowesifazane beqala ukuphila okuvamile. Akunandaba: lababili babhalisiwe ngokomthetho noma cha. Ngokwesibonelo, u-Egor nami, ngemva komshado, ngo-November 2001, sanquma ukushada. Lesi kwakuyisinyathelo sethu esaziwayo.
Kwabaningi, umkhosi womshado ungumuntu ohlonipha imfashini yesimanje.
Angiyamukeli igama elithi "imfashini" . U-Egor futhi ngangizizwa ngidinga isakramente somshado. Kodwa ubaba akazange angivumele ngokushesha ukuthi ngishade, ngibhekisela ebucayi besenzo. Phela, inqubo ye-debunking ayikho, futhi umkhosi uyenzeka ezulwini. Uma owesifazane ngokuhamba kwesikhathi eyoba nomunye umuntu - kuyoba yisono. Ngoba emva komshado, umyeni munye - kokubili emhlabeni nasezulwini. Ngeluleka wonke umuntu ukuba acabangisise ngaphambi kokuba athathe isinyathelo esinjalo esinomthwalo wemfanelo. Yiziphi izinguquko emva komshado - Angikwazi ukuyihlela. Mhlawumbe, kukhona umqondo obaluleke kakhulu wemfanelo. Kuhle kakhulu, umuntu omdala hhayi umthwalo kimi. Lokhu kuseduze kakhulu nombhangqwana. Ngisho nangemva kokuzalwa kwentombazane kaDunya, ngaqala ukuzithanda kakhulu. Ngaqonda ukuthi kwakukukhuliswa kwengane nokukhuliswa kwengane, umndeni uyisimemezelo sami esikhulu samantombazane. Futhi usebenze - ngoba okuningi. Lapho ingane izalwa, kwaba nomuzwa wokuvumelana, futhi ngabona ukuthi ngaba ngowesifazane ogcwele. Ngokungazelelwe ngaqala ukuhlela konke kimi: Angisho ukuma kwempumu noma ubude bemilenze, kodwa ukuzwa okujwayelekile.
Xenia, ngubani okhathalela indodakazi kaDunya ngenkathi usendleleni?
Kuze kube unyaka nengxenye ngangihlala nengane, ngincelisa futhi ngingasebenzi nhlobo. Le nyanga, i-Duna izoba neminyaka emithathu ubudala, futhi manje iyingane. Kodwa ngizama ukuchitha sonke isikhathi sami samahhala endodakazini yami. Lapho ingane ivela emndenini, amanye amadoda ayenomona wokuthi abantwana bathatha ingxenye yalokho abesifazane abathintekayo kanye nothando kubo.
I-Egor ingakhula ngokushesha. Kuze kube unyaka wayenakekela ingane kangcono kunami futhi ngenjabulo enkulu: wayishintsha imidwebo, yageza. Angazi ukuthi ufunde kuphi lokhu! Kuyinto ehlekisayo uma amadoda ehawukela izingane zabo. Ngokuphambene nalokho, banesibopho sokuvikela owesifazane onomntwana kuzo zonke izinkinga zangaphandle. Ngaphezu kwalokho, unyaka ozayo, lapho ingane isivele iqalile ukuhamba, ibhalansi elahlekile yobudlelwane "owesilisa-wesifazane" linyanyiswa, futhi indoda ayizizwa ilahlwe. Kodwa kuxhomeke kulowo wesifazane uqobo. Yikuphi kokubili owazama ukulinganisa ibhalansi yakho?
Ngokwemvelo, nginguye . Kulula ekuqaleni, ngeke ihluke, ngoba umama oseduze kwengane yakhe amahora angu-24 ngosuku.
Khona-ke kufanele aphinde abe umfazi nowesifazane, eseke abe ngumama kuphela. Lena inqubo eyinkimbinkimbi yokwakhiwa kabusha: ukuphindaphindiwe ngokobulili nokukhangayo, ukuqeda ukugxila ngokweqile kwengane. Amanye amantombazane asaba ukuthi akhulelwe, ukuze angabhubhisi isibalo. Awunakho yini ukwesaba ukutshela ukuthi uyavumelana? Yeka ukuthi yikuphi ukungazizwa ngalezi zimo! Ngashesha ngokushesha. Wahamba kakhulu. Vele ungadli isinkwa ngobuningi, futhi ubeke esikhundleni semifino, izithelo kanye okusanhlamvu - into ewusizo kwengane. Iqiniso lokuthi labesifazane bayinkimbinkimbi ngenxa yesisindo, basolwa ngamadoda awakhulume ngawo. Indoda evamile ingayithandi kanjani emva kokuzalwa kwesisu noma isisu sayo? Ngicabanga ukuthi ungumntwana onjani? Ayikho inkinga. Mina nomama sasingabangane: akazange angicindezele umbono wakhe. Angithandi inqubo yemfundo. Phela, izingane ziyizidalwa ezihle kakhulu, ngokuziphatha kwazo nokuziphatha. Futhi umsebenzi wami njengomama akufanele ukonakalise amathalenta akhe emvelo futhi unikeze wonke amathuba okuthuthukiswa okugcwele. Ngakho ngakhulela umama. Wathi: "Wonke umuntu kufanele enze amaphutha ukuze aqonde ukuphila." Yiqiniso, umama wangisindisa ekuhlulekeni komhlaba. Uvame kangakanani ukuveza imizwelo ekuxabaneni komndeni?
Xenia, ngubani ongowokuqala ukuya enkundleni?
Kuphi ukuphikisana esikukhulumayo, kodwa ungahlakazi emakamelweni. Ungesabi ukuphikisana: basiza ukuqonda umsuka wenkinga. Uma kungenjalo, konke kuzophela ngesehlukaniso, futhi abashadile bazohlukanisa izitha. Into eyinhloko akuyona ukuvula umnyango, kodwa uhlale phansi bese ukhuluma ngezimangalo zomphakathi. Abazali babona kanjani uJegor Beroev, lapho umletha endlini yakho njengomyeni ongase abe ngumyeni?
Ngisho noma engazange abathande kakhulu, akekho ongangitshela lokhu emehlweni ami. Lokhu kuyisinqumo sami futhi ngihlala naye, hhayi umama! Uqonda yonke into, futhi noma ngabe engathandi uJeor, unina wayegcina umbono wakhe ngokwakhe. Ngakho-ke, angisazi ukuthi u-Yegor uthanda umama noma cha ... Kwenye yezingxoxo uthe awuzange ummele umlingisi esikhundleni somyeni wakho. Umama wayebumbene nawe?
Sasihlangana no-Egor emhlanganweni wesigungu we-First Channel. Wayengumdlali omncane we-Moscow Art Theatre. Nginesiqiniseko sokuthi umama wayefuna mina njengomyeni wakhe njengombhange oqinile noma imali ezinzile, kungenjalo! Ngoba umlingisi akayena ojulile. Ngaphezu kwalokho, kunabantu abambalwa kakhulu phakathi kwabadlali (angisho ukujwayela ngokobulili): lokhu kuyisimo somsebenzi wesifazane kuphela - ukuba sibheke, sihlale sithanda. Ubaba, u-Alexander Abdulov, uyisibonelo esihle somuntu owakwazi ukuhlala kulo mkhakha njengomuntu emnothweni wamathambo akhe. Mhlawumbe,
I-Egor nayo ihlukile kulokhu .
Xenia, wena kuleyo nkomfa yabezindaba wazama ukumnaka?
Cha, wanginqoba. Kwakuwumqondo wakhe. Ngavele ngithatha isithandwa futhi ngisabela kuJegor kude nesikhathi sokuqala. Wayengumngane wami, kodwa engasekho. Ukuxoxisana kwethu kwenzeka okungabonakali. Uzwela lwavuka masinyane, kodwa isikhathi eside ngangingeke ngikwazi ukuzenzela ngokwami okwenzeka kimi. Ngabe sengibona ukuthi anginalo umphakathi ka-Egor, engikhululekile kakhulu ngaye. Futhi nganquma - lolu uthando ...
Xenia, yikuphi okuthola kunzima ukuthola indawo evumelana nomyeni wakho?
Ubeka isikhathi esiningi futhi kusengaphambili amaqabunga azo yonke imihlangano, futhi ngiphatha isikhathi eside futhi ngingeke ngiphume endlini ngesikhatsi. Ngakho-ke, sinemoto emibili, futhi ayikho eyodwa - yayiyisisombululo senkinga yethu. Omunye umyeni uthambekele ekucabangeni ngazo zonke izinyathelo, kodwa ngenza konke ngokuzenzekelayo futhi angithandi ukwakha izinhlelo ezifinyelela kude. U-Egor ungumuntu ongabazisayo, ongenathemba, futhi ngingumuntu othembekile futhi ngihlale ngithemba ngomphumela omuhle kakhulu. Futhi yiliphi uhlobo lomuntu olungakudonseli amehlo akho? Ngaphandle kokuhleka kwemizwa, ukuziqhenya nokucabanga okucabangelayo. Angikwazi ukuhambisana nomuntu onjalo. Lapho abantu bezithatha ngokungathí sina, kubi! Ngithanda ukudlala iqhinga kumuntu, kodwa hhayi okubi. Ngezindlela eziningi, injabulo yomndeni ixhomeke ebuhlotsheni nobaba osemthethweni.
Ksenia Alferova odume futhi omuhle wakhula kanjani ukuqonda nabazali bomyeni wakhe?
Ngingumuntu ongenalo ukungqubuzana futhi ngingathola ulimi oluvame ngokushesha. I-Yegor nayo inezinhlamvu ezilula. Asihlali nabazali bethu - futhi kunjalo. Abafowenu kanye nomama womabili womshado bangaba kuhle, kodwa uma bonke behlala ngaphansi kophahla olufanayo - ngeke kube khona ukuthula emndenini. Sinokuphila kwethu, banezakhe. Sivakashela futhi sixhumana kahle. Umndeni ngamunye umthala ohlukile, ngendlela yawo yokuphila namandla.
Kukholelwa ukuthi wonke amadodakazi afana nomama: Xenia, yini oyithandayo nomama wakho?
Ngezindlela eziningi, ngisho nasemithonjeni yangaphandle. Ngokuvamile ngizibamba ngalokho engikwenzayo noma ngikhuluma ngendlela kamama. Mhlawumbe, lokhu akunakugwemeka. Wangiphakamisa nesibonelo sakhe. Ngomntwana wami, ngikhuluma ngendlela efanayo nomama ayevame ukwenza kimi. Futhi ungubani wena nomama wakho ngama-antipodes aphelele? Umama uyisethulo, futhi ngisebenza kakhulu. Uthanda ukuthandwa, kepha ngithanda izinkampani ezinkulu ezimnandi. Uma usenkingeni, ubelana nobani okuhlangenwe nakho kwakho: nomama wakho noma nabangani bakho? Ngesikhathi sengiseminyakeni yami, abangekho isikhalazo kumama, kodwa ukuxhumana nabangani. Nginabangane abahloniphekile. Akukaze kubhekane nokukhashelwa nokuziqhenya kwabangane. Ngicabanga, futhi akudingeki. Bathi udweba kahle ...
I-Ksenia Alferova edume futhi enhle inezinhlobo eziningi zokuzilibazisa: Ngingakwenza i-stucco, ihlanganiswe, ngidonse. Lokhu kwenzeka ngokuzenzekelayo. Ngivame ukudweba, ngaphansi kokuphefumulelwa futhi ngokuyinhloko engikubonayo. Ngaqala ukufunda isiNtaliyane, ngoba ngivame ukuhlala e-Italy no-Egor noDunya. Ngafunda isiNgisi, isiFulentshi nesiJalimane. Unayo indlu eSicily. Kungani kukhona? Eningizimu ye-Italy inemimoya enhle kakhulu, amahle amahle, abantu banomzwelo kakhulu, amadoda anesithakazelo. I-Italy yindlu yami yesibili, nginenhlanhla lapho.
Xenia, yimaphi amasiko ahambela emndenini wakho kubazali bakho?
Ngonyaka wonke umkhaya wonke , nabangane, sibhala ngoFebhuwari 6 - usuku lokuzalwa kukagogo uKsenia, ongumngane wami omkhulu. Ngo-Eva Wonyaka Omusha, kunzima ukuhlangana, futhi ngalolo suku, cishe wonke umuntu angakwazi. Ungummeli oqinisekisiwe futhi unethemba eliphakeme kule ndawo. Bese bashintshela ku-cinema naseshashalazini. Ungadabuki?
Iqiniso liwukuthi ohlangothini lukaMama zonke izihlobo zingabameli, futhi ugogo ugqoka isihloko esithi "Ummeli Omkhulu weNovosibirsk". Ngakho-ke, nganquma ukuya esikoleni somthetho eMoscow State University. Uqeqeshwe e-UK, eqenjini elihloniphekile lomthetho, wasebenza isikhathi esithile emthethweni waseBrithani oqinile eMoscow. Ngazame emkhakheni wezomthetho, kodwa ngaqaphela ukuthi lokhu akusiyo umsebenzi wami. Futhi nginqume ngokuqinile ukwenza lokho engikuthandayo kuphela. Lona ngumgomo wami wokuphila. Emaphephandabeni kwakukhona amahemuhemu mayelana "novel wenkonzo" kaYagor Beroev no-Ekaterina Gordeeva, iqhawe le-Olimpiki ekwenzeni i-skating skating, naye agijima kulo "Ice Age". Bathi futhi ngenxa yalokhu awufuni ukuhlanganyela ekuqhubekisweni kombukiso. Ingabe kukhona iqiniso kukho konke lokhu?
Mina no-Egor samangala lapho sifunda ngalezi zindaba ezivela emaphephandabeni. Akujabulisi, kodwa angiyikuchazela konke kubo bonke abantu. Ukunyathelisa okuphuzi kuyinkinga yezihlobo zethu nabantu abaseduze. Ngemuva kwezihloko ezinjalo kuyadingeka ukuba uzibambe. Uhlelo "Ice Age" luwumsebenzi omuhle. Sasiqeqeshwa okuningi, futhi wonke umuntu - imikhaya nomsebenzi. Akuwona wonke umuntu oyobhekana nemithwalo enjalo. Ngakho-ke, ngokomzimba kwakungekho amandla noma isikhathi sokuvusa amanoveli eqhwa. Safika ekhaya, futhi ngokushesha walala embhedeni, ewa ekukhathala. Ekuqaleni kwakuhlekisa kithi, kodwa manje le ndaba yinde kakhulu ... Umama wakho uthathe kanjani inhlebo mayelana no-Egor? Umama nje ubheke amehlo ami, futhi ngokushesha uyaqonda ukuthi yiqiniso, futhi yiyiphi into eqanjiwe. Ngombono wami, angiyikuveza umqondo wesifazane ongenakujabula, okhohlisiwe ... U-Egor mina nginento yokulahlekelwa - omunye nomunye.