Yini edingeka kakhulu owesifazane osanda kuba umama? Ekuqondeni, ekusekeleni, ngesikhathi esifanele lesi seluleko futhi, kuzo zonke lezi "zinto" ezimangalisayo ezakhiwe isintu ukunciphisa izinkinga zasemakhaya, ngoba kukhona ukudideka okukhulu "esimweni esisha" somama, kanti omunye kufanele asebenzise isikhathi ekuqondeni kwakhe, njengoba bethi, ngaphandle kwebutho kusuka ekukhiqizeni. Futhi izimo eziphuthumayo zenzeka cishe nsuku zonke. Izingane zakhala, nakuba zilambile futhi zomile, yini okufanele zenze? Ngimemeza bani? Ubani okufanele uxoxe naye? Isikhathi sokudla kokuqala. Ungampheka kanjani ukudla? Futhi ngokujwayelekile - yini nokuthi unganikeza kanjani?
Futhi konke lokhu "okucindezelayo" esikhathini sokuphila komama osemncane, kunezinkathazo eziningi ukuthi, ngokufika komama, akekho owakususile kuye.Ungenza kanjani ukuphila kwakho kube lula? Futhi ubani ongakwazi ukubizwa ngokusiza?
Umama, uphi?
Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ubuhlobo bakho nomama wakho noma umkhwekazi ngaphambi kokuzalwa komntanakho, manje konke kufanele kushintshe. Okokuqala, unomqondo olinganayo - nonke bobabili omama futhi bobabili bakhathazeke ngabantwana bakho - ngokuhluka okukodwa: umama wakho usuvele uhambile lokho okuzama ukukuqonda manje. Unolwazi. Futhi uma engavumelani nomqondo ovamile futhi enganiki "iseluleko sikagogo omncane ebhentshini," ukumcela kuye ngeseluleko esidingekayo kumama osemncane ngeke kukusize nje ukuthi ubhekane nezinkinga ezivela ngokushesha, kodwa ... qinisa ubuhlobo bakho, ukwenze ube sofuzo Okunye okuningi: kuphela manje uzoqala ukuqonda umama wakho kunanini ngaphambili.
I-intanethi ingumninimandla onke
Yiqiniso, kuphi ngaphandle kwakhe. Konke kulapha. Kodwa ukukhathazeka ukuthi kuzodingeka "uhlunge" ulwazi ngokwakho, futhi ngezinye izikhathi iseluleko sizofana nezincomo ezifanayo eziphikisanayo "zikagogo on the bench." Noma kunjalo, uma wena ubheka impilo ngokuhlakanipha futhi wazi ukuthi ungahlukanisa kanjani imbewu emakhokheni, i-intanethi izokunikeza isevisi ebalulekile. Lapha ungathola noma yini oyithandayo: izihloko ezihlokweni ezikuthandayo okwamanje, izinkundla ezihambisana nazo ezifana nawe, omama abasha, amafoni we-polyclinics edingekayo, izikhungo zokuthuthukiswa, ababonisi.
Intombi ehlangenwe nakho
Uma unentombi ebelethe umntwana ngaphambi kwakho, manje uzobe engumuntu ongenakukuhleleka kuwe. Uzosekela, futhi welule ibhizinisi, futhi ulalele nje. Emva kwakho konke, ngezinye izikhathi lokhu akwanele kakhulu - ukungena ezinkathazweni zakho, izinkinga, okuhlangenwe nakho. Ngeke abe nesithukuthezi, njengokwesibonelo, ingane yakho engenamntwana futhi engashadile ngenkathi izintombi zakho, uma uhamba ngekhulu leminyaka kuyoba yize ukubuyisela lokho ingane yakho efunde, uzoqonda ukuthi kubaluleke kangakanani imibuzo ukuthi "Kungani engadli?", "Ingabe kuyinto evamile , ukuthi akahambanga embizeni kanye ngosuku? "Nguye kuphela ozoqonda ukuthi lokhu akuyona ubuwula, ngoba yena ubesanda kuleso simo, futhi wena, ungikholelwa, wawunenhlanhla ngaphezu kwakhe, ngoba yena, mhlawumbe, kwakungeyena umngane onokuhlangenwe nakho ozwelayo, ozohlanganyela iseluleko esidingekayo kumama osemncane.
Indoda ethandekayo
Yebo, kungenzeka ukuba ulalele amazambane ahlambulukile kanye ne-shit, kodwa akudingekile. Uzwa ukusekelwa komyeni onothando, ungakwazi kalula ukuphatha ukukhathazeka kwansukuzonke ngomntwana, ukubekezela ukukhathala, ngoba uzokunika ukuqiniseka ukuthi wenza kahle nakho konke. Njengoba kwashiwo ochungechungeni oludumile lwe-TV, "Ubaba ongcono nguye ongowesifazane onomuzwa wokuthi ungumama omuhle." Futhi izazi zengqondo zibiza ngonyaka wokuqala emva kokuzalwa kwengane yokuqala enye yezikhathi ezibucayi, iningi lazo alimi "ukuhlolwa kwengane" futhi lihlukanisa. Kodwa ngamandla akho ukwenza kanjalo ukuze ungangeni kulezibalo ezidabukisayo. Into esemqoka ukuqonda ukuthi othandekayo wakho, njengowe, uvele esetshenziselwa indima entsha yophiko, futhi kunzima kuye futhi. Ukuthola ukuyekethisa, ukuxhasana, uzobe uhloniphekile kule nkinga, ukuqinisa ubudlelwane bomndeni.
Udokotela, yini lokhu?
Ayikho isizathu sokuthula komama osemncane kunokuba athole uxhumano nomhlengikazi omuhle. Akukwanele ukuzobonisana ne-polyclinic yezingane kanye ngenyanga, izidingo zokubonisana ziphakama, njengombuso, kaningi kakhulu. Uzokwazi ukuthola ulimi oluvamile nodokotela wezingane zendawo - uzothola ithuba lokumhlangabeza njengoba kunesidingo ngeseluleko esiwusizo kumama osemncane. Yiqiniso, ukufuna ukwethembeka kudokotela wezingane kusuka emtholampilo wesifunda, onabantu abanjengawe, imoto nenqola encane, akusi njalo njalo. Kodwa kunabanye odokotela abaningi. Yebo, cishe, ubudlelwane obunjalo obuyimfihlo buzobonakala ezinkampanini ezithile zesabelomali, kodwa, kholwa mina, ukuthula kwengqondo kwakho kudinga okuningi.
Udinga iseluleko
Ngaphandle kwedokotela "osemthethweni," kunabaningi abachwepheshe okumele uthintane nabo ngokushesha noma ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, isibonelo, umama osencane omncane omele umama osemncane ufanele isisindo salo ngegolide, esingaqondiswa emtholampilo wabantwana bakho, kodwa hhayi ukuthi uzojabula ngawo. Futhi kuyadingeka ukuba kuxoxwe ngezinye izikhathi! Ngezinye izikhathi abaxhumanisi bokuncelisa abeluleki baba abacebisi ababalulekile .Kuyathokozisa ukuthi iningi lamakholi ezitholakala ku-hotlines akhululekile kubachwepheshe abanjalo.Angangabazi ukubiza! Emacaleni okunzima kakhulu, ungabiza umxhumanisi ekhaya. kodwa, ungacela okufanayo esifundazweni sesazi sakho, kodwa hhayi njalo, yebo, lolu lwazi luqondile.
I-Blender neNkampani
Akumangalisi ukuthi umshini wokuwasha wasungulwa owesifazane, kuyilapho amadoda ekwazi ukuthola indawo futhi alima ama-expanses olwandle. Kukhona njalo ukugeza okuningi endlini lapho umntwana ekhula khona. Futhi uma ungenalo lo msizi okwamanje noma uma udala akuhambisani nawe ngesizathu esithile, faka "induku" ohlwini lokuthenga okudingekayo ngokuphuthumayo. Uma ukhetha imodeli, khetha okunye okukhona lapho kunesiphuzo esingeziwe nesebhukwana, ikakhulukazi ukugeza okusebenzayo. umshini wokuhlambela umshini uzoba ngumsizi obalulekile, uzokulondoloza isikhathi esiningi nesisindo somzimba. Lapho ingane iqala, kukhona ukukhanga, uzokhumbula uma kukhona i-blender endlini yakho - ungagubheki wonke la mazambane ahlambulukile ngendlela endala, kwi-grater. futhi i-humidifier ye-air ingaphazamisi umshini wokuhlanza ngefriji yamanzi, lapho ingane isakhulile, mhlawumbe ucabanga ngokuthenga umshini omuhle. Ngamanye amazwi, awunabo, izwe lonke liyakhathalela ukwenza kube lula nokukhululekile kuwe.