Phakathi naleso sikhathi, umthamo womshado wendabuko wawushintshwa ngabahleli bomshado, othembisa ukuthi imikhosi engawulibaleki "ngokuyisisekelo esiphezulu". Ngisho nomzuzwana onjalo obuseduze njengokuhlelwa kuhlelwe. Le ndoda ngesikhathi esifanayo kumele isho ngokuqinile ukuthi ngeke idonsa indandatho (parachute) kuze kube yilapho umngane wakhe ephendula ngokuthi "yebo." Esikhathini sokucela "indlela yokwenza isipho kumuntu", injini yokusesha iphinde ihambise amakhasi amaningana exhumanisi. Kodwa kukhona umehluko omkhulu. Abesifazane abachazwa kakhulu ukuthi banganikeza isiphakamiso, bangaki izenzo okufanele bazithathe ukuze bakhuthaze okhethiweyo ukuba akhulume amagama afunayo. Isiphakamiso somshado, okokuqala, sihlala siphupho lomfazi? Isiko sokunikela ngezandla nezinhliziyo yasungulwa esikhathini esidlule ...
Ngubani amaphupho alokho?
Owesimanje wesimanje uphonseke kakhulu ekutholeni indoda engase ibe yinto encane kakhulu kunokuba sifuna ukuqinisekisa omagazini namabhayisikobho. Uzimele ngokwezomnotho, isikhundla sakhe emphakathini sithonywe kakhulu imfundo, umsebenzi, isipiliyoni, izimfanelo zakhe, kunokuba ashada naye. Futhi nokho kuzo zonke izintombi azikho njalo umqondo wokuthi uyaba ngowesifazane wangempela kuphela kusukela lapho umuntu ecela ukuba abe ngowakhe.
Prince kusuka ebuntwaneni
Kodwa-ke, abesifazane abathola isipho sesandla nenhliziyo, ngenhliziyo, badumala ngendlela okwenziwe ngayo. Mhlawumbe iqiniso liwukuthi inkumbulo yethu igcina isithombe esivela encwadini yabantwana abathandayo: indodakazi yenkosi enhle nenkosana ehhashi elimhlophe - futhi okungenani lememori yezingane ayivumelani. Kulabo abathandekayo bangase babe inganekwane, ukuba babe yinkosikazi, futhi sidinga izimo ezingavamile: isiphakamiso esenziwe ibhaluni, indandatho egumbini le-champagne, imvula yama roses ...
Inqaba evela enqabeni
Namuhla, iphupho lomshado ngekosana - njengoCinderella noma Ubuhle Bokulala - lingase libukeke lingenalutho, noma liphakamisa nokungaqali kwephupho. I-Massmedia yakha inkolelo evumayo mayelana nendlela ukuphila okuphumelelayo kubheka ngayo. Umkhuba wangaphambili wendabuko osebenza emibonweni yobuqhawe nobuhle, amandla, ulwazi, amandla. Manje bakhuluma ngokuphumelela empilweni ngokuqondene nengcebo, impumelelo yezwe, ukubaluleka, imfashini. Ongazange ahlakulele iziqondiso zakhe - uvame ukuhambisana nomqondo jikelele "njengokulindelwe", oqondiswa isifiso sokuba "akubi nakakhulu kunabanye." Eqinisweni, izinkondlo zezinkondlo zakhiwa ngesikhathi lapho imishado yayivame ukuhambisana nomkhuba kanye nokuphikisana kwezizathu futhi ixhume izizinda ezingaphezu kwezibili zomhlaba, kunemiphefumulo emibili. Kodwa abanye bakhetha uthando! Lapho isikhulu sithatha ubuhle ehhashi elidumile, akaceli lutho kubazali bakhe noma abazali bomlobokazi, ubuhle bulalela kuphela izwi lenhliziyo yakhe. Zihloswe ukuletha ubudlelwane bomabili kuze kube sezingeni elihle. Bathi imishado yenziwa ezulwini, okusho ukuthi ubukhulu obusha buvela kulo mbhangqwana, baba yinto engaphezu nje kobudlelwane "ezingeni lomuntu". Wonke lawa makhandi, idonsa e-bumper noma ukukhiya okulenga ebhuloho, ingahle ibonakale ingenangqondo. Kodwa ngosizo lwabo, amadoda nabesifazane bazama ukwakha lesi sici esisha, ukufakazela: indlela le nqabazane ifakwe ngayo, ubuhlobo bethu buqiniswa. Noma kunjalo, konke lokhu kusebenza kuphela uma behlala ezingeni elijulile, kuhambisane nomsebenzi womphefumulo. Uma lokhu kulandelwa, umdlalo ongenalo lutho kodwa ifomu, ngeke kube khona.
IKhabinethi, i-champagne, i-fachitos
"Usegodini elilodwa ... ibhokisi ... indandatho ... Ngethukile kakhulu ... Yebo! Yebo, yebo! Yeka ukuthi kuhle ukukhumbula usuku lokuzibandakanya kwethu! Ngizokutshela leli daba kumadodakazi ami lapho ekhula. Ngokungahle kwenzeke ... futhi kulungile! "Lapho ebona indoda eqondile ezinyaweni zakhe, owesifazane uzwa amandla akhe ngokujulile. Lokhu kuphinda kumqinisekise ukuthi uyabaluleka futhi kubalulekile. Kodwa kuhle ukuba amadoda azizwe njengama-knights.
"Nguwe kuphela"
Ukunikezwa kwesandla nenhliziyo kunemibono eminingana ephawulekayo emlandweni womshado olandelayo. Okokuqala, lo mzuzwana ungowokubili kuphela. Ngisho noma isiphakamiso senziwa phakathi kokubambisana kwabantu - kusukela esiteji semidlalo yaseshashalazini noma ukusebenzisa ibhodi eliphakathi nendawo yedolobha. Okwesibili, lo mzuzu omangalisayo uvame ukubamba imemori kuphela. Kunzima ukuthola umuntu ozoba nesithombe ku-albhamu yomndeni: "Bheka, mzukulu wami, bhekani ngenza isipho kugogo wakho ..." Futhi okwesithathu, ukunikezwa yisikhathi sokuzimisela futhi, ngesikhathi esifanayo, ukwesaba ngisho nalabo abazethembayo impendulo enhle. Inhliziyo yami igxuma, ngoba inganqaba ngomzuzu wokugcina. Kodwa uma impendulo enhle, yilokho okuhlangenwe nakho kokuthokoza, ukuthembela esikhathini esizayo nokuvuleka nokulungela okunjalo injabulo ... okuwukuthi, mhlawumbe, yilokho injabulo yesilingo esihlanzekile.