Kungani ikhala liphuma?
Encwadini yephupho eliyinkimbinkimbi kuthiwa igazi elivela ekhaleni liphupha ukuthi isifiso sakho sokufeza umgomo oyifunayo sizovuzwa, kodwa kuzodingeka wenze imizamo eminingi. Okuyingxenye yesibili yokuchazwa yiqiniso lokuthi amandla okuphila amshiya kancane kancane umphuphi, okusho ukuthi kufanele anakekele ngokukhethekile isimo sezempilo.
Encwadini encane ye-Veles iphupho ukuze ubone igazi elivela ekhaleni lakho lokuthi kufanele ucabange ngokucophelela izenzo zakho futhi uthathe izinqumo ezilinganiselwe ngokulinganisela.
Incwadi yephupho yekhulu lama-21 ikhombisa impumelelo nokuphila okujabulisayo uma ungazizwa ungakhululekile uma uphepha.
Iphupho ongeke ukwazi ukuvimba ukugeleza kwegazi kusuka ekhaleni lakho kuyisimo esibi. Kungenzeka ukuthi maduzane uzobhekana nokugula okungathí sina noma othile emndenini wakho uzothola ubunzima obuningi, ekunqobeni ukuthi uzohileleka ngqo. Zama ukubona, noma okungenani ubize izihlobo zakho - mhlawumbe zizodinga usizo lwakho.
Uphuphile ukuthi igazi elivela ekhaleni ligeleza kusuka kulabo abafisa ukugula? Ungalindela ngokuphepha ukuthi umphikisi wakho noma umphikisi uzoshabalala masinyane ekuboneni futhi akuyeke akucasule. Uma, ngokuphambene nalokho, kubonakala sengathi lokhu kwenzeka kuwe ngokwakho, khona-ke lokhu kungase kubonise ingozi empilweni yakho.
Okunye ukuhumusha kokuphuma kwegazi
- Encwadini yephupho likaMiller, kunikezwa inhlanhla elandelayo yokulala, lapho uphethwe khona: uma kwenzeka uzuze ukukhuthazwa kwenye indawo, lungiselela ukuthi yini ezayo maduze ungancishiswa - noma ngokuphathelene namaqhinga wezifiso ezimbi, noma ngenxa yezinye izimo zokuphila. Ngakho-ke, kubalulekile ukukhombisa ukuqina komoya nokuqonda - qaphela kakhulu bese umbono ungagcwaliseki.
- Ukuphuma kwegazi kungabikezela ukuthi kuzodingeka ube ngumthengisi. Kunoma yikuphi, ngisho noma uphoqeleka ukwenza lokhu, kufanele ushiye lo msebenzi, ngoba ekugcineni, ukudumazeka nokulahlekelwa kuphela okulindeleke kuwe.
- Inani laleli holala lingaphinde lishintshe kuye ngenkathi. Isibonelo, uma igazi elivela ekhaleni liphupha ehlobo, khona-ke maduzane uzothola ukwethuka okukhulu kokwesaba. Yilungiselele ubuningi bokucindezeleka emsebenzini ongalimaza impilo yakho, futhi nokuthi ukwelashwa kungenzeka ukuthi kuthathe isikhathi eside futhi kunzima.
- Iphupho lika-Azar likuthembisa umhlangano osheshayo nabangane abadala, oxhumana nabo abalahlekile, futhi awubonanga isikhathi eside.
- Ibhuku laseBrithani iphupho lihumusha iphupho ngegazi kusuka ekhaleni ngale ndlela elandelayo: okokuqala, iphupho elinjalo lingabhekana nokulahleka okukhulu kwezimali; okwesibili, kunomqondo ophezulu wokuthi esikhathini esiseduze esizayo umuntu othandekayo kuwe ngokuqinisekile uzoshiya impilo yakho ngandlela-thile.
- Uma ubona ukuthi igazi elivela ekhaleni linempahla engcolile - qaphela kakhulu futhi uqaphele - kunezitha eziyimfihlo ezizama ukuvimbela ukuqhubeka kwakho emkhakheni wezemisebenzi. Zama ukungathethi nabanye, okungenani emsebenzini. Uma kwenzeka ukuphuma kwegazi kukhishwe, kufaka phakathi izandla, lungiselela izivakashi ezingahambelwanga ezokuvakashela maduzane.
Iningi lokuhumusha izincwadi zamaphupho mayelana negazi kusuka ekhaleni kubhekwa njengezixwayiso ezimayelana nezingozi nezinkinga eziseduze. Ngakho-ke, hlaziya ngokucophelela izimpawu ezinjalo futhi ungazinaki ukugwema ngempumelelo izinkinga.