Izimbangela zobulili: ngabo futhi ngezizathu

Ukubuza abanye noma abangane bakho, awunakwenzeka ukuthola ukuthi ngubani osebenza ngezocansi. Omunye kwabayisithathu, noma owesibili, umuntu uzokutshela ukuthi uyisisebenzi socansi. Abesifazane kulezi zinkinga bazobe bezithoba kakhulu - ngamunye uyavuma kuwe e-shopaholizme. Kodwa thina sonke, nabesifazane kanye nomuntu, kancane kancane emphefumulweni, uma sivuma noma ngenye.


Isibonelo esithathelwanayo

Ezweni lanamuhla, kunesidingo esiningi socansi, sifuna ukudumile, sicebile futhi sifuna ukushintsha amagilavu ​​wabalingani bethu. Uma ucabanga ngakho, sinawo phambi kwamehlo ethu izibonelo zabantu abaningi abadumile ababephathwa emitholampilo kusuka kulokhu kukhishwa ngokocansi.

Ngisho nangaphambi kwamuva nje, kwakukhona inganekwane mayelana nesithembu sesilisa (kanti futhi ingxenye yowesifazane), kodwa ezweni lanamuhla leli legend laba yisifo. Futhi lokhu kuyiqiniso elifakazelwe ngokwesayensi.

Namuhla, lesi sifo siphuthuma ngokushesha, futhi sesifakiwe ohlwini lwezifo ezidume kakhulu eminyakeni yokugcina yekhulu lama-21. Izifundo ziqinisekisa ukuthandwa kwalesi sifo ngokuthi namuhla abantu abangamaphesenti angu-5 emhlabeni wonke bahlushwa ubulili. Ngokwezibalo ezinzima, cishe abantu abayizigidi ezingu-360. Ubulili buhambisana nesifo sengqondo futhi bafuna ukwenza izimbungulu zengqondo ku-American Bible.

Akuzivunguli

Ukuzibandakanya ngokocansi ukushintsha njalo abalingani bobulili kanye nobuhlobo besikhathi eside akuvamile ukuhola. Abanesithakazelo emizimbeni, kodwa bayathandeka njengenqubo. Futhi ukulala okuningi, kungcono kubo. Futhi ubulili kufanele buhluke, kufaka phakathi izakhi ze-sadomasochism, ukubukezwa okubukwayo kwamafilimu e-pornography, kanye nokucabangela izifungo zocansi ezivunguvungu. Ukunakwa kugxile ekuziphatheni ngokocansi, inani lalo elikhula ngokushesha. Futhi ngenxa yalokhu akudingeki njalo umlingani. Kunezithombe ezingcolile zobulili ezitholakala kuyi-intanethi.

Ukuthembela okuqondile

Ososayensi bathi imbangela yalesi sifo iwukukhathazeka kwengqondo. Izisulu zalesi sifo zingabantu abangaphephile kakhulu, futhi ukunqoba kocansi kubanika isizathu sokuziqhenya ngokwabo. Kunezinye izizathu zokubonakala kwesifo - ukungabi nalesi caress vladetstve noma ukuhlukunyezwa. Ukukhuthazwa ngabangani bakhe futhi kungavunyelwe yinkampani yenkampani kuzozibonakalisa ukuvumelana kwayo, ukushintsha ubudlelwane nabo njalo. Ngamanye amazwi, lesi sifo singabangela imizwa ejwayelekile yokuzizwa kokuphansi.

Kodwa ubulili buhamba ngokushesha kunokugula, nokuthembela. Kufana kakhulu nokudakwa ngokweqile noma ukulutha izidakamizwa: izisulu zalesi sifo zinokoma okungenakunqotshwa kwesigaba esilandelayo socansi.Bathola injabulo kusukela kule nqubo nje imizuzwana embalwa, futhi emva kwalokho nje kuphela umthamo omusha olandelayo uyabathanda. Kusukela kulezi zingxenyeni ezingenhla, ubulili buhlukile ngoba abukho emiphumeleni emangalisa emzimbeni, ngaphandle kwemiphumela yezenzo zocansi ezingavikelekile. Kodwa ngesikhathi esifanayo, uhlangothi lokuziphatha lubuhlungu kakhulu kule ndaba.

Abacwaningi, yebo, bonke abalingiswa futhi banzima kakhulu. Muva nje, ososayensi kwa-Israyeli baye babona isakhi esithinta ukuvuselela. Bakholelwa ukuthi izakhi zofuzo zidlala indima ebalulekile kwabasebenzi bezocansi. Kukhona nje abantu ababhekene nabo ubulili kunabanye. "Ngidlwengula, anginacala, nginezakhi zokuguqula izakhi, ngizozalwa!" Sifaka kanjani ukuthi siyinkinga? Futhi uma ubulili bungenxa yomuntu isizathu esihle sokuba emehlweni abanye onyane lemvu eligulayo, yiluphi usizo oludingekayo?

Ukuphila ngokocansi akuyona impilo evamile

Isisebenzi sangempela socansi asikwazi ukulawula ukuziphatha kwakhe siqu. Ukuziphatha okunjalo okungalawuleki kuyathinta wonke amazinga okuphila kwakhe. Uhlala ecabanga nje nge-axxe, ukhuluma kuphela ngocansi, uziphatha kakhulu, ukhululekile futhi ulungele ukulala ngocansi.

Ubulili abuyincintiswano

Akakhathaleli ukuthi ubani olala naye. Awuxoshwa yimifanekiso ethile ethize yesifazane, okusho ukuthi kungenzeka ukuthi umlingani ohlala njalo ukhona. Indoda igxile kuphela ngokobulili futhi ukubonakaliswa kwemizwa yothando kuyisimanga kuye.

Ubulili buyazi ukuthi kuncike kuye.

Ukuqhathaniswa okungahleliwe kanye nabalingani abaningi, njengombuso, ababonwa umphakathi. Ngenxa yalokhu, izisebenzi zocansi zingangena ekucindezelekeni, zivale futhi zigcine ziqaphela ukuthi ziyisidakamizwa futhi zidinga ukuqeda lokhu kuxhomekeke. Uma kunjalo, khuluma nomuntu othembekile, umlalele, bese uzama ukumsiza, kodwa kungenjalo ungamcindezeli. Ungaphambuki kumuntu. Khumbula ukuthi into esemqoka ukusekelwa kwabantu abasondelene naye.