Injabulo, injabulo, ukuthuthumela, ukwesaba, ukukhathazeka, ukungabaza - uzobe uthola nini imizwa enjengokungakafiki ubulili nomuntu omusha? Nonke nilinde lokhu, nilungiselele, nilungiselele isifiso futhi uxhumano lungapheli ngendlela oyifunayo ngenxa yezinto ozizwayo, kodwa futhi ngenxa yeziphambeko ezingenzeka. Ungenza kanjani ukuthi ubulili bokuqala bujabulise kokubili?
Imithetho ye-sexaso yokuqala nomlingani wakhe omusha
Ukuze uthole ubulili obuhle bokuqala, into ebaluleke kakhulu yisikhathi esifanele, lapho bobabili sebekulungele futhi befuna ukusondelana komunye nomunye, ukuhumusha ubuhlobo bakho ezingeni elilandelayo. Uma indoda iphikelela kakhulu, futhi owesifazane akaqiniseki ngaphambi kokuphela futhi uvumelene ukuba esondelene kuphela ngenxa yokwesaba ukulahlekelwa umlingani, ngakho-ke ngeke neze ajabulele. Ngenxa yalesi sizathu, ngaso sonke isikhathi isixazululo kufanele sibe yizzshshchina, ngoba ukuzethemba ngesifiso, ukuzimisela kwentombazane kuyisihlobo sokuqala socansi oluphumelelayo.
1. Kubalulekile ukumamatheka ekuhlazweni
Ukuncintisana kuhlale kungenakugwemeka. Isibonelo, bhinqa amabunzi abo, bawaqothula amadolo njalonjalo. Ungazami ukuziphatha njengokungathi akukho okwenzekile, uzama ukuphakamisa umzuzwana onzima. Smile bese ubanga umlingani wakho. Dlala ukudideka okungahleliwe futhi uqhubeke ukwenza lokho okwenziwe. Abahlanganisi ukungahambi kahle, kodwa isimo sengqondo esihlazo kubo, esiba yizigqila kubalingani.
2. Ukuhlolwa kwezikhathi ezingcono kakhulu kushiywe
Izikhathi ezinhle kakhulu akufanele zihlehliswe isikhathi eside, kodwa futhi akudingekile ukuba ziphuthumise ukucasula kwazo. Ubuhlobo bobulili ekukhanyeni okukhanyayo, "kunzima" nezindawo ezingavamile, izesekeli eziqondile - konke lokhu kudinga izinga elithile lokusondelana no-Spartner futhi lithembeke komunye nomunye. Abaningi bayavuma ukuhlolwa okuhlukahlukene ukuze kungabi yi-zakomleksovannoy "lula".
Unenkathazo yokuthi wena, isibonelo, unesifuba esingelona elihle, i-cellulite futhi uyakhathazeka ngokwehluleka kwakhe. Kuyinto engokwemvelo uma ufuna umbono omuhle ukukhiqiza komunye nomunye. Isibonelo, ukukhanya okukhanyayo kungakuvimbela ukuba ungabonisi njengomthandi omangalisayo, futhi ubulili bobubili abukwazi. Uma konke kwenzeka kancane kancane, uzothola okwamanje izinhlobo ezahlukene zokuhlolwa nokukhululeka.
3. Khuluma nomunye nomunye
Okuhlangenwe nakho kwezibili ezahlukene kubonisa ukuthi imizwelo ehlangene ngesikhathi sobulili bokuqala (futhi hhayi kuphela) ikhohliwe ngesikhathi. Uyakhumbula kuphela ukuthi uzizwa kahle. Kodwa-ke, lapho inkumbulo ihlala imisho, izinkulumo, amagama, khona-ke bayodonswa nguchungechunge lwemizwelo evusa amadlingozi, okwenzeka ngalo mzuzu.
4. Tshela umngane wakho ukuthi uthanda kanjani
Ngesikhathi sobulili bokuqala, akekho onayo ibalazwe lesimo, ngakho-ke i-sexbolshe ifana nokuhlonishwa. Ukungaqiniseki okunjalo okungaqiniseki kuwe, noma kumlingani akathinti. Ngakho-ke, sekuyisikhathi sokubeka ezinye izimpawu zomhlaba, ziphawula "ebalazweni" lakhe nemizimba yakho. Ngitshele ukuthi yini engcono kakhulu ukuba akwenze uzizwe uhle. Buka futhi ukuthi uyasabela kanjani, ukuze izingxenye zomzimba womzimba wakhe zingabi yimfihlakalo.
5. Akufanele ukwenze konke ngesikhathi esisodwa
Yebo, ufuna ukuhlaba umxhwele komunye nomunye, ukukhombisa ukuthi uhambe kangakanani ekutadisheni uthando lomzimba, noma ufuna ukuphinda uhlele ifilimu esithwetshiwe ngokuqukethwe okusondelene. Kodwa-ke, ngobulili bokuqala akusona isikhathi sokulinganisa ulwazi lwabo, nesikhathi sokuthandana kuphela.
Izindlela ezihlukahlukene eziyinkimbinkimbi zobulili, noma ushintsho oluqhubekayo lwe-theirmogut ngokobulili bokuqala luba umzimba wokuzivocavoca umzimba. Konke lokhu kungamhlazisa lo muntu, ngoba kulo msebenzi, amadoda angacabangi ngalokho akwaziyo, kodwa ukuthi ufunda kuphi. Futhi, kuyaphazamisa, ngoba kudingekile ukuthi kutholakale injabulo kwezocansi, futhi ukuyihambisa kumlingani wakho, kodwa hhayi ukucabanga ukuthi idumela lakho kunoma yiliphi izindleko akufanele liwehliswe.
6. Ungalingisi
Lo mbuzo uwubucayi kakhulu, ngoba ngemisindo ehlukene ungaphakamisa ukuzethemba komlingani wakho, umjabulise kakhulu. Kodwa-ke, kukhona olunye uhlangothi: uma ungathandi lokho umlingani owenzayo, futhi ukhathele, kodwa isithombe somdlalo wentshiseko yakho, khona-ke usengozini into efanayo ngesikhathi esizayo. Uma ungafuni ukuqeda ubuhlobo bakho emva kobulili bokuqala, thatha isinyathelo futhi utshele le ndoda indlela engcono yokuphatha ngayo, noma ulindele ukudumazeka okulandelayo.
7. Kungcono ukufeza ngokuthobeka ukuxhumana kokuqala kunokushesha
Ukungabi khona kwe-foreplay, ucansi olwanele, ukuthanda imfucumfucu injabulo isuswe ngokuqinile. Yebo, uzothola i-orgasm esilinde isikhathi eside, kodwa phawula ukuthi lokhu okuthakazelisayo, okusheshayo, ekugcineni, kungaholela umcabango othi "Kwakungubani?". Awukhumbuli okwenzekile, ngakho-ke ubulili bokuqala ngeke bukhunjulwe, kusale ukungabi nalutho kunokuba kube ngokwakho, endaweni okumele kube khona ilungelo lokuthandana, uthando, futhi isikhathi eside, okuthinta ukuthuthumela.
8. Tshela lezi zinkimbinkimbi "Cha"
Ukusuka emicabangweni ebuhlungu awunayo yokwanela okwanele futhi isisu esithambile sokuqeda. Ngisho nabanikazi bomzimba ophelele bayothola okungenani izinselelo ezintathu.
Ngifuna ukukukhumbuza futhi ukuthi esimweni sokujabula okukhulu, lo mlingani uyakuthanda konke anakho ngaphansi kwezandla zakhe, izindebe zakhe. Futhi ngisho nesisu esisodwa kuyoba indawo enhle emzimbeni. Musa ukuyinkimbinkimbi bese uzama ukuphumula ngangokunokwenzeka.
9. Hlonipha ukuphepha
Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kushisa kangakanani futhi ngokomzwelo umphumela wokuya ocansini, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi isifiso esinamandla sokwenqaba ukusebenzisa ikhondomu, ngokuvamile kusuka kuzo zonke izingqungquthela, kufanelekile ukusondela ngalolu daba ngokucophelela, ukuwuthatha njengomthetho. Uma kuphela wena nomlingani wakho bengenawo amadokhumenti mayelana nokungabikho kwezifo ezithunyelwa ngendlela yezocansi, ukusetshenziswa kwezizalo zokubeletha kuyimpoqo. Phela, izinyanga zokwelashwa ngethando, kanye nobulili obuhle abufanele.
10. Umthetho olandelayo akuwona umthetho
Unganaki ukuthi kukhona amathiphu, okungcono ukulalela ukuziphatha kwakho ngobusuku bokuqala nomlingani wakho. Ngemuva kwalokho, kungcono ukuhlala umvelo kuze kube phakade, hhayi ukuzama ukuziqhenya. Ngempela, ubuqotho buyofaka nje ukuzethemba kuwe nokuthokoza. Futhi, uma umuntu omusha engabhethiwe ubuhlobo besikhathi eside, khona-ke unensimu yethuba lokuthuthukisa, ukuqeqesha, ukuze esikhathini esizayo konke kube sezingeni eliphakeme kakhulu.