Kodwa iningi lalezi zifiso ezifanayo zethando ziyacima ngokuzumayo, kanye nama-flares up. Abathandi abavamile abashintshashintshayo bangakhondi, bese behamba ngaphandle kokushintshanisa izinombolo zocingo.
Kungani lokhu kwenzeka? Kungani, kusukela enhlanhleni ekhanyayo yentshisekelo, isihawu (futhi ngokuqinisekile bekuyi), akuzange kuveze ukuthi kwakungeyona ngisho ilangabi, ngisho nomlilo obuthakathaka? Izizathu zingaba eziningana, sizocabangela ukusabalalisa kakhulu. Ngakho, ukufutheka, ubulili ubusuku obulodwa nezizathu eziyishumi.
1. Uthando lwezilwane kanye nobulili ngezocansi
Ezimweni eziningi, abalingani abaqaliwe ekuqaleni ukuze baqhubeke nobuhlobo. Ubulili ubusuku obulodwa - akuyona into ephathelene nalokho, ngakho-ke, indlela yokuhlukanisa kancane indlela yokuphila evamile. Ngokuvamile izimpikiswano ezinjalo zisebenza namadoda angathandi ukuboshwa ubuhlobo obunzima. Bethuka ngegama elithi "romance", umthwalo wemfanelo ngokucophelela, obangela ukuthanda isikhathi eside.
Imihlangano engeyona ebophayo ihambisana nabo kakhulu kunabesifazane abathile. Ngokuyinhloko labo abanomsebenzi wokuphila nokuphila kwangaphambili. Ebudlelwaneni bebesifazane abanamane nje abanaso isikhathi, kodwa badinga ukwaneliseka.
Ubulili ngezocansi - into ejwayelekile kakhulu. Ngokuvamile abathandi bezinye izikhathi abahlala ekhaya abalingani abavamile.
Ukunganeliseki
Akujabulisi, kodwa kwenzeka futhi. Ukuthakazelisa, okuyiwona wonke okwaqalwa empeleni - ayitholakalanga. Ngemibukiso kwakukhona kuphela: ingxoxo enhle, inhleko yokumomotheka komlingani, ukuqala kwesiqhwaga sokuqala kokuthanda kanye nesiphetho esincane noma esisheshayo. Ngelinye igama - ukungaboni kahle. Ngakho ufuna ukumemezela ngokuphawulekayo: - "Farewell, umhlangano wethu kwakuyiphutha! "Futhi uziqhenya ngokuziqhenya. Kodwa emphakathini ophucukile kuyisiko ukuhlukanisa ngokuhlakanipha. Umlingani angase angalokothi asole ukuthi akahambisani nezilindelo zakho. Ungamdabukisi ngokuzonda kwakhe. Kungenzeka ukuthi awuzange uhlangane nomunye, futhi ngomunye umlingani, konke kuzophumelela kakhulu. Ukungafani ngokomzimba akuvamile.
Ezimweni ezinjalo, kungcono ukushiya inothi eliqinisekisayo: thatha inombolo yocingo futhi uthembise ukubuyela emuva, ngokumomotheka okumnandi ukuba uphelele ngemuva komnyango.
3. Abangane abathandayo
Akekho owakusho ukuthi ubungane phakathi kwendoda nowesifazane akunakwenzeka? Kuleli zwe, akukho lutho olungenakwenzeka. Yebo, indoda nowesifazane bangakwazi ukugcina ubungane besikhathi eside, okungahambi ngaso sonke isikhathi ebuhlotsheni bomzimba. Ubuhlobo obude bufana nobuhlobo begazi. Ubona kumuntu umzalwane noma udade futhi kungabi nomzwelo, ukuqhuma okukhulu kwe-hormonal lapho ukhuluma naye ungacabangi. Ngakho-ke, abangane bangabi abathandi kaningi. Njengomthetho, lokhu kwenzeka esimweni sokudakwa, uma iqiniso libonakala kokubili ngokusebenzisa i-prism yezinkomba ze-iridescent. Enye inketho evamile yinduduzo yomlingani okhungathekile. Phela, ukusekela umngane kuyisidingo semvelo, futhi amadoda anganciphisa abesifazane ngendlela eyodwa kuphela.
4. Ubulili ebusuku nokuphuza utshwala
Inhlanganisela ejwayelekile. Kwabaningi, ubulili nokuphuza yizilinganiso, imiqondo esho ukuthi cishe into efanayo. I-Cinderellas yanamuhla ifuna ngenkani izikhulu ezithombeni zama-nightclub, futhi ngemva kokucwenga okudakayo kwamanye amazwe thola ... umthandi ngobusuku obulodwa. Ubulili esifundeni esifanayo akunakwenzeka ukuba nokuqhubeka okunengqondo noma ngisho nokuqedwa okuthuthukile. Ekuseni, abalingani abakwazi ukubonana nhlobo, ngoba imibhangqwana yewayini iyakwazi ukukhipha iqiniso ngokuhlakanipha okukhulu.
5. Imikhuba Nezinkinga
Ngezinye izikhathi indoda ethandekayo, ethandekayo ishayela ekuboneni kuqala. Kodwa kusukela kwesibili kuyavela ukuthi naye uthanda ukuphuza nokuxoxa. Ungesabi uma ungaqhubeki ukuphola, yilokho nje le mikhuba engaphazamisa nomzuzwana obuseduze. I-psychology yesilisa ihluke kwabesifazane, ngomqondo wokuthi ikhono labo lokulalela imiqulu emikhulu yenhlebo yakamuva mayelana nabadumile, ukuyibeka ngomoya omnene, inqunyelwe. Ngakho-ke, umlingani oqine kakhulu ozakwethu. Indoda ingakwazi ukusekela ukugeleza okunjalo nje kuphela, uma leyo yindlela kuphela yokuthola "ukufinyelela emzimbeni". Kodwa ekuseni intombazane yokukhulumisana akudingeki ilindele ukuqhubeka, kanye nenkosikazi ehlukumeza ukusetshenziswa kweziphuzo ezidakayo.
6. Ukuhluleka okuphelele
Nganoma yisiphi isizathu, indoda ayikwazanga ukubona isifiso sakhe somzimba. Isimo asijabulisi wena futhi usizi kuye. Ngokuvamile, lesi siqalo sokuqhubeka, cishe ngeke kwenzeke.
7. Ingabe ukufinyeleleka akuyona isici?
Amadoda amaningi akhangwa ngokocansi. Ubani ongenqaba ukuzijabulisa uma le ntombazane ixhomeke entanyeni yakhe? Akekho, kodwa lo mthetho uhlala ubusuku obubodwa - asisekho. Endaweni ethile emagcekeni obulili obunamandla agcinwa inkumbulo yobukhokho babo-abazingeli, ababazisa kuphela lokho okwakukhona ngezinga eliphezulu. Ngakho-ke, akufanelekile ukuba nethemba lamantombazane angabizi ukuthi athole ipasipoti. Lokhu kusebenza kumuntu wesifazane ohlosiwe. Intombazane engathà sina, engahambisani nezinselele, ngeke ihlanganise impilo yakhe nomuntu ongenangqondo futhi ongadingekile. Uyini umyeni wakhe nobaba?
8. Futhi sihlukile kakhulu!
Isizathu si-banal, kodwa ngenxa yalokho abantu bahlukana ngokuyinhloko. Imikhuba ehlukene, imibono, imibono, ama-biorhythms. Futhi okubaluleke kakhulu, ukungakwazi nokungafuni ukuyekethisa.
9. Ukubeleka
Wonke umuntu uyazi ukuthi kungenzeka yini imiphumela yezocansi ezingavimbelwe nomlingani ongavamile. Kodwa namadoda amaningi ukusetshenziswa kwekhondomu kufana ne-feat. Ukuzibandakanya ukwenza lokhu nomfazi kungabheka njengokubonakaliswa kobugovu nokungahloniphi, okungahlosisi umthandi emehlweni akhe.
Ngesinye isimo, lapho owesifazane engalaleli "ukuvikelwa", indoda ingase imsolele ukuthi ufuna ukuzala, nakuba izinhlelo zakhe zingabandakanyi ukuzala.
10. Lover-egoist
Abantu abanjalo embhedeni bayashesha ukuwanelisa izidingo zabo kuphela, kuyilapho bengayinaki ngokuphelele imizwa nezifiso zomlingani. Ngokwemvelo, akekho ozofuna ukuthandana nomuntu onjalo isikhathi eside.
Nazi izizathu eziyishumi eziyinhloko zokuthi kungani abantu abaye bangena ekuxhumaneni ngengozi, maduzane bazohlukana. Kodwa uma ilangabi livutha phakathi kwezinhlansi zesihawu, ngakho-ke akukho sizathu esingabavimbela ukuba babe umbhangqwana oshadile ojabulisayo.