Kubonakala kuwe ukuthi akunakwenzeka ukwenza konke lokhu ngokushintsha isitayela sezingubo kuphela. Akuyona yonke into ehlelekile kakhulu futhi engaphelelwa yisikhathi, njengoba kubonakala kuwe ekuqaleni.
Iqiniso elingenakuphikwa ukuthi njalo njalo njalo owesifazane wayefuna ukubukeka ngendlela enhle kunazo zonke, ehlelekile futhi enhle. Futhi akubona wonke umuntu owazi ukuthi akudingekile ukuba abe ngumfazi webhizinisi, ngakho-ke kwakukhona imali eningi ongayenza ukuhamba kwansuku zonke emasiloni, ukuthi awudingi ukuba nokubukeka komodeli, ukuthi awudingi ukuba ne-stylist yakho, udinga nje ukuthandana impilo yakhe. Akusikhombisi ukuthi ube nakho konke lokhu, uzobe uyinhloko enkulu kakhulu. Ngempela, ungaba nezinto ezilula futhi ezingabizi, kodwa ngesikhathi esifanayo ubuke amaphuzu angu-100 futhi ngesikhathi esifanayo uqonde ukuthi izingubo zishintsha kanjani ukuphila.
Phakathi kwama-halves amaningi amahle emphakathini kulabo abathandekayo kakhulu kusukela ebuntwaneni, kodwa akubona wonke umuntu ongabaziqhayisa ukuthi angakhetha kalula into enhle evela emgqeni wezinto emnyangweni ongaqondakali. Labo abakuthola kunzima ukuthola nokunquma ngento ekhethwe kahle, umuntu kumele afunde.
Ayikho, kodwa uxhumano olunamandla.
Iyini ukuxhumana phakathi kwamazwi "ukuphila" kanye "nezingubo"? Kufana nokubuza mayelana nokuxhumana phakathi nosuku nomgqoko omnyama omnyama. Ukugeleza okubushelelezi kwesinye. Ngempela, izingubo ezizungezile kuyo yonke indawo, into esemqoka ukuthola izambatho ezifanele endaweni efanele. Futhi igqoko elimnyama kudingeka likwazi ukukhetha kahle, linamasu ayo.
Khetha ubude bengubo oyidingayo ukuze ufinyelele phakathi kwamadolo, futhi ukuhlobisa kuyo akufanele kube yinto engathwali ukulula kwayo. Isikhwama kufanele sibe ne-accented, okungukuthi, phuma. Kuyinto efiselekayo ukuthi ingubo yayingenamikhono, kodwa uma kunezinhlobo ezinjalo, kufanele ziqonde futhi zibe mncane futhi zingenakho ukuhlobisa ngokweqile. Kule ndlela yokugqoka kungcono ukukhetha amasheya amnyama, kodwa hhayi obukhulu, kodwa ngezingodo ezimbalwa ngangokunokwenzeka. Izikebhe zizobonakala zihle kahle emkhunjini futhi mhlawumbe ngepeni elivaliwe, isikhwama singathathwa ngethoni ngezicathulo, noma umahluko phakathi kwamathunzi ambalwa, kodwa ungakhethi ukukhala amathoni. Izesekeli kufanele zibe ezincane ngangokunokwenzeka, ukuze zingabonakali njengomuthi kaKhisimusi.
Yini okumelwe ihlale ekhempelini?
I-wardrobe yanoma imuphi intombazane ezithanda yona kufanele ibe nezinto okungenani eziyisisekelo. Ngosizo lwabo, ungawaqedela ngokuqonda kwakho, uhlanganise nezigqoko ezintsha ozithengile, udinga nje ukukhombisa iphutha lakho lobuhle futhi uzame ukushintsha noma yini ezinkathini ezikhona.
Izinto eziyisisekelo zifaka okulandelayo: zonke izintombazane kufanele zibe okungenani i-blouse eyodwa, kodwa uma yedwa kuphela, akufanele ibe mnyama. Into yesibili kulolu hlu ingubo, kuyinto efiselekayo ukuthi kufanele ibe uhlobo lwama-classical, ikakhulukazi, ibe yipketi lesipensela, kodwa umbala wayo uzongena ngesifiso sakho kuphela, kodwa udinga ukwazi ukuthi kufanele ihlanganiswe ne-blouse ekhona. Okwesithathu kuhlu luyoba ibhulukwe, njengoba kungcono njalo ukunikeza okuthandayo kuma-classic. Indawo yesine igcwele ibhantshi, futhi i-classical futhi ihlelwe ngokuhambisana namahhashi. Okwesishiyagalolunye, thola i-jumper, ingakhethwa kalula kunoma iyiphi i-turtleneck noma i-blouse. I-cardigan ivala uhlu lwezinto eziyisisekelo, lapha ingakwazi ukukhethwa noma yikuphi umthunzi, into eyinhloko ukuthi ayibonakali njengendawo ye-beacon futhi okubaluleke kakhulu ukuthi uyithandile.
Uma uhlala esitolo sokugqoka futhi ukhetha ukuthi yini ongayithenga, ungakhohlwa ukuthi akudingekile ukuthenga izinto ezintsha ezifashisayo, futhi ezintweni ezilula ungathola ezithakazelisayo. Yebo, futhi kungcono ukuba nezembatho zezemidlalo, ngakho kukhona ithuba lokuzinakekela, ikakhulukazi ezemidlalo. Futhi khumbula ukuthi, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ugqoke yini, udinga ukwazi izinyathelo nemingcele, ngenkathi uhlala wedwa, futhi ungaphili, ngoba izingubo zishintsha umuntu.
Khumbula into eyodwa, ukuthi izingubo zakho akufanele zifanane nesitayela sempilo, kodwa futhi nesithombe sayo. Uma ufika ngesithombe esisha, amasethi amasha, udinga ukucabangela ibhalansi phakathi kobuntu bakho kanye nemikhuba emihle yemfashini, bese uzokwazi ukushintsha impilo yakho ngezingubo.
Ukuzama!
Into esemqoka akufanele ibe nesivilapha ngokushintsha okuthile ngaphakathi kwakho, ukushintsha isitayela sezingubo zakho nesitayela, ungesabi ukuzama, cela abangane-abangani, izihlobo nabangane ngemibono yabo ngomfanekiso wakho. Ababona abantu abangaziwa, futhi mhlawumbe bayokudonsa emicabangweni nemibono ethakazelisayo.
Mhlawumbe amathiphu angezansi azokusiza ukhethe, thola isisombululo sakho:
Kodwa ngisho noma ungakwazi ukuphendukela ochwepheshe, ngenxa yezizathu zabo siqu, ungadikibali. Zama ukuzihlola ngokubukeka kwakho, noma unike ithuba elinjalo, ezimweni ezimbi kakhulu, kwizinhlelo zekhompiyutha, lapho kungenzeka khona ukukwenza ngokwakho. Lapho, nezinwele, izimonyo, nezibuko, ngisho nezigqoko zingabonwa futhi zikhethwe.
Ngakho fantasize futhi ungakhohlwa imigomo eyisisekelo yemfashini nesitayela. Ngemuva kwakho konke, udinga nje ukuqina ngokuqinile.