Yiqiniso, uma ususeduze, ungawuvikela kukho konke. Futhi manje ingane yakho ikhule. Uphuma ngekhefu lokubeletha futhi udinga ukuya emsebenzini. Yebo, kuhle uma kunogogo nogogo ongakwazi manje ukunakekela ingane, ingane yakho iyojabula kakhulu ngakho. Kodwa uma kungenjalo kungenzeka? Khona-ke sekuyisikhathi sokucabanga ngezingane zasenkulisa. Izinqumo ezinjalo ngokuqinisekile uzothatha wonke umndeni. Kudingeka ukhethe ngokucophelela inkulisa futhi lokhu kungcono ukubuza imibono yabomama abaletha izingane zabo lapho futhi kuyadingeka ukuxoxa nabantu abaningi ngangokunokwenzeka.
Futhi-ke, siya enkulisa! Yini abazali okufanele bayilungiselele? Kuze kube manje, kukholelwa ukuthi ingane engcono kakhulu ivumelane neqembu elisha eminyakeni engu-1.5-2, kodwa iningi labesifazane linikeza izingane zabo eneminyaka emithathu. Lokhu kuyaqondakala, umama wahlala eholidini futhi ekugcineni wanquma ukuya emsebenzini, futhi noma yimuphi umama onothando uzobheka ukuthi isikhathi eside ingane ikhona, khona-ke uvikelekile kakhulu.
Ngaphambi kokuba unike ingane enkulisa udinga ukuyilungisa, futhi kuhle ukuba uqale ngokushesha ngangokunokwenzeka. Zama ukusho nsuku zonke ukuthi enkulisa uzoba kahle. Ngaphandle kwalokho ingane ingesaba, ithi ayikwazi ukubhekana nento ethile, ukuthi ngeke ikhululeke lapho, ngoba ngeke kube namama amaningi nakho konke okukulesi siqondiso. Phela, ingane eneminyaka yobudala ikholelwa konke okushiwo ngabantu abadala, futhi ikholelwa ukuthi uma abadala bethi kanjalo, kunjalo.
Qaphela impilo yengane yakho, qala ukuqina, wenze amabhuku okuhamba emoyeni, ukuhlanza okumanzi, ukuhamba ngaphezulu emoyeni ovulekile, ukuvivinya umzimba, khona-ke ingane yakho ngeke igule kancane. Ungakhohlwa inyanga ngaphambi kokungeniswa enkulisa ukuze wenze zonke izigciwane ezidingekayo.
Enye yezinhlelo eziyinhloko imfundiso yokuzimela. Ukufika enkulisa, umntwana kufanele akwazi ukuhamba ebhodweni ngokwakhe, sebenzisa isipuni kanye nemfoloko, uphuze emgodini, agqoke (abazonakekelayo bazosiza). Futhi kubi uma abazali bengakaqala ukuyifundisa kusengaphambili, ngoba kuyoba nzima ukuba ingane yakho ifunde konke ngesikhathi esifushane. Khona-ke udinga ukusabalalisa imodi yasekhaya ukuze ihambisane nomkhuba wansuku zonke enkulisa. Ukulala kwamasuku kubaluleke kakhulu kumntwana. Enkulisa, izingane zisheshe zikhathele ngomsindo, kusukela ekuziphatheni okukhulu, imizwelo, imidlalo, njll. futhi yingakho badinga ukuphumula. Uma ingane yakho ingalali emini, kufanele ufundise lokho. Qala ngokuphumula okuvamile, njengokufunda izincwadi, ukuphumula okuncane, ukutshela inganekwane futhi kancane kancane uqhubekele ekujuleni kwesikhathi eside, ngenxa yalokho, umntwana uzolala. Kuba cishe kuqondakala ukuthi yini abazali okufanele bayilungiselele.
Ngaphambi kokuba unike ingane enkulisa, kufanele wazi kangcono othisha namannies. Ungaletha ingane yakho okokuqala isikhathi esifushane. Futhi ungahlala nomntanakho kancane, ngakho-ke kuyoba lula ngaye.
Abanye omama abafuni ukuyeka igazi labo bese beqala ukukhala, beshiya ekhaya. Yihawukele ingane! Yena futhi manje kunzima, uhlala endaweni engazijwayele, futhi ngisho nenani labantu abaningi abangaziwa, futhi lapha futhi umuntu ozalwa kakhulu nomuntu ovalekile ukhona zonke izinyembezi. Bonisa ukuzethemba kwakho, khona-ke ingane ngeke isabe abanakekeli, uzobathemba (ngoba uthemba!).
Adapt ingane yakho izoba phakathi kwezinyanga ezimbili. Ngalesi sikhathi, isifiso singase siqale ukwehla, lokhu kungenxa yokudla okungavamile (uhlobo olusha lokudla nokunambitheka), noma ukuphendula okucindezelayo. Kodwa ungakhathazeki ngalokhu, uma ingane iqala ukudla, okungenani kancane kusuka epuleti, khona-ke ukuzivumelanisa kahle kuyaphumelela. Ngokuqondene nokulala, kuyoba nzima ukulala phakathi nosuku, futhi iphupho ngeke lihlale isikhathi eside, futhi mhlawumbe ngemva kokuvusa ingane yakho izokhala. Ukulala ebusuku ngalesi sikhathi kuyophinde kube nokuthula. Ngemuva kokujwayela, ukulala kujwayelekile. Ngisho nasesikhathini sokuzivumelanisa, ingane ingase ikhohlwe lokho ayekuyizi ngaphambili (esebenzisa ukusika, ukuhlanganisa ama-shoelaces, njll.), Kodwa izophinde idlule, futhi ifunde ngisho nontanga yakhe into entsha.
Ungesabi uma ngosuku lwesibili umntwana ekhala okuningi. Uvele esazi ukuthi manje uzolethwa futhi umama uzohamba. Ungakhohlwa ukuthi izingane ziyi-manipulators. Bathemba ukuthi uma ukhala kabi, cishe umama wakho uzomyisa ekhaya.
Njalo kusihlwa, ube nesithakazelo ukuthi usuku lwakhe luhamba kanjani, lokho akubona, alufunde, noma akwenzile, khona-ke uzobe ethakazelisa kakhulu, uzofuna ukuziqhayisa ngezinto ezintsha, futhi emva kwesikhashana uzobe esheshayo enkulisa. Lapha futhi, into esemqoka ukulungisa ingane ngokufanele.
Kungcono kakhulu enkulisa ukuvumelanisa lezo zingane ezikhulayo emndenini ozolile futhi onobungane. Umuntu okhulayo kufanele ahlale ekhuluma amazwi anomusa futhi amnakekele, khona-ke uyozizwa edingekayo futhi evikelwe.