Akekho olwa namaphutha ebuhlotsheni. Ngezinye izikhathi kwenzeka kanje: indoda isithande, futhi sichitha isikhathi esiningi sithandana naye, futhi uma kuziwa ezenzakalweni zangempela, sidumala kulokhe esikhethiwe futhi sikhathazekile ngenxa yesikhathi esichithwe. Kodwa ukugwema ukubuka okungajabulisayo usuvele usesiteji sezingxoxo zokuqala - kudingekile ukuthi uhlolisise umthandi ongabaziyo. Ngakho-ke, hlangana - izinhlobo eziyisithupha zamadoda, ubulili okungeke kukulethela okuhle.
1. Umfana wangaphambili
Isiqubulo: "Futhi futhi thola ..."
Izibalo - into enenkani. Futhi uthi abangaphezu kuka-60% wabathandi bokuqala abanothando manje bese bevuka embhedeni owodwa. Kunezizathu eziningi - kusuka elula "Kodwa kwakuhle kuye" ku-quirky "Kubalulekile ukuhlola ukuthi kulungile yini ukushiya." Yebo, asikwazi kodwa ukuphika ukuthi kunezibhangqwana ezixoxwa ekuseni ekuseni ngesitayela: "Angikwazi ukukukhohlwa, ake sonke sibuyele emuva", kodwa akwenzeki njalo ukuzibeka engozini futhi ungene emkhunjini ekushayweni kokuqala.
Okuhlukile: njengoba lo muntu engasho lutho kuwe, ungazama okuthile okusha naye, ngaphandle kokwesaba ukuthuthukiswa okuqhubekayo.
2. Isitayela sokuzingela
Isiqubulo esithi: "Njalo ekuseni ekuseni, ingonyama iyavusa ..."
Kakade ngomzuzu wokuqala wokuthandana ungathola ukuthi isandla sakhe sisevele sisekhanda lakho, futhi ingxoxo ihambele kahle esihlokweni: "Ngeke ubone noma ubani ongcono kunami." Yebo, amaqhinga athi "Abahloli bahamba", angaba nenkokhelo ekhanda lakho, kodwa sicela ungaphumeleli ngokushesha kulezi zindlela, ukuze ungabi ngeso lengqondo esinye isisulu esiwela ngaphansi kokuhlaselwa namandla emvelo.
Okuhlukile: icala uma izifiso ezingenakwenzeka zokufaka izicupho embhedeni wakho zivuthwe kuwe. Noma ungumuntu "I-Cat Woman".
3. Ukulahlekelwa / ukushiywa yedwa
I-Motto: "Yenza umgogodla"
Ukuzithandela kuyingozi. Kungozi ukuthi uma uhlukanisa, kukhuthaza amadoda ukuba agijimele abesifazane ngokucabanga: "Mhlawumbe angiyena leyo nto? Ngidinga ukuhlola lapha kule chick." Kodwa ungalindeli imizwa evela kuye - inhliziyo kanye nomphefumulo, lolu hlobo lusekhona ebuhlotsheni obudlule, futhi Ungase ukhethwe kuphela ngokubonakala okubonakalayo ngentshisekelo yangaphambili: Ungaphonsa "i-vest", indandatho yokuphila noma izinkinobho ezivela embhedeni wakho kuya kula madoda - abavuthanga lutho ngaphandle kwemicabango ngenye.
Isiqephu: uma uziphonsa embhedeni kulabo abanjalo, khona-ke kuphela esimweni lapho bona ngokwabo balahliwe khona.
4. Umngane ophethwe uswasawoti usudliwe kakade
Isiqubulo esithi: "Ubungani buhlobo, futhi kwasemini kusesikhathini."
Kubafana lokhu kuyintandokazi. Ube umngane ngaphezu konyaka owodwa, into iphendukile - futhi manje, uhlala embhedeni owodwa. Uthando, akunjalo? Yebo, kodwa ephepheni kuphela. Ngokujwayelekile, ubuhlobo emva kwalokhu kuyinto efanayo: owesifazane uyamangala ngempela ukuthi indoda ayimthandi yini, futhi lo muntu ukholelwa ukuthi uthola "indawo yokuhamba emoyeni" kumuntu wesifazane. Noma kunjalo, kodwa kokubili akulungile.
Ukungafani: Uqaphele ngempela eceleni komfana ofanelwe ukuguqula ibe yi-caste "Vula ubulili."
5. Ukuzimela ngokweqile owesifazane
Isiqubulo esithi: "Ngize, ngibone, ngihlazekile, nginqobile."
Ukuhlekwa usulu ngabalingani nabo ekilasini, esikoleni esifunda nabo, emfundweni ye-puritanical emndenini - enhlabathini evundile igciwane "Ngifanele ngizitshele ukuthi ngiyaxoshwa ngobulili obuhlukile" kunika amahlumela amabi kakhulu .Lolu hlobo luyakuthanda ukukhuluma ngabantu besifazane njengabantu abathwesithathu, bengazi ukuthi kuxhomeke kubo okungaphezu kwalokho abenza kuye Embhede, uzokwenza konke okusemandleni akho kwakuhambisana nendima yenceku - ukuhlazeka nokuhlambalaza Uzokwazi ukubekezelela ngokwanele.
Okungafani: kuphela uma usuvele uqale ukubheka amathoyizi e-BDSM ngesabelo sentshisekelo, kodwa umuntu ofanelekile akahlangane.
6. I-egoist
Isiqubulo esithi: "Ngeke ungithande njengoba ngizithanda."
Uma ebhentshini lesikole umuntu othile ufundiswe umqondo wokuthi ungumfana ohlukile, bese uneminyaka yobudala lokhu kungathela izithelo ngendlela egoism engathà sina. Futhi uma lo mfana enenhlanhla, futhi eseduze nemali enhle - kusuka kuye kufanele usuke uyeke. Ngombhede, lolu hlobo luzo "vumela" ukuzithokozisa nje kuphela, ngokuqinisekile ngeke luhlangabezane nawe.Ukuzijabulisa kuzolungisa ukushayela ukuthi ngakusasa ngeke uqaphele ukuthi yena, ukugqugquzela ubusuku bokugcina ngombhalo othi "Ngahlehla ezulwini" ngishiya embhedeni, ngawela phezu kwakho .
Ukungafani: singakwenza ngaphandle kwabo.
PS Futhi khumbula ukuthi ezinhlotsheni zokuphila kwengqondo ngendlela ehlanzekile ayivamile. Ngokujwayelekile, kumuntu oyedwa kungahlanganiswa izinhlobo ezimbili noma ngaphezulu.