Khona-ke uqala ukuzibuza ukuthi yini engeke nje ube nobuhlobo obunjalo nomfana, kodwa futhi neminye imibhangqwana? Kodwa, ha, cha. Imibhangqwana eminingi ivume ukuthi nayo yabhekana nale nkinga, kodwa nokho bafeze impumelelo nokuqonda okufanayo. Kodwa umbuzo uwukuthi: "Bafeze kanjani umphumela onjalo?" Nanka amanye amathiphu avela ku-sexologists, i-psychotherapists, kanye "nabashadile abanokuhlangenwe nakho" abasebevele basize abaningi.
1. Ubulili umuzwa wasezulwini
Isazi sezokwelapha eziningi odumile uDilya Enikeeva ukucula ukushaya, kuqhathaniswa ne-duet. Mhlawumbe uzovuma ukuthi ucansi eminyakeni eyishumi nesishiyagalombili uhlukile eminyakeni engamashumi amathathu yesondo. Ngempela, kuphela lapho usemusha ungase uzizwe ukuthi udlala kanjani ama-hormone egazini lakho, ungalali ubusuku, kodwa ekuseni usuke uzizwa uhlanzekile kune-rose, ngaphambi kokuba izwe ligcwele ithemba nethemba, uhle, njenge-Aphrodite futhi uyajabula. Unyaka nonyaka, basusa kuwe ubuhle nokuzethemba, ikakhulukazi uma umyeni ephinda ephindaphinda ngamakhilogremu engeziwe futhi esekhona yonke imibimbi ephawulekayo, wonke amandla aya emndenini, asikho isikhathi esanele sokulala, hhayi ukukhuluma ngocansi.
Kodwa nokho, uma lo mbhangqwana unelisekile ngobuhlobo bawo obuseduze, khona-ke isizinda sidalwe lapho ubuhlobo bezinye izigaba buqala ukuthuthukisa. Lesi sizinda sithonya kahle impumelelo yobuhlobo nomfana.
Kungenzeka kanjani ukuthi kuleso simo? Isizathu sini? Uyabona konke kahle ebuhlotsheni bakho bansuku zonke? Uma kungenjalo, zama ukuthola lelo phuzu elingokomzwelo lenkinga ebuhlotsheni bakho.
2. Zama okuthile ukuze uhambisane
Yeka ukuphazamiseka okuphakama ukuthi asisoze sikhohlwe ukulahla zonke izinkinga eziqoqiwe ngosuku, zonke izimangalo, izinkinga kumyeni, kodwa sibonakala sikhohlwa ukuveza ithenda. Futhi nasi esinye isibonakaliso esinye sokuqala kokubhujiswa kobudlelwane bakho. Khumbula lapho unikeze umyeni wakho ikhofi embhedeni? Futhi nini umyeni wakho ekugcineni kufanele agubhe emuva emuva eshaweni?
Iqembu ngalinye linezindlela zokupheka zalo zokubonisa ububele nothando, ngakho-ke uye phansi kwakho! Uma uvame ukuveza imizwelo yakho emihle kaningi, ukuqina kobulili kuzoba namandla kakhulu!
3. Uma umzimba ukhathele - bese uphuma kuwo, akuyona into engavamile, ubulili obukhathele
Mhlawumbe, abaningi bawela esimweni esinjalo, lapho umyeni eqala ukubonisa isinyathelo, kodwa ufuna ukulala? Uma uthi, cha-ke umyeni usalokhu ehlambalaza uma u-yebo - bese ekugcineni uqamba amanga. Ngezinye izikhathi kwenzeka nakwezinye izindlela, lapho umyeni esevele esiphendula kuwe "ikhanda libuhlungu." Ngokuqinisekile uma kunjalo udinga ukuphumula. Abanye banikeza ugogo wabo izingane zabo, kanti ngempelasonto bacela osebenza nabo, ababajwayele, abanye - abangadingi ukuphuthuma ekuseni, bese behamba ngesondo ekuseni, okwesithathu - bawabeka embhedeni, bese bezinika isikhathi.
4. Zonke izinkinga ngemuva komnyango!
Izingxoxo zocingo nabangani zingahlehliswa kuze kube yilapho. Izinkinga zehhovisi endlini zingasusi, imibhalo ingakwazi futhi ukulinda emsebenzini. Uma kwenzeka ulinde ucingo olubalulekile, vula umshini wokuphendula. Uma lolo suku luba nzima futhi kube nezinkinga ezingaxazululwa, kungcono ukuthi ungahle uhlele ubuhlobo obuseduze, ngoba ngeke unikeze ukuphumula kulezo zinkinga osadingayo izinto eziningi ongayenza. Uma ubona okungenani eminye yale mithetho, kufanele ube nethuba lokuphumelela ekuvuseleleni ubuhlobo bakho.
5. Sitshela izinhlelo zethu kumyeni
Uma uthi ngendlela enjengebhizinisi: "Darling, sinebusuku bobulili!" - lokhu kungaba isimo sengqondo esihluke ngokuphelele. Ungabizi izikhathi ezingamashumi amabili ngosuku, ungikhumbuze ukuthi maduzane, futhi ulindele kulobu busuku. Ungabuya ekhaya usuka emsebenzini uhhafu wehora ngaphambili bese wenza isidlo esilula, okuyoba mnandi kakhulu kumngane wakho womshado, ungakwazi ukunakekela i-champagne noma iwayini, ukuya eshaweni noma ekugezeni - uma wakhe umqondo omuhle, umyeni wakho uyozizwa futhi.
6. Qaphela - izicupho!
Uma usebenzisa isimo esifanayo embhedeni - lokhu kuzoba esinye isicupho, ngokusho kwezocansi. Okusho ukuthi, uma udla amazambane othosiwe njalo, khona-ke ihora lizofika uma ukubukeka okukodwa kuzokuletha isicanucanu. Lokhu kuholela eqinisweni lokuthi "ukudla okudlulayo" kwakho kudinga ukuhlukahluka.
7. Umyeni akuyona intombi yakho!
Ubuhlobo bakho abuhlohli usuku nosuku, ungakhohlwa ukuthi wena nendoda, hhayi intombi. Futhi kuyisicefe ukuthi uyinqobe nsuku zonke. Ungabonakali konke ukushiyeka kwakho, ukuthi une-10 kg eyengeziwe, noma unayo ukubola kwamazinyo - lokhu kuzokuqala ukuyihlambalaza umyeni wakho futhi uyobe enesizungu njengokungathi ulahla zonke izinkinga zakho.
8. Hlonipha kuhle!
Yiqiniso, ucansi olubi lungakhumbuza ngisho nomhlangano webhizinisi, ngakho indlela yokuvuselela ubuhlobo bakho ukuhleka.
9. Izinkumbulo ziyisihlobo!
Uma phakathi kwakho kunobanda, izithombe ezindala, izinkumbulo ezithakazelisayo, kuzokusiza ukukhumbula ukuthi usalithandana kangakanani.
10. Woza ngothando.
Abaningi bazovuma ukuthi kunzima ukudlala ngothando nomyeni wakho! Kodwa! Zama ukuhamba ukuze utshele isimo sakho sesikhathi esizayo sobusuku obukhulu uma uvakashela ukuze uzame ukumthabisa ngokugubha ngamadolo bese uzama ukukhuphuka phezulu. Kunezindlela eziningi, into esemqoka ukukhetha owodwa oyithandayo umyeni wakho! Ngidinga ukukufundisa? Ungakhohlwa ukuthi ukukhathazeka kwakho kusekhona kuwe, kodwa kuphela okumbozwa ngothuli, ngoba isikhathi eside akekho oye wasisebenzisa, ujabulele impilo!
UKsenia Ivanova , ikakhulukazi indawo