Futhi kungakhathaliseki ukuthi abantu bathi bangakanani okungeke kuthinteke futhi bafakwe ngaphansi kohlobo oluthile lwe-formula yesayensi, lezi zinto zikhona futhi zivame ukuvela empilweni yethu. Iqiniso, ungadideli isoni nabalungileyo. Kunezimo eziningi lapho abesifazane behlupheka ngenxa yobunjwa babo, ukuziphatha, indlela yokuphila, ukubuka umhlaba wonke. Lapha akudingeki ukuba ugijimele kunogogo, kepha ukuphendukela kwesazi sengqondo, shintsha okuthile kuwe, ushintshe imvelo.
Ukulimala kubonakala ngokuhluke kakhulu. Kulokhu, ngokuvamile, intombazane ayikho amaphutha ebonakalayo. Lokhu kungaqinisekiswa yizo zonke izindawo ezizungezile, ngisho nabantu abangajwayelekile. Kuyinto nje yokuthi amadoda ahlambalaza kwabesifazane abanjalo. Abafana abakwazi ukunikeza incazelo ephelele yokuziphatha kwabo. Kubo, owesifazane onjalo uba yindawo engenalutho, noma i-quintessence yayo yonke imizwa emibi umuntu osemusha ehlangabezana nayo. Naphezu kobuhle, ukuhlakanipha, ukuhlakanipha kanye ne-erudition, owesifazane akanandaba nomuntu.
Okwesibili yilokho amantombazane ehlukumezeka kakhulu kulabafana, ngoba bahlale behlangana nabasondelene, abadakwa nezidakamizwa ezidakwa izidakamizwa, noma baba njengalapho nje ubuhlobo buqala. Ngendlela, kulokhu futhi, kufanelekile ukuphenya ukuthi kuyiqiniso yini ukuthi benze umonakalo, ungahambisani namadoda, noma le nkosikazi iyafinyelela kubantu abanjalo. Phela, kukhona uhlobo lwabesifazane abajwayele ukubhekisana ne-masochism. Bangakwazi ukuphika bona ngokwabo, kodwa, noma kunjalo, bayathanda ukuhlupheka. Kulesi simo, udinga nje ukuphendukela kwesazi sengqondo noma wena ukushintsha ingqondo yakho. Ungalokothi ukhohlwe ukuthi ababikezeli bezinhlanzi nabakhulukazi abakwazi ukusiza ukushintsha isimo sakho sengqondo kuwe. Abaongameli bangempela baphathelene nezimo eziphambene nemisebenzi ephakeme. Bazosiza ukusiza kuphela uma inkinga yakho ixhunyiwe ngempela nento engavamile. Akufanele neze udibanise izinkinga ezivamile zengqondo ngokungenelela kwamandla aphezulu. Yilokho okwenza abantu bayeke ukukholelwa kunoma yimaphi amabutho ahamba ngaphesheya kokuqonda kwethu.
Uma usaqonda ukuthi zonke izinkinga zakho zivele ngenxa yokuphazanyiswa kwamandla omhlaba, ukuthi ungenza kanjani esimweni esinjalo? Mhlawumbe, kuyadingeka ukweluleka, kuzokhuluma nomholi. Kodwa, kule ndaba, kuyadingeka nokuba nesimo sengqondo esizwakalayo ezintweni ezenzeka kuwe.
Ngakho-ke, uma unqume ukukhuluma nogogo, khumbula njalo ukuthi emhlabeni wethu kunezinkampani eziningi ezinama-charlatans nama-charlatans abanikeza ukucabanga okufisayo. Yingakho, umuntu akufanele aphenduke kubantu abazikhangisa ngokwabo kumaphephandaba. Abantu abanjalo bazama ukwenza imali, kodwa hhayi ukusiza abanye. Abesifazane abanikezwa isipho esivela kuNkulunkulu abazange babeke amanani, futhi, futhi, bangakhulumi ngesipho sabo emaceleni amaphephandaba athandwa kakhulu. Kukholelwa ukuthi uNkulunkulu akawamukeli, futhi, ngisho, angasusa amandla ephutha elinjalo. Yingakho, udinga ukuxhumana nalabo omkhulu esibafundela kubangane. Abesifazane abanjalo abangazange bazwe nge-PR ngokuvamile banamandla amakhulu nethuba. Ngabe nje abaongameli bangempela bangabheki umgomo wabo oyinhloko wokuthola imali eningi ngangokunokwenzeka. Abantu abanesipho bafuna into eyodwa kuphela - ukusiza abanye. Yilokho okubaqhuba lapho benza umsebenzi wabo.
Ukuphendukela ekusizeni, ungalindeli ukuthi ugogo owake wawela swoop uzoxazulula zonke izinkinga zakho. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kwakunjani, noma imuphi umlingo awukwazi ukufeza konke umuntu ocabanga nokufunayo. Ngeshwa, azikho ama-Hottabikki amadala empilweni yethu. Akukho okwenziwa ngemuva kokuba izinwele zezintshe zikhishwe. Kubalulekile futhi, imizamo yomuntu, ukufeza noma yimaphi amandla. Umlingo usinikeza kuphela indlela eya ephusheni, okumele sizitholele yona. Uma uya kumuntu onenhlanhla, ungakhethi umgomo oyinhloko wesifiso, ukuthi uhlangane, lapha futhi manje, lowo ongashadile. Umkhulu anganikeza ithuba, kodwa akakwazi ukubala. Akayena ikhampasi, kodwa kuphela umuntu onamakhono athile athinta umhlaba wakho namathuba akho. Konke okunye kuncike kuwe kuphela, ukuziphatha kwakho nezinqumo zakho. Eqinisweni, inkinga nge-spoilage ihambisana nemindeni eminingi.
Ngokuvamile kwenzeka ukuthi ngenxa yabazali izingane zabo zihlupheka. Yiqiniso, lokhu akuyona into enhle, kepha lapho kukhona khona amandla aphezulu okuhle nokubi, akuyona enye indlela. Le yimithetho yemilingo nemvelo. Uma umuntu ephutha ngokusebenzisa umlingo onamandla, amandla amhlophe kuphela afanayo angayinqoba. Ngakho-ke, uma uqonda ukuthi kuzo zonke izinselele, empeleni, into ehamba phambili ihilelekile, kudingeka uyilahle, kodwa ungalindeli ukuthi isimangaliso sangempela sizokwenzeka. Izimangaliso azenzeki. Umlingo esiwubiza ngokuthi isimangaliso uphinde uqinise imithetho eyaziwa ngumqondo womuntu. Kodwa, ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, futhi lokhu singakwazi ukufunda nokubeka emashalofini. Ngakho-ke, ungathathi umlingo njengokungathi uyinto eyohlala ihamba ngaphezu kweso lethu. Lokhu kuyi-panacea engaphulukisa ezinkingeni eziningi, lapho izimbangela, izimpande kanye ne-foci zalezi zifo ezibalulekile nezingokomoya zichazwe ngokucacile.
Benza umonakalo, ungathwali nabafana. Yebo, empeleni, kwabesifazane abaningi, kuyabuhlungu kakhulu futhi kuyabangela ukwesaba. Kodwa ngenkinga enjalo ungalwa njalo, kokubili ngomlingo nangokwengqondo. Wonke owesifazane, ngendlela yakhe, ungumlumbi. Nguye imbongi, angashintsha impilo yakhe ne karma hhayi ngosizo lomqondisi wakhe. Kudingekile ukuqonda ngokugcwele inkinga, ukuqonda hhayi kuphela ukuqonda kwayo, kodwa futhi nesici sengqondo. Ngisho nasemindenini lapho abantu baqalekiswa khona esizweni lesikhombisa, abesifazane bangathola injabulo. Kulokhu basizwa umlingo nomthetho wesifazane.