Khala
Khumbula - khala, lokhu akusona isifiso sokulimaza, kungukuthi, okokuqala, ukungabi namandla kwakho. Yile ndlela izingane ezicabangela ngazo izingane ezikhalayo kubo. Abazali abahlala behlukana nabo, bacabanga ukuthi bavikelekile.
Lapho ukhulisa izingane, ukumemeza akuvunyelwe. Nguye ongabangela isimo sokubonisa ingane. Uma umama ephuka, ingane iqala ukugxila ezinyaweni zayo, ijwayele ukukhala futhi yenza unina azizwe kakhudlwana. Ngakho-ke, ingane isetshenziselwa ukusabela okubuhlungu futhi iqala ukuyisebenzisa yona.
Beat
Ngokungangabazeki, abazali abaningi bayothi ngeke bathinte ingane ngomunwe wabo. Futhi manje khumbula lezo zinsuku lapho ungenalutho ungenelele ibheyili lezingane, lapho ekhuphuka, lapho ungahambi khona. Noma ama-slaps abuthakathaka ku-papa, ngokujwayelekile, noma yini eyesabisa ingane futhi yabangela ukungakhululeki. Angeke ahlukumezeke, kodwa iqiniso lokuthi uyamshaya, lishaye izulu.
Khumbula - awukwazi ukushaya izingane, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ziyini amandla. U-Amy uyaqhubeka nokuhamba phambili egameni elifanayo, engakwazi ukubhekana nokumesaba kwakhe.
Hlangana nokuphila komuntu siqu
Lokhu kusebenza ezinganeni ezindala. Izingane zinabangane abasha, izinto zokuzilibazisa, izinkampani. Abazali bazama njalo ukungena empilweni yengane yabo futhi bamfundise ingqondo-isizathu. Bahlela zonke izinhlobo zokuphenywa, ukuthola ukuthi ungubani nokuthi ungubani. Izingane ezivela kulokhu azikona, ikakhulukazi uma izimfihlo zobomi babo obuseduze zikhuluma ngokuxoxisana. Abaningi babo, ngokwabo bafuna ukwabelana ngemfihlakalo nezinkinga zabo, kodwa kuphela uma bezwa ukuphepha okugcwele futhi abazali ngeke babuze imibuzo engadingekile.
Awukwazi ukuphuza, ukubhema nomama ebusweni bezingane
Lapha konke kulula. Okokuqala, ubaba uzophuza ibhodlela likabhiya, bese umama emema umngane wakhe ukuba asebenzise isikhathi. Futhi manje ingane ibona ukuvinjelwa kwamalungelo okuzalwa, njengokuhlazeka - kusho ukuthi umama nobaba bangakwazi, kepha angikwazi? Ngakho-ke, hlala amehlo akho kulokho okwenzayo. Khumbula - ingane ikhophi konke ukunyakaza kwethu nezintandokazi. Awufuni ukuthi abe nesithakazelo kulokhu esikhathini esizayo?
Ngicabanga, akudingekile ukusho ukuthi ingane kuqala futhi ngokuyinhloko umthwalo omkhulu. Ngemuva kokubonakala kwakhe, impilo iphendukela phansi. Noma yikuphi ukuvinjelwa okubekayo kumntwana kumkhuthaza ukuba aphathe ngokwanele izinto ezingathandeki. Emva kwakho konke, njengoba uyazi, isithelo esivinjelwe siphunga, njengokungathi kwakungenakubabaza ukuyiqaphela.
Awukwazi ukwesaba ubulili bakhe
Zonke izingane zikhula ngokukhipha imifino nemingcele. Kakade baneminyaka engu-15 abaningi babo balala nobulili nabantu abadala. Ngaphambi kwalokho, ezingxoxweni zabo kunezinkomba eziphathelene nobulili noma enye inhlamba.
Abazali ezimweni ezinjalo bavame ukuziphatha ngendlela engalungile. Esikhundleni sokubamba ikhanda bese betshela ingane ukuthi lokhu kuyisaba kanjani, kumnqoba ukwesaba, kufanele umxwayise ngokuphepha futhi ucele ukusebenzisa izakhi zokubeletha. Ukwesaba okugqugquzela kulesi sikhathi kuyothinta impilo yakhe yocansi eminyakeni embalwa. Kwenzekani nakakhulu, abazali baqala ukubuza ingane lapho ahamba khona nokuthi yini akwenzayo, ezama ukuziphatha ngendlela efanele.
Ufuna ukutadisha endaweni
Lesi yisimo esibucayi kakhulu. Abanye bakholelwa ukuthi ukuzimisela kwabazali kuhlanganiswe kubo kusukela ezikhathini zamaSoviet, lapho wonke umuntu ayelalela futhi alalela. Abazali badinga okufanayo kubantwana babo bokutholwa.
Ukuphumelela kwezingane zesikole kuvame ukuboniswa ukungabi nokusebenza kwabazali. Abantu abaningi bazihlambalaza ngamathuba alahlekile, futhi bacabange ukuthi ngisho noma ingane ingahamba endleleni efanele. Noma kunjalo, ukucindezelwa okunjalo kuyoholela ekungeneni okuhle. Mhlawumbe, lapho ekhula, uzovusa isifiso somuntu wonke futhi ahlale ephakamisa. Ngikholelwa - lokhu akuyona into engcono kakhulu. Ngakho kungani ukuhlukumeza ingane nalabo abamthandayo?
Yebo, futhi ngingathini? Akuwona wonke umuntu owanikwa into efanayo, kodwa lokhu akusho ukuthi ingane yakho ibuhlungu kakhulu. Awunikhathazeki ngokuthi awuzange ube yi-biologicalist molecule?