Intombazane ngayinye ifuna ukwethula izipho zangempela nezingajwayelekile kumuntu, ukuze akhumbule lo mzuzwana isikhathi eside. Kukholelwa ukuthi izipho kufanele zinikezwe ngamaholide kuphela, kodwa empeleni zibonise imizwa yakho nokukhathalela akudingeki kanye ngonyaka, kodwa kaningi kakhulu. Ngemuva kwalokho, uma ngabe kungakhathaliseki ukuthi iholidini lekhalenda, ngezikhathi ezithile ludlulisela izithandwa zakho ngezipho zokuqala, lokhu kuzokuqinisa ubuhlobo bakho. Ngaphezu kwalokho, lo muntu uzojabula kakhulu ukuzwa ukunakekelwa kwakho.
Izigaba zezipho
Izipho zamadoda zingahlukaniswa ngezigaba ezintathu: izipho zokuqala, zendabuko, ezivamile, eziyincithakalo, okwesibini - ezibizayo, ezesithathu - ezokuqala. Cishe ngesigaba sokugcina nenkulumo yethu izohamba. Lezi zipho zingase zithwale okubalulekile, kodwa kufanele zibe mnandi, zithokoze (zenziwe ngokwayo) futhi zinikezwe ngenhliziyo yonke. Kuloluhlu lwezipho ezingavamile zomuntu kungathiwa umkhathi wothando owakhiwe ngokukhethekile, owenzelwe ukuze wenze othandekayo amangala.
Yebo ngifuna ukuqaphela ukuthi ukukhetha isipho kumuntu akuyona into elula, ikakhulukazi uma isipho esingavamile. Futhi akunandaba ukuthi ungumuntu onjani: umfana noma oshade naye. Yingakho udinga ukunakekelwa isipho kusengaphambili.
Indlela yokuqala
Ezikhathini eziningi ezingavamile, njengomthetho, kusho umkhumbulo wobuciko noma i-bauble ehlekisayo. Kodwa kufanelekile ukukhumbula ukuthi isipho esinjalo kufanele sikukhumbuze okungenani isikhathi esithile (cishe okungaphezu kweyishumi). Isibonelo, kungaba yidiski yomculo, ukulalela lapho indoda ezocabangela ngomnikeli. Into esemqoka lapha akufanele ilahlekelwe ngokuthandwa komculo kwamadoda. Ngendlela, umculo - lena yindawo ehlotshaniswa nemizwelo yomuntu, izinkumbulo zakhe. Uma intombazane inezwa kahle kakhulu nezwi, kungani engeke ibhale i-albhamu yakhe kumthandi wayo bese imnika yona. Ukuntula kwedatha yezwi akuyona isizathu sokucasula. Bhala phansi umuntu ngokuhambisana nomculo omuhle isimemezelo esingokomoya sothando.
Ukuqapha ebuhlotsheni
Okokuqala, ukwenza isipho sakho kungavamile nje kuphela, kodwa futhi sifiseleka, sondela ekukhethweni kwayo ngobuhlakani, uma ubonise umkhosi. Thola ukuthi yini eyammangaza kakhulu.
Siyazi kahle
Akudingekile ukuba usebenzise imali enkulu kakhulu ngezipho ezingavamile, zingenziwa ngezandla zakho. Isibonelo, ikhadi lokubingelelana elingavamile lokubingelelwa nge-prose noma izinkondlo zomsebenzi wakhe ngokuqinisekile lizokwaziswa. Into esemqoka ukubhekana namavesi kumuntu othize futhi ubeke ingxenye yomphefumulo wakhe kule migqa.
I-albhamu yezinkumbulo
Njengomthetho, izikhathi eziningi ezimnandi zokuphila zifakwe ezithombeni. Ngakho-ke, ukuze ukhumbule kanye nabathandekayo bakho izenzakalo ezinhle kakhulu ekuphileni, mnike i-albhamu yezinkumbulo. Ukuze wenze lokhu, udinga ukuthenga i-albhamu evamile, futhi esikhundleni sezithombe ukufaka kuzo amapheshana, lapho ubhala khona izinkumbulo zakho ezijabulisayo kanye nemizuzu ejabulisayo owachitha ndawonye. Ekhasini ngalinye udinga ukubhala inkumbulo eyodwa. Le albhamu ingaboniswa hhayi kumuntu othandekayo kuphela, kodwa nakumngane, umzalwane.
Akuyona evamile engavamile
Njengesipho sokuqala sesigamu sakho sesibili ungakhetha indawo ethile yothando futhi uyilungiselele. Isibonelo, isipho esinjalo esingavamile singenza igumbi lidubule ehhotela, okumele uhlobanise ngesitayela sengqondo ngangokunokwenzeka. Ngemuva kwalokho, phosa okhiye bakho ku-knight ngenothi ehlanganiswe ne-perfume yakho, ekhombisa ikheli lapho kufanele ulinde khona. Noma ungaya kwenye indlela bese upheka isidlo sakho isidlo esiphundu nesiphundu ekhaya, ugcwalisa kusihlwa ngesimo esiseduze. Zithengelele izingubo zangaphansi ezingaphansi kwezingubo eziphansi futhi uzinikeze othandekayo wakho njengesipho esihlelwe kahle, okumele "asuse". Isipho esinjalo ngokuqinisekile siyoba okungavamile kakhulu futhi sizokhunjulwa isikhathi eside nge knight yakho.