Ukuyinkimbinkimbi kokukhetha isipho intombazane akukhona ekunciphiseni kwamathuba, kodwa ngokuphambene - ngokuchichima kwabo. Kulula nje, inkinga enkulu yokukhetha isipho esiphelele yukuthi abesifazane bafuna kakhulu, ukuthanda kwabo kuyizinto ezihlukahlukene kakhulu, futhi okuthandayo kufaka yonke into. Okuyinzima kakhulu ikhwalithi yowesifazane okwenza isipho sesipho sokuqala. Phela, akufanele nje nje intombazane, abe yinto efanekisela ukuxhumana nomnikeli, kodwa futhi kufanele akhunjulwe njengento engalindelekile ngokuphelele. Ngisho noma indima yakhe ibonakala into, ayeseyilindela isikhathi eside.
Ukuqala kwesipho akuyona into esemqoka.
Ukufuna ukumjabulisa othandekayo wakho, oshade naye noma intombi yakho ngesipho esingavamile, akudingeki ukhethe into engacabanga ukuthi isipho, kodwa uzojabula nayo. Ngempela, izipho zokuqala zentombazane zizocatshangwa njengalezi hhayi kuphela esimweni sokuthi akekho owanikeze kunoma ubani ngaphambili. Uma ngabe ufisa, isethi encane yokubhala ingabuye ibe yinto engeyona encane, uma uyibeka ngokungavamile noma uyihlele ngendlela engejwayelekile.
Umthetho oyinhloko lapho ukhetha isipho sokuqala intombazane akufanele ulahlekelwe yizifiso zakhe ezinesikhathi eside. Owesifazane ngalokhu ulula kakhulu kunomuntu: uthanda ukukhuluma ngamaphupho akhe, uyakwenza kaningi, kodwa cishe njalo ngefomu elimboziwe. Yingakho izazi ze-psychologists zingapheli ukuphindaphinda: lowo owazi ukuthi angamlaleli kanjani owesifazane kuphela, kodwa futhi ukuzwa, futhi okubaluleke kakhulu - ukuqonda, uzokwazi ukukhetha isipho esivela kunazo zonke kuye kumaminithi. Ngempela, kulokhu, empeleni, akukho lutho olunzima, ngoba isipho esikhethwe ngokwezwi lesifiso sentombazane kuyoba yilabo abangelona iqiniso, uma nje kuphela indoda izoyiveza ngobufakazi bokuthi uyayilalela amazwi akhe. Futhi lokhu kunoma yimuphi intombazane - isipho esibaluleke kakhulu, esingalindelekile, esiphundu kakhulu nesingakhohlwa.
Uma lezi zipho zinikezwa intombazane ekuqaleni, khona-ke ziyoba yinto engeyona encane kuye. Kuyafaneleka kuzo zonke izinhlobonhlobo, okuyinto umcabango womuntu kuphela ongakwazi. Ukunciphisa isipho ngentambo yegolide kusuka esiteji esiphezulu. Ukuze uyifihle endlini futhi ubeke emaceleni amfihlo amanothi amsizayo ukuthi amthole, hlukanisa isipho zibe izingxenye futhi ulungiselele imfundo yomhlangano wayo.
Ukukhetha okungezona okujwayelekile kwesipho ngokwayo.
Ukunikeza owesifazane iholidi kuyindlela enhle ukummangaza. Kodwa uma uthanda, isipho ngokwalo singase sibe yinto yokuqala. Kuphela nje indoda noma umfana kuzodingeka asebenzise isikhathi hhayi ekuthuthukiseni uhlelo oluyingqayizivele lenkulumo yakhe, kodwa ngokucwaninga izindawo zokudayisa emzini wakhe ngokufuna i-gizmos engavamile. Ukuqala kwesipho sintombazane ngokuqondile kuxhomeke emvelweni nasekulindeni kwalabo abanesipho.
Ngezinye izikhathi isethi elula yamapensela ane-easel nayo ingaba yinto engeyona encane - uma inkathi yesikhashana iboniswa empilweni yothandekayo, futhi angeke anqume umsebenzi wakhe wesikhathi esizayo. Noma, uma nje ekhononda ngokungabikho kokuzilibazisa okuthakazelisayo empilweni yakhe, angakwazi ukuletha amasheya amaningana ngesikhathi esisodwa ukuze athole ukuzilibazisa kwakhe: ikhamera noma i-albhamu yezithombe, isethi ye-decoupage, umdwebo wakhe wokuqala we-embroidery, njll. Uma isikhathi sokuletha isipho sanduliwe ukuphikisana, ungethula into engokomfanekiso, kodwa engalindelekile: i-tomahawk yokuhlobisa ukucwasa inzondo, ukulingisa induna yokujezisa lothandayo noma ngisho nokulahla imidlalo yokuthanda. Kodwa lapha kuyadingeka ukuba uqaphele ukunakekelwa okukhulu: intombazane kufanele iqonde kahle ukuthi isipho siphila futhi sinomqondo ohlelekile wokuhlekisa.
Muva nje, kuye kwaba nemibuthano ethandwa kakhulu njengezipho zangempela zentombazane. Yiqiniso, okuhle futhi, ngokungangabazeki, kuphephile. Uma i-heroine yebhola ingahlola ngokunembile umzamo otshalwe imali ku-rally futhi uqinisekisiwe ukuthi ngeke uphuthelwe isakhiwo, khona-ke ukusebenza okunjalo kungadlalwa ngaye. Kodwa lapho kungcono ukuhlelela i-adventure yakhe ethandekayo yamanje ngokubamba iqhaza komthandi wakhe endimeni ye-superhero. Akuzalwanga okwamanje owesifazane ongafuni ukuthi abathandekayo bakhe banikezwe amandla angavamile. Ngakho-ke kungani ungabonakali phambi kwakhe ku-suit of man's spider-man, a batman noma i-vampire kusuka ochungechungeni lwakho oluthandayo lwe-TV. Izindleko zentombazane ngokuvamile zihle futhi, okungenani, isipho esivela kakhulu.
Okujwayelekile okungewona okujwayelekile.
Yiqiniso, ngokwayo ukuvela kwesipho sabathandekayo - umqondo awuyona eyingqayizivele. Phela, wonke umuntu onothando noma umuntu ufuna isipho sakhe kuye, okuwukuphela kwayo, ukuba okungalindelekile, okungazelelwe futhi okungenangqondo. Ngakho-ke, izipho zangempela zinde futhi zisekuqaleni, kunzima ukubiza ngenxa yobuqhawe obungavamile nokugcwaliswa okungapheli kokuhambisana nokufakwa kwamadoda amasha.
Ngakho-ke, namuhla kunokwenzeka ukuthi singaboni izipho eziningi zangempela, okwakubonakala ukuthi amantombazane ayakwazisa ngezikhathi ezehlukene futhi ngenxa yalokho awela eqenjini elingavamile "le-gizmos ye-classical nontrivial". Okokuqala, yilokho okuthiwa "uphondo lwesipho": isipho esinamininingwane ayi-10 noma ngaphezulu - amapeni, amapensela, i-flashlight, i-oilcloth raincoat ukuyivikela emvula, ingono yengane, isethi lamakhandlela nezinye izinto ezincane ezincane futhi ungangeni kahle kumntombazane empilweni yansuku zonke, kodwa ngokuqinisekile ukuthwala incazelo ethile engokomfanekiso. Kule sipho kufanele kube khona izincazelo ezithandwayo. Noma kufanele isetshenziswe ngokuqondile eholidini lentombazane: isibonelo, ukumbathisa ebhodini nekhanda lezingane bese umondla ikhekhe ngekhasi uma izalwa.
Okwesibili, isethulo akusona isipho, kodwa ukugcwaliseka kwezifiso. Okusho ukuthi intombazane ayitholi into ethile, kepha ithuba lokuchitha isikhathi ngendlela ayifunayo isikhathi eside. Lokhu kungaba ikhadi lemali ethile yokuthenga esitolo sakho esithandayo, isitifiketi sokuya e-spa elite, i-sauna, ubuhle be-salon, njll, noma ithikithi ekusebenzeni okulinde isikhathi eside kumidlalo yaseshashalazini, i-cinema, i-club. Ayikho imikhawulo ekusetshenzisweni kwezipho ezinjalo. Kodwa kukhona umthetho wegolide wokhetho lwakhe olufanele: kumele aqale iphupho elidala lentombazane futhi ahlangabezane nokulindela kwakhe.
Okwesithathu, i-gizmo evamile yesimo esingavamile: isambulela ngesimo senhliziyo, incwadi yezinhlawulo zebhokisi eliyigugu elinamagugu, i-barrette enobuso obudumile, isithombe esibonisa i-heroine ngokwayo indima yenkosikazi, unkulunkulukazi noma i-superhero ye-cinema ethandwayo. Lapha, ukhetho lubuye lube lukhulu kakhulu: kusuka kusimbozo esicwebezelayo sefoni epholile ephathekayo, kudoli olubukeka kakhulu njenge heroine yeholidi. Noma lowo onika le doll kuye.