Kunezizathu eziningi zokuya esitolo sefashini futhi uthuthukise. Ikakhulukazi ukhetha izingubo manje akuyona inkinga: izitolo zigcwele izinhlobo ezahlukene zokugqoka.
Isifiso namandla okuthenga okuthile akuyona inkomba enkulu yokuthenga okuhle. Into esemqoka ukukhetha izingubo, okuzokulandela futhi okuzokulandela kakhulu.
Ungakhetha izingubo eziphathekayo ngokuhlakanipha, kodwa okokuqala udinga ukuqonda izizathu zokulungiswa kwe-wardrobe. Isizathu esivame kakhulu sokuthenga siyisisindo noma isethi. Ngakho-ke, izingubo zakho zezitshalo zishintsha, futhi izinto zibe zincane noma zamahhala. Esinye isizathu esivamile ukuthola ukuthi ezinye izinto ziqala ukungena kwezinye izakhi zokugqoka. Lokhu kwenzeka ngezizathu ezihlukahlukene. Ngezinye izikhathi abesifazane bathengisa into yokuqala esandleni (ngoba ifaneka noma ifandwe okwesikhashana), ngaphandle kokucabanga ukuthi kuzofika yini esikhathini esizayo. Futhi njengoba umkhuba ubonisa, izinto eziningi ezinjalo, ezithengiwe ngokusheshisa, zilele eshefini elide, ngoba abesifazane abakwazi ukumthola pair. Kulesi simo, kunconywa ukuthi ususe izingubo ezinjalo, ezingahambisani nokuthungwa, umbala noma usayizi. Lokhu noma into engekho emfashini, evame ukwenzeka. Kuyinto efiselekayo ukukhipha izingubo "zakudala".
Ukuqeda izinto ezingadingekile ngenxa yezizathu ezithile, uthole eyodwa eyodwa enkulu: ikhabethe yakho iba yilapho ingenalutho futhi ilungele ukwamukela ibhande lezimpahla ezintsha. Kodwa ungakhohlwa ngezwi elidumile: "Bafunda emaphutheni", futhi ukuthi ngokuzayo kufanele usondele ekukhethweni kwezambatho ezifashini nemicabango. Lapho ukhetha izingubo, udinga ukucabangela amaphuzu alandelayo: inhlanganisela yezinto ezinomfanekiso wakho, umbala wezinwele zakho nesikhumba. Ngezinye izikhathi imibala noma imibala ekhethwe kahle ingenza umuntu akhathele noma abe nesibonakaliso engeza unyaka futhi amenze abe mdala kuneminyaka yakhe, ngisho noma lokhu kungenjalo empeleni.
Kubalulekile ukunquma ngesitayela. Vula ikhabethe lakho bese ubona ukuthi yisiphi isitayela sezingubo ezivame kakhulu. Ngumuphi izingubo ozizwa ukhululekile futhi ukhululekile? Ukukhetha izinto zesitayela esisodwa, esikhathini esizayo kuyoba lula ukuyihlanganisa nezinye izakhi. Isitayela sezingubo kuxhomeke kakhulu kumlingisi kanye nomuntu womuntu. "Izambatho ziyindlela elula kakhulu yokwembula umuntu," njengokwake kwashiwo, umdlali wesifazane ohlala njalo, osemusha uSophia Loran.
Khetha izingubo ezimfashini ngomqondo kalula. Kumele ufunde ukuzilalela, izwi lakho elingaphakathi, intuition yakho. Ngezinye izikhathi, ngokuzama into, ungaqonda ngokushesha ukuthi ikufanele yini noma cha, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi umeluleki noma umama wakho weluleka. Kulesi simo, ikhambi linye - ukuthenga. Kukhona iphuzu elilodwa elibaluleke kakhulu, okushiwo ngenhla. Ungalokothi uthathe isinqumo esisheshayo noma kunoma yikuphi ukuwa ngenxa yeziphakamiso ezijabulisayo zomthengisi, ozokhamuluka: "Ndodakazi, uthola kanjani le ngubo (i-blouse, sarafan, skirt)." Ungakhohlwa ukuthi umsebenzi oyinhloko womdayisi ukuthengisa izimpahla.
Ungakhohlwa ukuthi izingubo zokugqoka akuzona njalo ezidingekayo. Into esemqoka ukuthi kufanele isebenze. Ungaphishekeli izintandokazi zemfashini, ngenxa yezindlela eziphathekayo, ngoba umqondo othi "ukhethe izingubo ezimfashini ngomqondo" akusho ukuthi ube nemfashini, okusho ukuthi uhle. Lokhu kubaluleke kakhulu uma ufuna ukubukeka kahle.