Isikole: kungani ingane ikhala, ingavumeli unina

Ukuqala kwesikole kungenye yezinyathelo ezibaluleke kakhulu empilweni yengane yakho. Kulesi sigaba, uthola isimo esisha somphakathi. Uba umfundi. Ngalesi sikhathi, unemisebenzi emisha, izidingo, ukubonakala, ukuxhumana okusha. Konke lokhu kuhlotshaniswa nokucindezeleka okukhulu ngokomzwelo. Ngokuvamile, kubalulekile ukucabangela ukuthi ingane ichitha isikhathi esiningi esikoleni. Isikole siba khona ngempela indlu yesibili. Ngakho-ke, kuyadingeka ukulungisa ingane kahle ekilasini lokuqala ngokomzwelo.

Mamikazi othandekayo, ngicabanga ukuthi abaningi benu bazibuza lo mbuzo: "Uma sekuyisikhathi sokuya esikoleni - kungani ingane ikhala futhi ingavumeli unina ahambe?" Izazi zengqondo, zibheke le nkinga ejwayelekile, zifinyelele eziphethweni ezilandelayo.

Iningi lwakamuva ingane yakho iya enkulisa noma yayihlezi nawe ekhaya. Bese ewela ngokujulile endaweni engazijwayele. Isikole sibangela isimo sokucindezeleka. Ingane ayikho endaweni entsha kuphela, iphinde ihambisane nenani elikhulu lezingane. Angase angabi nje alungele ubuso obunjalo obusha. Ukushintshwa kwezingane esikoleni kwenzeka ngezindlela ezahlukene. Kuzodingeka basebenzise isikhathi esithile esidingekayo ukuze bajwayele izinguquko. Ngokwesilinganiso, kuthatha amasonto amahlanu kuya kwangu-8. Uma ingane yakho iselula kakhulu, ukuvumelanisa nemvelo entsha kuyoba ngokushesha. Izingane ziya ekilasini lokuqala ikakhulukazi eneminyaka engu-7. Kungani lesi sizukulwane sibaluleke kakhulu kubantwana abaningi? Ngalesi sikhathi, ingane iphathwe umthwalo owengeziwe, okwakungakazanga ngaphambili. Isikole sidinga ukuba akhule masinyane, kuyilapho ethanda kakhulu ukugijima endaweni ethile egcekeni. Lesi simo siyaphambene nesimo sakhe sokuphila. Ngempela, kunzima ukujwayela, ukuthi manje usuku lwakhe ludwetshiwe ngehora, owokuqala angakwazi ukudlala, ukulala, adle noma nini lapho efuna. Manje kufanele akwenze konke lokhu ngesikhathi, nangemvume yothisha. Umzwelo womthwalo omusha owutholile awuwushiyi.

Ngokuvamile ukuqala konyaka wezifundo akuyona nje inkathi enzima empilweni yomuntu wokuqala, kodwa futhi kuyingozi kakhulu kwengqondo. Noma yimuphi umama ukhathazekile ngesimo somqondo wengane yakhe. Uma ingane ikhala, ayifuni ukuya esikoleni, ingavumeli ukuhamba komama wakho, udinga ukusekela ingane yakho ngokomqondo, uyibeke kahle. Zama ukubeka endaweni yengane. Kungani kufanele uthanda izinguquko ezenzeke kuwe ngosuku olulodwa, uphendulele ngokuphelele impilo yakho yonke? Kufanele ufike esikhungweni lapho ungamazi khona, lapho kungekho omunye owakwazi khona. Ngalolo suku, konke ukunakwa kwakudonsela kuwe kuphela, futhi namuhla ezungeze lapho kunezinye eziningi zezingane. Uhlala unikezwa noma yiziphi izinkomba ozodinga ukuzilandela. Kunqatshelwe okuningi. Sifaka lapha izingxabano ezikhona, kanti isithombe esilandelayo esikoleni senziwa engqondweni yomuntu oqala ukuhamba naye akusijabulisi ngokukhethekile. Ingane kufanele iguqule yona, futhi ngesikhathi esifushane kakhulu. Konke lokhu kudinga izindleko ezinkulu, zomzimba nezingqondo. Ngalesi sikhathi ingane ayilali kahle, ikhula kancane, ingenangqondo ngesikhathi sokudla, ngezinye izikhathi iyakhala. Ngaphezu kwalokho, umlingisi wokuqala angazihlukanisa naye, abonise ukuphikisana kwakhe ngaphakathi, wenqaba ukulandela isiyalo. Akavumeli ukuba nomuzwa wokungabi nabulungisa. Isimo esinjalo somntwana kulula ukuvimbela kunokushintsha.

Zama ukuqala ukuthuthukisa ukuzimela kwengane. Masiqale ukwenza izinqumo. Khona-ke uyoba nokuzethemba. Ngeke kuhlakulele ukwesaba okuthile okungabhekene nakho, ukwesaba ukwenza amaphutha. Ngokuvamile izingane aziqali lutho olusha, ngoba azifuni ukubukeka zimbi nakakhulu ngemuva kwezinye izingane. Ngakho-ke, ukuthuthukiswa kwengane enomqondo wokuzimela ekuthathweni kwezinqumo kuzomsiza ukuba abe lula isinyathelo esisha empilweni yakhe, ebizwa ngokuthi: "isikole." Zama ukwenza umbuso wengane yengane. Ake akusize kulokhu. Kusukela isikhathi lapho kudingeka avuke khona, uqhube amazinyo, usebenzise umzimba, uphele isikhathi sokulala. Hlela nomntanakho ngenkathi uzohamba ngokuhamba, kungakanani kuzokuthatha isikhathi esithile; ingabe angakudlala isikhathi eside kangakanani imidlalo yekhompyutha; isikhathi esiningi osichitha ubukela i-TV. Udinga ukulalela ngokucophelela ingane, ukuzwelana nezinkinga kanye nokuhlangenwe nakho kwakhe. Masihlanganyele nawe imizwelo yanamuhla. Ungaphoqeleli umqambi wokuqala ukuba ahlale phansi ukuze athole izifundo. Wahlala edeskini usuku lonke lwesikole. Manje udinga ukuphumula. Dlala emidlalweni esebenzayo. Kudingeka akhululeke imizwelo, akhululeke ukucindezeleka nokukhathala emva kosuku lwesikole. Ungalokothi wenze umsebenzi wakhe wengane. Umsebenzi wakho ukukhombisa indlela yokuqoqa kahle iphothifoliyo, lapho ubeka khona umfaniswano wesikole. Kodwa kufanele akwenze konke lokhu eyedwa. Ingane ayivumeli ukuhamba imisebenzi yakhe, ngakho-ke kudingeka uvumelane nabo kusengaphambili. Zama ukungamangaleli ngokucacile ingane. Khetha amagama ngendlela enjalo, ukuze ungamcasuli, ungamcindezeli isifiso sokuqhubeka nezifundo zakhe. Khumbula, ingane akufanele ibone kuwe uthisha, kodwa umama. Esikhundleni sokumfundisa, usizo. Uma ekhala, zama ukuqonda ukuthi yini le nkinga. Thatha umngane wakhe, ongamethemba nganoma isiphi isikhathi. Nguwe owamisa umntwana ukuba atadishe, kanye nesikole sonke. Xoxani nengane ukuthi yini ngempela elindelekile esikoleni, ekufundeni, ekukhulumisaneni nabalingane nabo ekilasini. Uma izifiso zakhe zingahambisani neqiniso, kancane kancane futhi wenze kahle ukulungiswa kwakho. Udinga ukukwenza kahle kangaka, ukuze ungamthandi umntwana wesifiso sokufunda.

Ukuphendula umbuzo: "isikole: kungani ingane ikhala, ungavumeli umama wakhe? ", Singasho ngokuqiniseka:" konke kusezandleni zakho. " Kumele uvumele oncane wakho aqonde: kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ufunda kanjani, usabathandwa ekhaya. Futhi amamaki amabi ngeke athinte isimo sakho sengqondo kuye.