Kodwa uma isilwane emhlabeni ucansi, noma kunalokho ukubeletha, kubangelwa isidingo sokuzala, khona-ke kubantu lesi sidingo singase sibe khona izikhathi ezimbalwa kulo lonke ukuphila. Okukhangayo okuningi kungolunye uhlangothi lwesimo sengqondo sobulili. Namuhla, ubulili yingxenye ebalulekile yokuphila. Kwabanye, ubulili buyimfashini, isithakazelo semidlalo, indlela yokuphila, inkolo, umgomo wokuziqinisa, ukubonakaliswa kwamandla. Kwabanye kungukubonakaliswa kothando, futhi ngomuntu kungumthwalo wesibopho somshado, indlela yokuthola ... .. Ngamanye amazwi, ubulili yilolu hlangothi lokuphila okuthakazelisa ngokufanayo kuwo wonke umuntu. Isimo sengqondo ngokuqondene nobulili sincike emfundweni, indlela yokuphila, isiko, ukuziphatha. Ubulili bungaba buhle futhi bubi, ngokusetshenziswa kobudlova nokuhlukunyezwa. Kodwa noma yikuphi umuntu, kunoma yikuphi imvelo okungenzeka ukuthi wayekhulile, isipiliyoni sokuqala socansi ngaso sonke isikhathi sijabulisa. Ubulili bobulili bokuqala bungaba nomthelela omuhle futhi bubi kakhulu ekuphileni. Ukuhlangenwe nakho okungalungile kungabangela kokubili ukungaziphathi kahle, nokukhukhumeza ngisho nokucabangela.
Esikhathini sobuSoviet, izakhamuzi zakithi ezazikhulile zazingenalo mqondo wokuthi zingazivikela kanjani okokuqala okokuqala. Intsha yanamuhla isazi kakade ngocansi cishe bonke. Noma yiluphi ulwazi olutholakala. Bayazi kahle ukuthi ngaphezu kohlangothi oluhle, ubulili bunganika kanye nezinkinga. Inkinga yokuqala ukukhulelwa okungadingeki. Lona uhlobo lwamatshe angaphansi kwamanzi angacatshangwa ngesikhathi sokuqala kocansi. Amantombazane amaningi kanye nabesilisa bakholelwa ngokuqinile ukuthi akunakwenzeka ukuba "bahambe" okokuqala, ikakhulukazi ngokuziphatha okubi kocansi. Kodwa abantu abasha bayaphutha kakhulu. Ngaphezu kwalokho, kunezimo lapho ukukhulelwa kwenzeka ngesikhathi sokuqala kokukhulelwa phakathi kwamalungu obulili besifazane, ngokweqile isenzo sokuchithwa. I-hymen inesakhiwo esibucayi, futhi i-spermatozoa incane kakhulu kangangokuba ingene phakathi kwe-pores ngokuphelele engaphendulwanga. I-pitfall elandelayo yizifo ezithathelwana ngocansi. Ukuze ugweme uhlangothi olungathandeki kobulili, udinga ukwazi ukuthi ungakuvikela kanjani okokuqala okokuqala.
Ngaphambi kokunikeza izeluleko, ngifuna ukukhumbula ukuthi isenzo sokuqala socansi kufanele sibe yisinqumo sakho esiqaphelayo. Ayikho inkampani ephuzile. Ngakho-ke, ungakheli ucansi ngaphandle kwekhondomu nganoma iyiphi indlela. Naphezu kokuthi intsha ekhona manje igxila ngocansi, "cishe aba-70% abasha abaphila ngokuhlanganyela ngokocansi baphoxisa ngamabomu amakhondomu ngamabomu. Kodwa lokhu kungenye yezindlela ezingabizi kakhulu, eziphephile zezindlela zempilo nezindlela eziphumelelayo. Phakathi kwesigamu sesilisa, kunombono wokuthi ikhondomu iyancipha ukuzwa kwezinzwa. Kodwa ikhondomu zanamuhla zenziwe ngezinto ezinhle kakhulu-i-latex, ebanzi bayo kulinganiswa yi-microns. Yebo kunjalo, nazo zonke izinhlobo ze-"zamorochki" ezengeziwe, isenzo esenzelwe ukuthola izinzwa ezintsha. Futhi ezinye izinkinga ezincane zingakwazi ukubekezelela, kodwa ubulili buzovikelwa. Phela, ukukhulelwa okungadingeki kungabangela izinkinga intombazane kuphela, kanti izifo zihlukumeza impilo, ziholela ekunganeni futhi ngisho nasekuqaleni kwezezimali esikhathini esizayo.
Ikhondomu igqoke ngaphambi kocansi, futhi isuswe ngemuva kokuphela, ukugwema ukuthintana ngqo ngendwangu yamangqamuzana wesifazane. Futhi i-tight it does not pull, kodwa shiya indawo for isilisa. Ungathengi amakhondomu amakhulu nge-penis encane, uma kungenjalo ingakwazi ukugcoba bese uhlala emgodini futhi, ngokuphambene, ikhondomu encane nge-penis enkulu ingase iqhume ngesikhathi esingalungile. Inqubo yokuhlaziya ibuhlungu kakhulu. Konke kuncike emzimbeni wobunzima bomuntu siqu, ukuhambisana kozakwethu, ukuqina kwe-hymen, inani lokugcoba kanye nezinye izizathu.
Ngokuvamile, le ntombazane ngesikhathi sokuqala i-prelude kufanele inikezwe i-lubricant evikela ukwakhiwa kwe-vaginal mucosa kusuka ekulimaleni, izinyembezi, ukuphahlazeka, futhi inikezela ukuhlelwa kwesondo okujabulisayo. Kodwa ngezinye izikhathi ukugcoba akusizi ngokwanele ngokwanele ngenxa, ngokwesibonelo, izinkinga zengqondo. Khona-ke, ikakhulukazi ngokuhlukunyezwa, ukuvikela amancane ama-microtraumas kuyadingeka ukuba usebenzise ukushisa okufakelwayo. Kulezi zitolo zezidakamizwa uzothola ama-gel akhethekile namafutha.
Uma insizwa yakho ihlukaniswa kakhulu "ekuvikelweni kwe-rabber", khona-ke lapho usondelene khona kuqala ongasebenzisa amathuluzi anjengePatentex Oval noma Pharmacie, i-Contraceptin. Lokhu kusho ukuthi imithi yamakhemikhali ebizwa ngokuthi i-spermicidal isho ukuthini - izisu zokubeletha, ezibekwe esithombeni ngaphambi kokulala ngokocansi ngenhloso yokungaqedi futhi ukubhujiswa kwe-spermatozoa. Amalungiselelo awenzela i-foam evikelayo, engakwazi futhi ukufaka esikhundleni sokugcoba kwayo, ngakho-ke ukunciphisa ukungakhululeki ngesikhathi sokuhlunga. Zethulwa kalula futhi zingenabuhlungu. I-hymen iqukethe imbobo eyodwa noma eminingana lapho igazi liphuma khona, ngakho-ke ikhandlela, iphilisi, nokunye okuningi ukhilimu uyokwenyuka. Amakhemikhali ahlongozwe ngenhla angeke asindiswe ekusongweni kokutheleleka, ngakho-ke angasetshenziswa kuphela ngokuqiniseka ngokugcwele "kokungcweliswa" komlingani, ukusebenza kwabo kulokhu kungu-80%. Kodwa, uma ungabaza umlingani wakho, futhi uye wasebenzisa njengendlela yokukhulelwa ngalezi zindlela, lena enye "he-zachalochka" hexicon. Isidakamizwa esiphumelelayo, esinokwethenjelwa futhi esilungele amakhandlela wokuvimbela nokwelashwa kwezifo eziningi zesifo sangasese. Khumbula ukuthi bangayisebenzisa ngaphandle kwamahora amabili emva kwenhliziyo, ngoba lokhu kukwanele ukufaka ngaphakathi kwebhande kuphela ibhere elilodwa lomuthi. I-Hexicon isebenza ngokumelene nama-pathogens amaningi. Lokhu kufaka phakathi: i-spirochete ephaphathekile, okwenza i-syphilis, i-chlamydia - chlamydia, i-gonococcus - gonorrhea, i-trichomonas - trichomoniasis, kanye ne-herpes yobulili ngokuvamile iyancipha. I-hexicon inokubekezelelana okuhle, ibuye ibekwe ngokuqondene nabesifazane abakhulelwe nabancelisayo.
Wonke amantombazane anconywa emva kokuqala kocansi, futhi kangcono ngaphambi kokuba bakhethe ukuthatha lesi sinyathelo, vakashela ukubonisana kwabesifazane. Kuyadingeka ukhumbule ukuthi iminyaka enhle kakhulu yokulala ocansini ayikho ngaphambi kweminyaka engu-17-18. Udokotela wesifazane, emva kwesenzo sokuhlaziywa kwemithi, uzokuhlolisisa umonakalo, anikeze izisu zokubeletha, athathe ama-smear ukuze ahlolwe futhi, uma kunesidingo, anikeze ukwelashwa.