Owesifazane uyakwazi ukuvela embusweni owodwa othakazelisayo ukuze akhule inkaba yonke futhi amthande inkumbulo yakhe iminyaka eminingi. Futhi kuhle, uma kungukumbalwa kuphela: sivame ukuqala ukuhlupheka, ukufaka emcabangweni wethu ukubaluleka kwalokho okwenzekile, ukuvala ubungane bangempela, ukudlulisela wonke amandla ku-call engenzeka, ukuhlangana enkundleni yokuxhumana noma ukuqokwa okudlulayo ngemuva kokubuya e-resort. Ukudlala ngothando ohlangothini lomfazi oshadile akuyona inganekwane esikhathini sethu, kodwa i-byl. Ngokushesha noma ngemva kwalokho, njengoba esilahlekelwe amandla amaningi kanye namathuba angempela ekwenzeni ubuhlobo obugcwele, lo wesifazane uya esiphethweni sokuthi ukhohlisiwe, engafuni ukubona iqiniso elilula lokuthi uzikhohlisile. Ezimweni eziningi, owesifazane uqala futhi uhlangabezana nohambo lomlingani hhayi lomuntu wangempela, kodwa ngeyakhe, iminyaka eyathandekayo futhi manje, ekugcineni, inikezwe ithuba lokuthola iphupho. Indoda kulezi mphupho ithatha indima yocingo, futhi, ngokusobala, umphuphi ngokuvamile akanalo isikhathi noma isifiso sokumbheka kangcono, okungenani uzame ukubona ukuthi ungumuntu onjani kuye. I-syndrome evamile kaTatiana Larina: "Umphefumulo wawulinde umuntu ... Futhi walinda." Lesi esinye sezizathu eziyinhloko ezenza ukuqhutshwa kocansi kuhlangothini lwesifazane oshadile kube ukudumazeka. Kodwa kukhona abanye ...
Kungani sidonsela kulowo omusha?
Kungani iningi labachwepheshe - kusukela ochwepheshe bezingqondo kuya kubabhula ngezinkanyezi - bekungabaza kakhulu ngomqondo we "uchungechunge lwesibili?".
Isici esivamile, okuhehayo okusha
Ngalo muntu, awukaze uhlangabezane nezinkinga zezezimali, izingxabano kanye nokuyekethisa okubuhlungu. Awukakakwazi ukujwayele ukujwayela ukuthi wazi izici zakhe ngamehlo avaliwe nendawo yokubamba ukuqonda ukuthi mangaki amathini kagwayi aphuza ngosuku olwedlule. Konke ngawe - ukutholakala kanye nesambulo. Maye, ngokusho kohlelo lokuphila, lo mqondo ukhona ubuchopho obungasaphezu kwezinsuku ezingamashumi amane.
Ukuhluma kwe-hormonal
Njengoba uhlangabezane nento entsha yocansi, umzimba uphendula ngandlela-thile: idala ama-hormone, ama-pheromones kanye nokuxhumana okuhlukahlukene kwe-neural, okuyokuqala, okwenza ukhange emehlweni, futhi okwesibili, kwakha ukuzwela okwezintelezi zayo. Ubude bokuswakama kwama-hormone ngamasonto ayisithupha.
Uhlangothi olungaphambili
E-resort, siyahamba ngokuphila impilo engcono ngamasonto amabili kunokuba sikwazi ukwenza zonke izinsuku ezingu-350 ngonyaka. Indawo yokubhuka yithuba lomuntu (nangowesifazana) ukuba abe yilokho ayekufuna ukuba khona kusukela ebusheni - evulekile, ehlakaniphile, enamandla, enamandla, kodwa empeleni akusebenzi: kunzima, kubiza futhi kunzima kakhulu. Akukwazi ukusho ukuthi lokhu kuyakhohlisa ngamabomu. Wena, futhi, ukhululekile ekuhlanjeni nasekuseni, ube nesikhathi sokusikhipha ama-Balinese nokugibela amahhashi, hhayi nje ekhaya. Futhi lokhu akukona ukukopela ... Ngokungokoqobo nje kungcono kunokujwayelekile.
To Freedom!
Indoda eshadile, yokuphumula ngaphandle komfazi, izama ukukwenza isikhathi esilahlekile, kepha ukunikeza owesifazane lokho okungenayo (noma ayikwazi) ukunikeza umfazi osemthethweni. Kodwa-ke, ngamaphesenti angama-99 angaphezu kwekhulu, akekho kulaba abesilisa abacabanga nganoma yini engathí sina kunezinguquko zamasonto amabili emholweni wabo womshado. Noma kunjalo, naphezu kwakho konke, ufuna ihlobo lingapheli - futhi, kubonakala sengathi likulungele ukuya kunoma yikuphi ukuphazamiseka, ukuze ugcine inani lomuntu othi, njengoba ucabanga, ulethe iholide, ilanga, uthando lomndeni wakho. .. Hlala, zama ukulahlekelwa ikhanda lakho futhi uhlole amathuba akho ngokucophelela. Uma ulandela logic, ke-ke, kudingeka ugijime kumuntu, okungenani awukude nawe endaweni: kufanele uqonde ukuthi ukuhlala edolobheni elilodwa, futhi, nakakhulu, kungokwesinye isendlalelo sezenhlalakahle, bobabili nithole ithuba elingokoqobo ukudala "okuthile okubalulekile" kunokuba uma ubudala bakho, izizinda zakho nezenhlalakahle zingenele ebuhlotsheni bakho njengezithiyo. Kodwa i-logic kulezi zindaba akuyona indawo njalo. Khona-ke zibuze, ube yintombazane eneminyaka engu-40 ubudala ephumelelayo edolobheni elikhulu: ukulungele ukusekela nokukhuthaza iphiniphini elingenakuvinjelwa elineminyaka engu-23 elivela edolobhaneni elincane elisendaweni yaseRussia uma ephendula ocingweni lothando futhi, ushiya konke, ikuhambela enhloko-dolobha? Futhi ingabe uzokwazi ukuzivumelanisa?
Khumbula ukuthi imizamo yakho "yokuyeka konke" akunakwenzeka ukuma ukuhlolwa kwesikhathi. EJordanian Petra, kukhona indaba ngomvakashi wase-Australia owawela othandweni kakhulu neBedouin ukuthi washiya izwe lakhe nomndeni wahlala emhumeni iminyaka eminingana. Kodwa-ke, ngemva kweminyaka embalwa, egcwala impilo yokuzidela futhi wayefuna ukubuyela nengane yakhe ezweni lakubo, kwakudingeka ahambe ngezinzuzo eziningi ezijabulisayo ngaphambi kokuba konke kuphele kahle: empeleni, ngokwemithetho kaSharia, ingane ingowomndeni kababa ... Manje ePetra (hhayi kuphela) ungathenga incwadi ye-Australian Juliet engenasici "Ukuphila kwami namaBedouins." Kunconywa kakhulu ukuba uyifunde ngaphambi kokuba unqume ngokufisa okuthile egameni lemizwa. Noma kunjalo, asingakhohlwa ngokungafani. Isibonelo, kusuka kumthetho ongaguquki othi lokhu kusuka emathandweni eholidini awutholi lutho oluhle. Uma ucabanga ukuthi kufanelekile, thatha ingozi!
Izindlela zokuhlanganisa ukujwayela
Ukuze uqhubeke uphumelele, ukhiqiza futhi ngokuvamile njengoba ufuna, kufanele uqale ukuwunakekela isikhathi eside ngaphambi kokuhlukanisa. Pheka inhlabathi! Ukuze "uthole ithuba lokusihlangabeza emva kokubuya?" Ukuze uthole intshiseko egcwele "yebo!" Sebenzisa "uhlelo lwehange". Njalo lapho umuntu ehamba kahle nawe - uzizwa eqiniseka, ekhululekile futhi ejabule - "lungisa" lo mzwa ngokuthinta kahle endaweni efanayo (isibonelo, kwendonga ye-elbow ukuze "indawo eyimfihlo" ihlale ikhona kuwe). Ngemuva kwezinsuku ezingu-7-10, uzoba nesimo se-reflex - siphethe ukuthinta okhethekile ngokuphakamisa kwengqondo. Bese ubuza lo mbuzo, ngaphandle kokukhohlwa ukubeka isandla engozini yakhe ngephutha ... Kodwa ungakhohlwa ukuthi ngo-1-2 ukuthinta akukho "ihange" elisungulwe, "lungiselela umhlabathi" kufanele uqale kusukela osukwini lokuzijwayeza ...
Catch on vanity
Indoda ifuna ukuthandwa. Hlala, lalela, ulalele futhi ubabaze - futhi, cishe, yena ngokwakhe uzofuna ukukubuyisela empilweni yakhe. Khumbula iresiphi kaLily Brik: "Kumele simvuselele ukuthi uyamangalisa futhi uyaziqhenya, kodwa abanye abaqondi lokhu ... Yebo, abanye bazokwenza izicathulo ezinhle nezambatho zangaphansi zesilika."
Yenza umnikelo angakwazi ukuwenqaba
Uke wakwazi ukuthola uhlu lwazo ezithandwayo futhi uthole umhlabathi ovamile? Ngenisa ngobumnene ingxoxo ukuya kumakhonsathi noma ukufanisa ongavakashela ngemva kokubuya. I-poster ilula ukufunda ku-intanethi, etholakala kunoma yikuphi ukubhuka.
Donsa ku-sms ngothando
Ngaphambi kwesikhathi, vusa isithakazelo samadoda ngendlela enokwethenjelwa njenge-SMS-yokuxhumana. Njengoba ejwayele ukuthola kuwe ama-sms amancane, omusa noma ahlekisayo, uzobafihla ngasese futhi lapho uhlala khona eceleni. Ngaphandle kwalokho, lesi yisikhathi esihle kakhulu sokushintshanisa izinombolo zocingo kusengaphambili ... Ungumsebenzi wehhotela lapho uchitha khona iholidi lakho. Kubasebenzi bemboni yezokuvakasha kubonakala ngesimo sengqondo sengqondo sabakhenkethi. Iveli enikeze kuwe umcimbi, kuye - ukuzijabulisa nje phakathi kwehhotela elimhlophe nsuku zonke. Ungumuntu wase-aborigine kuleli zwe eliseningizimu lapho uphumule khona. AmaGreki, amaTurkey nabaseGibhithe, ukunakekela izivakashi ezikhanyisiwe kahle kuyindaba yokuhlonipha. Ikhodi engavumelekile idinga ukuba banikeze isandla kanye nenhliziyo ngokushesha, kodwa ungathathi isifungo esishisayo. Ingabe kwenzeka ukuthi uthole ukuthi wakhohlisile? Wayebizwa ngokuthi u-Edward Ivanov, kodwa wabona ithikithi egameni likaRobert Vasin? Uthi wayengenamntwana, futhi isithombe samaphanga aphuma esikhwameni? Ngisho noma ukukhohliswa kungenacala, kubonisa ukuthi awukhulumi nomuntu wangempela, kodwa nge-mask. Uqaphele kakhulu ukuthola ukuthi uhlalaphi, ukuthi uhola kangaki, ukuthi uhlala kangakanani ekhaya, ukuthi uthatha imali engakanani ... Ungakhohlwa ukuthi kukhona abakwa-scammers abasebenzisa uthando lwabesifazane ngezinhloso ezingavamile. Ungazivuli kumuntu owaziyo izinsuku ezintathu. Ukunakwa kwakho, uqala ukukhombisa kuphela emva kokuphuza utshwala, kodwa ekhanda elimnandi ligcinwa ligcinwe. Ungazivumeli ukuthi lesi sifiso sokugcina idumela lakho. Kungenzeka ukuthi ubuhlobo obuyinkimbinkimbi nokuphuza utshwala.
Isimo sezintandokazi zokuvakasha siphinde sichazwe isici sezinto zobuciko. Amandla wendawo, asebenzisana namandla akhe, ashukumisa isiphetho sethu. Kwenzeka ukuthi indawo oyikhethile (futhi ukukhetha akukona ngengozi, ngisho noma kubonakala kuwe ukuthi usanda kuthatha ithikithi elivuthayo), lihamba phambili ekubonakalisweni kokungaqondakali kwakho futhi lihle kakhulu kumanoveli kunendawo yokuhlala. Maye, kwenzeka ukuthi emva kokushiya "indawo yakho yothando", ulahlekelwa amanye amandla omshado. Lokhu kungenye yezincazelo zokuntuleka kobuhlobo beholide. Nakuba, kunezikhathi lapho siya khona olwandle, ukuze sihlangabezane nothando lwawo wonke ukuphila. Lo mzwa "ufika" nathi ekhaya futhi ukhula ngokuphelele enhlabathini evamile. Ngokuvamile, singasho ngokuphepha ukuthi i-horoscope yomuntu ishintsha kakhulu ngemva kokunyakaza, futhi lezi zinguquko zingahluka kakhulu. Umuntu angaphumelela kakhulu ebhizinisini, othandweni, ubudlelwane nabantu - kunoma yini ... Kodwa mhlawumbe, ngokuphambene nalokho, baba nhlanhla. Konke kuxhomeke esiqondisweni esithile ozoya kuzo, kanye nendawo lapho amaplanethi ahlala khona ngesikhathi sokuzalwa kwakho. Kodwa ngosizo lwezinkanyezi kungenzeka ngempela ukukhetha indawo enjalo emhlabeni, lapho uhambisa khona ukuthi uyoba nelusizo othandweni. Ngendlela, ekunakekeleni ithemba leveli yendawo yokubhuka ngisho nokuqhubeka kwalo, ungaphendukela ekuhloleni kwezinkanyezi ze-horary, ngoba kuyi-astrology yeqiniso. Ukhuluma ngokuthi kuzoba yini umcimbi (yebo noma cha), futhi ungatshela ngezimo ezihambisana nalesi sigameko. Noma kunjalo, uma ukhetha indawo yokuhamba, izinkanyezi ezikhethwayo nazo zingasiza.