Sesha umuntu
Ngokuvamile kakhulu kuma-subcultures, labo bantu abasha bayashiya lokho abakwazi ukunquma indawo yabo empilweni. Laba bantu ngokwabo bahluke nakwezinye izintsanga, kodwa kuze kube manje abakwazi ukuqonda ukuthi yini nokuthi kanjani, nokuthi kuvamile kangakanani. Yingakho abantu abasha banquma ukuba yingxenye ye-subculture, baphume esixukwini, ukuze bangazizwa benjengoba bengabikho. Abaningi balaba bantu abasha bayimvelo yokudala engakaqapheli ukuthi ukwenza okuthile okungavamile kuhle. Ngaphezu kwalokho, iningi labanontanga abalinganiselwe alisekeli ukulangazelela kwabo ukwakha nokudala. Yingakho abafana beba ngokungakahleleki, ngoba emphakathini ongakahleleki uhlale uqala ukudala futhi akukho muntu owake walahla. Ngokujwayelekile abantu abakhayo abahlakaniphile, ngisho nokuzitholela bona, bangasheshi ukushiya i-subculture, ngoba bayomane baxhumane nabantu abangajwayelekile, ngokungafani nabanye abantu. Kodwa namuhla, izimo eziningi zokudala ziyaqonda ukuthi izwe elingakahleleki, empeleni, alilona elizimele futhi elizimele. Futhi konke ngenxa yokuthi isinqumo sokungazibandakanyi kahle ngokuvamile abantu abasha abazithathi ngokuzimela nangokwemabomu, kodwa ngaphansi kwethonya labangaphandle. Isibonelo, ngokuvamile abantu abasha baya e-subculture ngokubhikisha.
AmaProthest
Intsha eningi ayivumelani nezindlela nezindlela zokukhuliswa kwazo. Ingxenye yalezi zingane zenza i-maximalism yentsha, abanye bayaphula impela, bephoqa ukulalela imithetho nemithetho ebavimbela ekuthuthukiseni. Kodwa njengoba kwakunjalo, bekuphikisa, lezi zingane zinquma ukungabi njengabo bonke abantu. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ukucindezela kwengane kunamandla kakhulu, okuzobe kunombukiso omkhulu. Uma umama njalo ebangela indodakazi ukuba iphathe kahle, ibe yindoda yangempela, ukugqoka izingubo ezimhlophe futhi ungakhohlwa ukuthi abesifazane kufanele babe buthakathaka, bathambekele futhi banesizotha, khona-ke kuyoba okunengqondo, uma ekugcineni, intombazane engafuni lokho akubonayo umama, ekugcineni wagqoke bonke abamnyama, ubopha entanyeni amakhilogremu amathathu amaketanga amasha, aphundule okwesikhashana futhi azoshiya i-punk. Mhlawumbe ngeke athande imibono nemigomo ye-punk, kodwa ebheka lokho umama akudingayo kuye, ingane enjalo izama ukukhetha inhlanhla lapho iningi liyophikisana nayo yonke imibono kamama. Futhi uma unenkani ngokwengeziwe futhi emele ingane, ukuqina kwayo kuyoba yinto ebonakalayo ekugqokeni nasekuziphatheni.
Ezimweni ezinjalo, abazali abaningi benza iphutha elikhulu kakhulu, baqala ukucindezela ngaphezulu ezinganeni zabo, bebafakaza, bebavimbela ukuba baphume emgwaqweni ngale ndlela. Kodwa laba bantu abalaleli okuthile futhi baqala ukugoba umugqa wabo ngokushisa okukhulu nakakhulu. Ezimweni ezinjalo, omama nabazali abaqondi ukuthi izingane ziziphatha ngale ndlela kuphela ukuthi zamukeleke njengoba zikhona. Abazali kuphela abayeke ukuvimba ingane ukuba iphile njengoba ifuna, hhayi njengoba ithanda, ukwamukela izithakazelo zakhe kanye nokuthanda kwayo yonke lokhu kuboniswa kanye nokwaziswa kuzophela ngokushesha. Kodwa esikhundleni salokho, abazali bacindezela ngokuphindaphindiwe, izingane ziyathukuthela futhi azifuni ukuzinikela. Nsuku zonke baqiniseka ukuthi akusizi ngalutho ukushiya ukuhlangana okungakahleleki okungakahleleki, ngoba kuqondwa futhi kusekelwa lapho.
Ukusekela
Emphakathini ongakahleleki, izingane zivame ukuthola ukuthi ukuqonda nokusekelwa, okungenayo okujwayelekile. Kulokhu akukho lutho olumangazayo, ngoba iqembu le-neformalyyavlyayutsya lezintshisekelo, abantu abanokuthile okufanayo. Ngakho-ke, kulula kakhulu ukuxhumana, bahlale benesihloko sokuxoxa. Bonke abangewona amafomu babumbene ngokulwa nomhlaba wangaphandle, ovame ukuwaphatha ngokubandlulula, ngisho nokuzonda. Yingakho ebusheni, izingane ziyakhanga kakhulu kuma-subcultures. Umphakathi ongakahleleki unobunye futhi uqondana kakhulu. Imijikelezo ye-Vtsivilnyh ayitholakali njalo ukubona usizo olunjalo nokusekelwa kuwo wonke amalungu eqembu. Yiqiniso, abantu abangakahleleki abaphelelanga kakhulu. Isibonelo, abantu abahlukene abalimi bangaba nobutha phakathi kwabo, bahlele ukulwa nokunye okunye. Kodwa ukuziphatha okunjalo kakade kubalingisa abantu abakhethileyo, futhi hhayi i-subculture yonke. Abantu abavamile abangahlelekile bangabelana kalula kalula ngomunye nomunye ukuze baxoshe labo abangafuni ukwamukela njengabo. Yingakho, ngibheka izimo zengqondo ezihlukene, izingane ziya kuma-subcultures, zifisa ukuthola ukuqonda nokusekelwa. Ngokuvamile, lokhu kwenzeka nalabo abaye bahlaselwa eqenjini labo lomphakathi (isibonelo, ingane efanele futhi ehlakaniphile ifunda ekilasini phakathi kwezinkomo eziphukuphuku ezamzondayo nokumhleka), futhi ufuna ukuthola labo bantu abangakwazi ukuxhumana nabo ngokuthula, ukuthi ngomzuzwana olandelayo uzohlekwa noma aphuke. Umphakathi ongakahleleki lezo zimo zenzeka kaningi kangako futhi isizathu salokhu kusobala ukuthi akusiyo ingqondo noma isifiso sokwenza into abanye abangakwazi ukuyenza. Yingakho abantwana befana namagundane.
Ubuhle bangaphakathi
Ama-subcultures avame ukuheha labo abazicabangela kabi. Ezweni elingakahleleki, zizokwamukelwa njengoba zikhona. Phakathi kwabantu abangakahlelekile ungavamile ukuhlangana nabantu abalungile. Ngokuvamile kuma-subcultures abuthana, abangenalo ubuhle obuhle bangaphandle, kodwa ngenxa yalokhu, akafuni ukuzizwa ephutha. Emphakathini ongakahleleki, ukuhlonishwa okuningi kuyamangalisa, ukuziveza ngokwakho, ubuciko, kunamehlo, izinwele nobuso. Futhi kubantu, ikakhulukazi amantombazane ahlale ekhuthazela ukuhlekwa abanye ngokuqondile ngenxa yokubukeka kwabo, lesi simo sengqondo sinjengomuthi ophefumulayo emphefumulweni, ngoba abagonyanga ngezinkimbinkimbi futhi ababahleki, bayakwamukela ukuthi bathini ubuhle babo bangaphakathi, futhi hhayi ngekhala elilungile nangamehlo amakhulu. Yiqiniso, ungacabangi ukuthi phakathi kwabantu abangakahlelekile kukhona abafana nabamantombazane abathandekayo. Bayazi kahle, kodwa abaziqhayise ngobuhle babo futhi abazami ukuhlazisa labo bantu uNkulunkulu abanikezele nezinye izimfanelo ezinhle. Ngendlela, ukwamukelwa komuntu njengalokhu kungesizathu esiyinhloko esenza abantu abasha bahambe bangakazisi. Ngesinye isikhathi, abanye babo perebaryvayut izinkathazo zabo futhi basuke kulokhu, futhi ngandlela-thile abakwazi ukubhekana nabo, ngakho-ke bahlale engahlelekile impilo.