U-Ivan akayena oyisiwula
Iqhawe lezintandokazi zezinganekwane zaseRashiya ngu-Ivanushka the Fool. Uvila: ulele esitofu usuku lonke futhi uhamba ngezindiza. Unengqondo ehambisanayo: "Uma ihhashi inemilenze emine futhi itafula libuye libe nezine, khona-ke itafula likwazi ukuhamba." Kodwa Ekugcineni u-Ivan uthola indodakazi yasebukhosini nengxenye yombuso ngaphezu kwalokho. Abaningi bethu kakade ebuntwaneni babecabanga ukuthi le hero hero-tale hero akuyona neze isiwula. Noma kunalokho - hhayi isiwula. Manje kungenzeka ukuthi utholakale ukuthi: I-Asperger's syndrome. Lona uhlobo lwe-autism, lapho i-naivete yezenhlalo ihlangene nokuhlakanipha okukhulu. Leli syndrome, ngokusobala, lahlupheka u-Albert Einstein no-Isaac Newton. Ngakho u-Ivan uyisiwula kuphela ngenxa yemvelo yakhe emnyama. Futhi uma ulinganisa i-IQ, ngeke kube okuningi.
Ngokuqondene nabesifazane abavela emacaleni aseRussia, ama-duras (futhi ngisho nalawo aphumelelayo) atholakale emini emini. Bonke Bayizihlakaniphile, Intelligent-Intelligence, Artisans, ukungasho ukuthi bonke bafana nanye - Beautiful. Indabakwane mayelana nendlela u-Masha-fool ashada ngayo inkosikazi eshadile, into ayikhumbuli. Ngakho-ke ungacabangi ukuthi uthando lweziwula luyisiko labantu bethu ...
Amakhosi athetha ama-blondes?
Iphi i-anecdotes mayelana nama-blondes avela futhi nomqondo wokuthi owesifazane kufanele abe mkhulu, ngoba indoda ishada nomuntu oyisiphukuphuku futhi oyisiphukuphuku? Bathi kwenzeka eminyakeni yama-60 yekhulu leminyaka elidlule, lapho uMarilyn Monroe ekhanyisa izikrini. Abantu baseMelika bafuna ukumlingisa futhi bathenga ezitolo zezidakamizwa kuzo zonke izindawo zokugcina i-hydrogen peroxide, ukukhipha izinwele. Ngakho isithombe se-blonde sakha: sinobuqotho futhi sithemba, sibona konke ngokweqiniso - njengo-Ivanushka isiwula. Kuphela ngokungafani neqhawe lezinganekwane, ongenayo ifihliwe noma ingqondo evulekile.
Bathi amahlaya mayelana nama-blondes akhiwa ama-brunette ngesikhathi eside ebusuku. Eqinisweni, abalobi bala mahlaya cishe bangamadoda. Ama-anecdotes anjalo ikakhulukazi kuleli zwe lethu eminyakeni eyishumi nesishiyagalolunye, lapho lona wesifazane eqala ukwakha ukuncintisana kwangempela kobulili obuqinile ebhizinisini. Futhi ukuze sizivikele ekwesabeni ukuxoshwa kuzo zonke izikhundla ezibalulekile, umzingeli wethu, umvikeli kanye nesondlo saqala ukudala inganekwane: "Bonke abesifazane bayiziwula." Futhi lokho akusiziphukuphuku, lokho kuyisizungu futhi akujabuli.
Ngokuphila okuyisiphukuphuku
Kodwa ingabe amadoda ngempela bathanda abesifazane abangenalutho? Ingabe zidinga ukuthi zilalele, zivule imilomo yazo, zifake ngezikhathi ezithile imisho: "Awu, kufanele! Yebo ukuthi wena! Yebo uya! "? Ngenyanga noma emibili, ngokuphendula, ufuna ukumemeza, njengeqhawe likaRaikin: "Vala umlomo wakho, siwula, ngisitshele konke."
Cha, ngokusobala, ngaphansi kwegama elithi "isiwula" amadoda ayaqonda enye into. Yini eheha isisulu esinamandla? Ubikezela, yonke imicabango yakhe isesandleni sakhe (ngaphandle uma kunjalo, lokhu kuyinkinga yezokwelapha). UDura ngeke azenze sengathi konke kuhle, bese - bam! - "Ngikushiya!"
Akudingekile, ngeke kube yinto yakhe: "Uzoqala nini ukuthola i-Petrov?" Ngaphandle kokuba ichithe: "Ngifuna ingubo efanayo nama-Masha."
Ubheka umyeni wakhe njengonkulunkulu: akazami ukufundisa kabusha, ukubuyisela. Okukhulile, sekukhulile. Kulula ukuthethelela futhi ukhohlwe izikhalo, futhi ukucasula, ukucasula akuqondi nakancane.
Isiwula siyisimo sengqondo, esilula futhi esingenalutho, njengengane - iyathokozisa ngisho nokushayela indlu yangasese indlu yangasese.
Uyisiphukuphuku - akakwazi ukuqonda imiyalo elula, ngokushesha ubiza umyeni wakhe.
Uma enenkathazo embi, ngeke amfundise ukuthi angayenza kanjani, amhlambalaze, anikeze iseluleko, indlela yokulungisa konke. Ngaphandle kokuba ekhuphuke ngezinyawo phezu kwe-sofa, uzoyiphonsa ekhaleni lakhe. Futhi kungenzeka ukuthi, shiya umyeni wakhe yedwa.
Ngezinye izikhathi ungazenza
I-Dura inhle ngoba iphephile. Amadoda ayesaba abesifazane, nakuba-ke, ngeke bavume nganoma iyiphi indlela. Ngesikhathi besengamadodana edlala "impi", amantombazane asevele ebopha izintuthwane futhi afunde ukuphatha kokubili oontanga nabadala. Amadoda ayazi ukuthi owesifazane unamandla futhi unolwazi oluthe xaxa enkampanini yezokwelapha, intuition, ebuhlotsheni. Futhi, uma befisa, bangashintsha impilo yabathembekile emgodini we-pitch. Futhi owesifazane ohlakaniphile - kakhulu nakakhulu.
Ngokujwayelekile abesifazane bayelulekwa ukuba bazenze sengathi bayisiwula ukuze bajabulise indoda. Bacabanga ukuthi yilapho amadoda eshada - ababi nabangenangqondo banamathuba amaningi. Kodwa, okokuqala, ukudlala ngobuwula kuyingozi. Okwesibili, kahle, kuvela, mina, ohlakaniphile futhi ofundisiwe, futhi awukwazi ukuthanda? Futhi, ekugcineni, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi bangaki abazenza sengathi, "awukwazi ukufihla isenzo". Kodwa kukhona enye indlela: ungabonisi lo muntu ukuhlakanipha kwakhe, ujwayeze kancane kancane ezingeni lakhe. Ukuze unqobe othandekayo, mazise ukuthi akudingeki wesabe, ukuthi ngeke uqondise ingqondo nolwazi lwakho ngokumelene naye. Lokhu akusikho ukuzenzisa, "ukufihlwa okuncane kolwazi". Uhlale eyisiwula. Ohlakaniphile angaba yilokho akufunayo.
Amathiphu:
Ungafaki umuntu ngokushesha uma ujwayele lonke ulwazi mayelana nezimpumelelo zakho: zingaki izikhungo eziqedile, ukuguqula ibhizinisi, ukucindezela abasebenzi. Ungalokothi wenze lokho ummeli womzimba ocansini onamandla angakwenzela wona: ungazitheli iwayini etafuleni, ungawushiyi isihlalo.
Ukuqondiswa ukufakwa: emsebenzini Ngingumuntu ohlakaniphile, owebhizinisi, onzima. Futhi ekhaya - obuthakathaka, othenda futhi kudingeka ukulandelwa mina. Ungalokothi ukhombise indoda ukuthi ungayenza kanjani - ake yena ngokwakhe afinyelele kuso ngengqondo yakhe.