Zihlala zithakazelisa nazo, zinikezwa futhi zigcwele amandla namandla, sezibone kakade okuningi, okusho ukuthi bangafundisa futhi babonise okuningi ekuphileni. Ngakho-ke, amantombazane amancane ngokuvamile abathanda abashadile abashadile, kunokuba ontanga yabo. Ngempela, eqinisweni, intombazane ethandana nendoda eshadile, ivame ukulinda ukuphila okuphazamisayo.,
Okokuqala, sizohlaziya amaminithi walolu thando.
1. Intombazane ayikwazi njalo ukumbiza ngokuthi uyithandekayo, nganoma isiphi isikhathi esiseduze ingaba ngumkakhe. Ngokuvamile abathandi bathintana nabo, futhi amantombazane ampofu ahlupheka ngokulindela ucingo. Ngokuvamile amadoda omngani wabo abizwa ngamagama esilisa, futhi ingxoxo isomile futhi iyinkani - njengenye yezinhlobo zokwenza ugobe.
2. Ukubona kubhekwe futhi indoda ngesikhathi kanye nendawo elula kuye kuphela. Khetha izindawo ezithulile emaphethelweni edolobha, ngokudla okuncane okulandelanayo, okungeke kube khona umuntu ohambayo, ukuze angabonakali.
3.Ukuphila okusheshayo kuvame ukusheshisa, futhi kuvame ukuhlala ezindaweni ezingahambisani nothando. Bese kulandela ukuqoqwa okuphuthumayo nokususwa kobufakazi - izimpendulo ezivela e-lipstick, izinwele kanye nephunga lamafutha omfazi.
4. Ngokuvamile, futhi mhlawumbe njalo, intombazane ilele yedwa, ngoba othandekayo kufanele alale ekhaya. Ukungasho ngamaholidi namaholide.
5. Umhawu ohlukumezayo, okuhlangenwe nakho kwabo, injabulo, ukucindezeleka kanye nomona ngomkakhe, le ntombazane akuyona into angayitshele umlingani wakhe, futhi akanalo ilungelo, kusukela konke okubi engakuzwa kumkayo.
Izakhi ezinengqondo zalolu thando.
1.Zonke zigcwele isikhathi samahhala. Ungahamba ngokuphepha ku-disco kumabhayisikobho noma kwiklabhu futhi ngesikhathi esifanayo, ngaphandle kokunikeza i-akhawunti yesikhathi esichithwe.
2. Akekho ohlupha imibuzo noma ecacisa ubuhlobo, akekho ohlola ifoni ephathekayo.
3. Kulula ukuxhaphaza, ukuzenza sengathi unesithakazelo, ngoba abakwazi ukuhlala ndawonye. Ngakho-ke, le ndoda inomuzwa wokuthi unecala, futhi kulula kakhulu ukuyiphatha.
Ngokuvamile, imiphumela yereveli enendoda eshadile ingabangela ukukhathazeka okujulile kwengqondo intombazane. Futhi ukubuyisela kabusha ulwazi lwakho kuzodinga isikhathi esiningi. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi udumisa kangakanani isithunzi sakhe, okufanayo, isici sokubaluleka kwesibili ebuhlotsheni sisekhona. Umfazi uhlala eyokuqala futhi impilo iqinisekisa njalo leli qiniso. Wayefisa ukuphuma naye eziqhingini, kodwa akusebenzi. Uthembisa ukuthi uzozijwayeza nabazali bakhe, kodwa akasheshe asheshe. Ngemva komhlangano, wabubula, wabuyela ngokushesha ngemuva komnyango. Kuvela ukuthi ebuhlotsheni obunjalo ububi bungaphezulu kakhulu kunezinzuzo.
Kuvela ukuthi indoda eshadile inenzuzo futhi iyasebenza ukuba nenkosikazi yentombazane encane. Okokuqala, akukho mthwalo wemfanelo, nganoma yisiphi isikhathi inkaba ingamiswa futhi kuphela indoda enhlanganweni enjalo ngokuvamile ilawula isikhathi sobuhlobo. Le ndoda iqondisa imihlangano, ukugcwala kwayo kanye nobude bayo. Ukubambisana okunjalo akubekezeli ukukhangiswa. Futhi yini esele intombazane? Ezimbili ezinjalo lo muntu uzama ukumboza izibopho ezimnyama zobuhlobo nezipho ezibizayo. Intombazane, esithola isipho ngokushesha ikhohlwa izinhlungu zobudlelwane futhi ibeka isembozo somfazi ojabule kakhulu futhi othandekayo.
Ngakho-ke, ungabambeli ithemba lokuthi indoda eshadile iyisikhathi sakho, futhi ukuthi uyena kuphela oyithandayo weqiniso lokuphila. Kukhona njalo okuhlukile ekuphileni, kodwa imithetho ibaluleke kakhulu. Ubuhlobo phakathi kwentombazane encane nendoda eshadile kancane kakhulu kuphelela ekupheleni okujabulisayo.