Into yokuqala umuntu ayibheka ngayo lapho uhlangana nowesifazane kuyinto amehlo, izindebe, izinwele. Umlomo wenyama uheha abantu. Kodwa, ngeshwa, kunezinto eziningi eziphazamisayo eziheha ukubukeka nemicabango yomuntu. Ezimweni eziningi zamacala, izakhi ezingalungile, ngesimo sendawo encane kwi-blouse, zingadlala indima ekhudlwana ekuthuthukiseni ubudlelwane. Lokhu kungase kube isizathu sokuthi izesekeli ezikhethiwe ngokungenaphutha noma ukumomotheka okukhazimulayo kuzoveza umphumela olindelekile. Amadoda emhlanganweni nomfazi abhekana nawo amaminithi amabili nantathu. Amabele, imilenze, amathanga kanye nobuso yizinto zokuqala amadoda azilalela kule mizuzu emibili. Umbono wakho ungakwazi, ukuheha noma ukwesaba noma yimuphi umuntu. Ulwazi oluyisisekelo umuntu aluthola kowesifazane ngisho nangaphambi kokuba ukhulume naye. Lonke ulwazi olulandelayo luzobe luqhathaniswa nalokhu kuvezwa kokuqala. Umbono wokuqala utholakala ngeziteshi zomlomo.
Amadoda lapho ehlangana nowesifazane unake imininingwane. Nakani imilenze yabesifazane, hhayi okungenani. Amabele abesifazane, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi usayizi, hlala ukubukeka kwesilisa. Iphunga lezinwele ezihlanzekile liheha amadoda. Uma ukhuluma nendoda, ukwazi ukubona amehlo akhe, ngaleyo ndlela ubonise isithakazelo kuye. Ukuzibandakanya ngokobulili kukhuluma ngokukwazi umzimba wakho, lokhu akukwazi ukuheha umuntu.
Amadoda anakekele impilo yenkosikazi. Owesifazane kufanele ahlale ewesifazane kunoma yiziphi izimo. Kuhlanzekile futhi kuhlanzekile kufanele kube izingubo nezinwele, izipikili ezinhle. Futhi umbala nobude asinandaba, kuyindaba yokunambitheka wonke umuntu. Owesifazane kufanele ngaso sonke isikhathi athole isikhathi sakhe, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi usebenza emsebenzini noma ehlezi ekhaya nezingane.
Ngombono womuntu lapho ehlangana nowesifazane, ugijima ngendlela yakhe yokuhamba. Ukuhamba kukhona umlingo okhethekile. Indoda ayikwazi ukubheka kude nomfazi othakazelisayo, futhi ikhono lokuhamba kahle lingenza ukuhluleka kwakho konke noma okunye kubonakaliso kungabonakali. Kubantu abathandekayo besifazane, amadoda amaningi athandana nowesifazane lapho edansa. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba ube nomzimba wakho, amadoda aqaphele lokhu.
Inani lezimonyo liyakunakekelwa. Ama-Cosmetics kufanele agcizelele ubuhle besifazane. Ubuso obudwetshiwe buveza umuzwa wokuzikhandla. Amadoda athanda ubuhle bemvelo, agcizelelwe izimonyo. Izinzuzo ezigcizelele kahle zizokwehlisela ukunakwa kusuka ezindaweni zakho ezinenkinga ezincane ebusweni.
Lapho uhlangana nowesifazane, amadoda anakekele isisu. Futhi abathandani ukweqisa. Isibilini esikhulu saggy asikhendi indoda, kepha ayithandi kakhulu kakhulu. I-tummy encane encane yenza owesifazane ahlale ekhaya futhi ethokomele, uhlobo oluthile lwakhe.
Ukunakwa kwamadoda kudonsela futhi kungabikho imikhuba emibi. Abesifazane abahlwanyelwe bahlale behlonishwa.
Amadoda anaka izembatho. Ukwehla nokuntula ukunambitheka kuyinkinga yabesifazane abaningi. Izembatho, ezikhethiwe ngokunambitha, zidweba ngempela amadoda. Izambatho ezithandayo zizokwaziswa ngokubambisana yizithunywa zesigamu esiphezulu sabantu. Kodwa ungangqubuzani ukubonisana nokungaziphathi kahle. Kuwesifazane kufanele kube nemfumbe, imfucuza izingubo yilokho okudingayo. Ukusikisela kwesifuba esihle noma imilenze emincane kunamathekisayo kakhulu kunombono womuntu kunokuboniswa kwawo okuvulekile. Shiya umsebenzi wesifiso samadoda.
Ufuna ukuhlanganisa umuntu - ukumomotheka. Lapho uhlangana nowesifazane, amadoda anakekele ukumomotheka okuvulekile. Awudingi ukumbheka indoda enjengokubukeka okungcolile. Mane ukumomotheka. Khombisa ukumomotheka okuvulekile nokuhle futhi nendoda yakho.
Izwi lezwi, ukuma nokuphakama kwezithende zakho, umbala wezipikili zakho - konke lokhu ngeke kuphunyuke ekubukeni komuntu emhlanganweni. Ngesinye isikhathi amadoda aqaphela izintambo ezinjalo abesifazane abazama ukuzifihla amandla abo. Amadoda lapho ehlangana nowesifazane ulalele indlela aziveza ngayo. Esikhundleni sokuba kube umgomo wokugcina womuntu ukuthembeka kwesithombe kanye nokuxhumana kwayo kulokhu. Konke kufanele kucatshangelwe ngemininingwane yokugcina. Umbala we-lipstick, usayizi nesitayela sesikhwama, izicathulo, izingubo kanye nezinwele, konke kufanele kuhlanganise. Isibalo sabantu besifazane esithakazelisayo sibheka ukubukeka kwamadoda. Futhi wonke umuntu okhangayo uyakhela umuntu omncane, oyisibonelo, futhi othanda i-pyshechek. Wonke umuntu unothando lwakhe siqu. Amadoda akhangwa ukuzethemba kowesifazane, kodwa konke kufanele kube ukulinganisela.