Izingxoxo ezungeze isikhwama
Ekuqaleni kobudlelwane, lapho izindleko nokuphila usuhlukile, ukuxoxa ngezindaba zabo zezimali ngentliziyo yenkosikazi kumuntu akuyona into efanele. Uma kakade manje uhlala eshaya ingxoxo ezindabeni zemali, ke-ke, kwenzekani ngokulandelayo? Kodwa ngisho noma izingxoxo ezinjalo zingakukhathazi, ezinye izinkulumo kufanele zithathwe ngokuqapha.
Ama-beacon ayingozi:
- "Bangikhokhela kancane kakhulu. Ngifuna ukufuna umsebenzi omusha, ngoba angikwazi ukukhokhela noma yini! "Akusikho uhlelo lokusebenza" lokukhalaza "njengesixwayiso:" Angikwazi ngisho nokwanelisa izicelo zami, ngisho nezakho - ngisho nakakhulu. "
- "Ngonyaka odlule ngathola ... ngihlala kuphela ..., futhi ngiya kudla kuphela ku ...". Ukubonisa imali okunjalo akuyona isimo esinjengesimo se-snobbery. Ngakho-ke, ukunyakaza okulandelayo kuyoba: "Yebo, nentombazane yami kufanele izuze ..., sigqoke ... ukufanisa nami!"
- "Empeleni, ngicabanga ukuthi izimbali ziyizindle, kodwa uma ufuna ..." Hamba, futhi ungenalo ilungelo lokubuyela! Noma yisiphi isifiso sakho esiqotho sizobhalwa ngokuzenzekelayo ekholomu "ngenkathi ejwayelekile" futhi, ngokufanayo, ayinaki.
"Umfelokazi uqhafaza" noma ama-crusts amathathu wesinkwa?
Isihloko esihlukile sentshisekelo yesayensi eseduze yindoda eyakumemela esitolo sokudlela. Okokuqala, ngaphansi kwegama elithi "yokudlela" ungaqonda izikhungo ezahlukene ngokuphelele. Njengoba okuhlangenwe nakho okubuhlungu kubonisa, ngezinye izikhathi leli gama eliziqhenya libizwa ngokuthi uMcDonald's, kanye ne-smoky eatery ngasemngceleni wamanzi. Futhi okwesibili, kubonisa ukuthi uphatha kanjani imenyu futhi ulawula i-oda lakho futhi, ngokufanele, izindleko zakho.
Ama-beacon ayingozi:
- "Uthanda i-ayisikhilimu noma i-strudel?" Kulungile - awuzange ube nesikhathi sokukucabangela kahle, futhi usuvele usetha imingcele nemingcele yakho. Isiphetho: kungaba i-egoism ephindwe kabili (akasoze acabange ukuthi izifiso zakho zingase zihluke ezinhlelweni zakhe), noma ukuxhaphazwa okuvulekile (futhi ngokuzumayo uyala isidlo sezinsuku ezintathu futhi ubangele ukulimala okungenakuqhathaniswa esikhwameni sakhe?).
- "Mina ngokwami ngizokwenza umyalelo!" Ngisho noma efuna ukuhlaba umxhwele ngokuyala i-foie gras enhle kakhulu noma ama-shrimp aseThailand, namanje uyazethemba: ungase ube nokubekezelelana noma ukuvinjelwa okungathandeki komunye umkhiqizo.
- "Ingabe wonke umuntu uyazikhokhela?" Asisekho eYurophu, futhi wabiza esitolo sokudlela. Ukumema imali yomunye umuntu kuyimfanelo engadingeki.
Bala ngekhwama
Into enkulu kakhulu "yezimali" kwanoma yimuphi umuntu, yiqiniso, isikhwama sakhe. Ingabe uzokwazi ukutshela ngemikhuba yezezimali yekhethi yakho? Imali igcinwa emaphaketheni amabhulukwe, amahembe, amabhantshi. Akunjalo ngoba isikhwama sasilahlekile, kodwa sisuka esimisweni. Qaphela: umoya ophezu komuntu onjalo uhamba kancane kunamapokhethi akhe. Udelela imali futhi uyisebenzise kalula. Futhi-ke uhlala ngokukhululeka okufanayo esikweletini. Into enesimangalo. Umnikazi wayo uyazi ngokucacile i-akhawunti yekheshi yakhe futhi ukhetha ukubhekana nama-terminals, hhayi ngemali. Into eyodwa: izindleko ezikhiqizwa amakhadi kunzima ukuzilawula. Mhlawumbe ngeke aqaphe ukuthengwa kwe-mink coat entsha? Isikhwama esiphindwe kabili ingumngane oyintandokazi yamadoda amancane alondolozayo. Cishe cishe wonke ama-homo athuthukile. Maye, akukho lutho olukhethekile mayelana nalo alukwazi ukuzimisela: isikhwama sinomkhuba okwedlula inkomba. Impahla eyintandokazi yamadoda aqinile kakhulu afanelekayo. "Ngithwala yonke imishini yami futhi ngibacela ukuba bangaboni lapho," kusho i-borset. Futhi inkosi yakhe isuke ivele ivela emfashini futhi ngokusobala ayiqondi izinwele zokuboya. Noma imali ayinayo ngempela ayiyikugcoba, noma iyazama ngokucophelela ukuqinisekisa ezungezile. Ihhashi elimnyama. Kungcono uhlale kude.
Ngize kuwe ngibingelela
Ukuvakasha kwakhe kuyilingo elihle lokuhaha futhi ... ukuhlonipha. Bheka kokubili! Ukuziphatha komuntu ensimini yangaphandle kungaphezu kokubonisa. Ukungahloniphi kanye nekhono lokuziphatha njengekhaya ekhaya akuvezi kahle noma yisiphi isimenywa. Kodwa ukunakekelwa, ukukhalipha nokuntuleka kwezandla ezingenalutho - amafutha naphezu "kwebhizinisi lakho" lomkhethiweyo wakho.
Ama-beacon ayingozi:
- "Kwasilethela i-Coca-Cola ..." Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi uzwela kangakanani ngeziphuzo ze-carbonated, imithetho yokunambitheka okuhle iyaziwa ngokujwayelekile: ukuza esidlweni sakusihlwa, kufanelekile ukuthatha okungenani isixha, futhi ngendlela enhle - nebhodlela lewayini noma le-champagne. Kuyathakazelisa ukuthi akaqapheli izisekelo zokuziphatha noma ngamabomu futhi ngokungazibonisi uyabanaki? "Itiye nama-biscuits kuphela?" Futhi udle - ngivela emsebenzini? "Uma ungamememeli ngokuqondile ukudla, kumele azinake isisu sakhe kusengaphambili futhi ngokuqinisekile angakwenzi lokho okukushoyo.
- "Hhayi, kodwa akukho nhlobo!" Ingabe ukhona kuwe? Futhi mangaki amamitha? "Futhi ungakhohlwa, engabalulekile, ukubuza mayelana nezihluthulelo eziphephile, lapho imali ikhona ...
Umnotho wezomnotho
Akuyona njalo isifiso sokusindisa kusho ukuhaha noma isimo sengqondo esibi. Uma umuntu engafuni ukuchitha imali yakhe ngewayini elibi kakhulu noma ushizi (nakuba uqinisekile ukuthi angakwazi ukuyikhokhela), lokhu akuyona inkomba ye-skopidomstva. Mhlawumbe unezindleko ezibaluleke kakhulu?
Ama-beacon ayingozi:
- "Ngingadla ukudla, yingakho ngizoneliseka kakhulu ngamadombolo." Maye, angeke akuhambisane nawe nesistimu yakho yokugaya ukudla. Sithemba ukuthi akaphikisi ukuthi "yizinkinga zakho"?
- "Umama ukholelwa ukuthi kungcono ukuthenga isobho elisha kunesi-10 sokuhamba kulo mGibhithe oyisiwula." Kuhle ukuthi unina angabala. Kodwa kungaba ngcono ebuhlotsheni bakho, akazange abale.
- "Uthenge wena amabhuzu amasha? Angikwazi ukukuqonda nina besifazane! Unayo lezo zimpunga! "Kukhona ama-grays, kodwa awekho abamnyama! Futhi ngokujwayelekile, uchithe leli pair ukuze isikhathi sibe ngokwakho futhi wonke umholo wakho.
Ngezinye izikhathi isimo sengqondo sabangaphandle ngemali siyathinteka, futhi ngezinye izikhathi - singena esimweni se-catharsis sokuqinela okulinganiselwe. Ngimaphi amasiko ezithakazelisayo zemali eyenziwa amadoda angaphandle?