Isifiso sokuba nendodakazi kuphela noma indodana encane nje ivela cishe kubazali bonke esizayo. Kodwa kungenzeka yini ukuhlela ubulili bomntwana ongakazalwa? Ezinsukwini zethu, ungakwazi ukuhlangabezana nolwazi oluhlukahlukene, futhi oluvame ukuphikisana ngalolu daba.
Ukuhlela ngegazi.
Isibonelo, kunombono wokuthi ubulili bomntwana bungathinteka ngesigqi sokuphila kocansi kwabazali, izinyanga ezimbalwa ngaphambi kokukhulelwa okuhleliwe. Ukuqondiswa yilo mbono, ukuze umfana azalwe, ahlale ocansini njalo ngangokunokwenzeka, futhi ukuziyeka isikhathi eside kuzokuvuza ngentombazane.
Ukugxila endleleni yokuhlela ubulili bendodana ngegazi, kufanele wazi ukuthi ukuvuselelwa kwegazi okuvuselelwa kwezesilisa kuhlukile (igazi lesilisa livuselelwa izikhathi ezine, igazi lesifazane livuselelwa izikhathi ezine). Ukuze uhlele ucansi oluthandayo lomntwana ngale ndlela, kubalulekile ukubala izikhathi zokuvuselelwa kwegazi bobabili bomshado. Labo abahlela umfana, isikhathi sokukhulelwa kufanele kube yinkomba yezinga lokubuyekezwa kwegazi likapapa. Futhi amathuba okubeletha kwentombazane ayokhula lapho kwenzeka ukuthi ukukhulelwa kuyadingeka ngesikhathi segazi "elisha" lomama ozayo.
Ukudla.
Ngokucabangela abaningi, ekusunguleni ucansi, hhayi indima encane idlala ngokudla. Ngokusho kwalolu mbono, cishe amasonto amathathu ngaphambi kokuba kuthathwe usuku lokukhulelwa, kufanele kulandelwe ukudla okunye, kanti lona wesifazane isikhathi sithatha isikhathi eside ngemva kwezinyanga ezingu-1.5 kuya kwezingu-2 emva kokukhulelwa. Amathuba okubeletha kwentombazane ayokhuphula uma usawoti, inyama ebhemayo, ama-buns kuncishisiwe, futhi kufaka phakathi izinhlanzi, amaqanda, amantongomane, imikhiqizo yobisi omuncu, izithelo zokudla. Ithuba lokukhulelwa umntwana wesilisa lizovela uma inyama, isinkwa semvubelo, uketshezi, izidlo zezidlo ezinomsoco nezokubhema zikhethwa, futhi izitsha zokudla zasolwandle kufanele zilinganiselwe.
Ubuhle bomdala.
Phakathi kwazo zonke ezinye izinkolelo, umuntu angathola futhi indlela yokuhlela ubulili bomntwana obhekene nendawo yobudala besifazane. Kulokhu, konke kulula! Uma uhlela intombazane, ubuhle beminyaka egcwele yowesifazane kanye nenyanga yokukhulelwa kuhambisana. Ngomfana konke okukodwa, ngokuphambene - ngenxa yobudala, ukukhulelwa kuyadingeka ezinyangeni ezingavamile, futhi ngenxa yobudala obungavamile, ngokulandelana, ngisho nakwezinye. Kulaba besifazane abaneminyaka engavamile, kungenzeka ukuthi ingane ikwazi ukukhulelwa phakathi konyaka, kanti nabesifazane abaneminyaka yobudala, ukukhulelwa kwenganekazi kuyodlula kulezi zinsuku.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, ungakwazi ukubala ubulili bomntwana ngokusho kwekhalenda lenyanga, amatafula aseShayina yasendulo noma indlela yaseJapane ... I-intanethi inikeza amathuba amaningi ahlukile kanye nezinhlinzeko zokuqoqa ikhalenda ngayinye yokukhulelwa kwengane ethile (okungenjalo, hhayi mahhala), okuqinisekisayo ukuthi akunakwenzeka, hhayi okungenzeka ngokuphelele.
Angifuni ukudumaza bonke labo abazama ukuhlela ucansi lomntwana ozayo - kodwa kusobala ukuthi akukho ziqinisekiso kule ndaba.
Ngokwezinga elithile ngokwesayensi-elichazwayo, indlela esekelwe esikhathini sokuphila kanye nomoya we-spermatozoa, futhi isikhathi esithile phakathi kwe-ovulation kubhekwa. Kuyaziwa ukuthi i-sperm ethwele ukukhulelwa komfana ophethe i-Y-chromosome, iselula kakhulu, kodwa ingaphansi kakhulu. Ukuphila kwabo isikhathi eside cishe ngamahora angu-24-36. Ngokufanayo, i-spermatozoa ethwala i-chromosome ye-X ihamba kancane kunamadoda, kodwa azinzile, futhi isikhathi sabo sokuphila sihluka phakathi kwamahora angu-48-72. Ngokwalolu lwazi, umzuzu omuhle kunawo wonke we-in vitro fertilization usuku lokuvuthwa, okuyinto evame ukuvela phakathi nomjikelezo wesifazane wesifazane. Futhi uma uhlela intombazane, isenzo socansi kufanele senzeke izinsuku ezingu-2-3 ngaphambi kokuvuthwa okulindelwe, emva kwalokho kunconywa ukuba ubale ukulala ngokocansi izinsuku ezimbalwa. Umfana cishe "uzothola" ngosuku lokuvota. Kodwa-ke, futhi le ndlela isondela kakhulu - ikakhulukazi ngoba kunzima ngisho nangokwakho konke izinhlelo zokuhlola zokuhlola zanamuhla zokunquma ngokunembile isikhathi sokuvota.
Ekugcineni, noma yikuphi indlela oyisebenzisayo - into esemqoka ukuthanda ingane yakho kusukela ngesikhathi sokuqala, okuzokwenzeka ngokushesha futhi kuyoba yilapho ethanda kakhulu futhi ejabule.