Kuphi ukuphumula owesifazane onesizungu

Naphezu kokuba abesifazane banamuhla sebekude kakade nabangaphambi kwabo, iminyaka eminingi isondelene kakhulu namadoda, kusekhona umbono emphakathini ukuthi isizungu sinomkhawulo kwabesifazane.

Okungenani ekukhetheni indawo yokuhamba. Futhi kukhona inhlamvu ethile yeqiniso kule nkolelo: empeleni, lapho ukhetha lapho ungaphumulela khona owesifazane ovela emanzini anganamhlanje, owesifazane ongashadile kufanele aqaphele ngokukhethekile. Indawo yeholide adinga ukukhetha indawo ephephile kunomthengi obuthakathaka, lapho isizungu sakhe singeke sibangele imibuzo engadingekile futhi ngeke sidonse ukunakwa okungadingeki. Kodwa lokhu akusho ukuthi uhambo olunjalo lukhawulelwe ekukhethweni kwakhe. Namuhla, izinkampani zokuhamba zinikeza uhla oluhle lokuvakasha ngokuqondile kwabesifazane abaya eholidini abangahambisani nabo.

Ukuzondeka ngokwentando yakho.

Owesifazane akahlali enesizungu ngaso sonke isikhathi ngenxa yezimo ezingenakukhungatheka: akazange atholakale yinkosi yakhe, umfelokazi noma ohlukanisile. Ngezinye izikhathi kuyisinqumo sakhe, eshiwo ngezizathu ezihlukahlukene. Abesifazane abanjalo, njengombuso, hamba uhambo ngomgomo wokuzijabulisa ngempela, ukubamba iqhaza ekuthandweni kwezindawo zokuhlala ngaphandle kokungezelelwe okungadingekile, ukujoyina ingcebo yemvelo noma isiko somunye noma ukuthola umthamo onjalo oyifunayo we-adrenaline.

Ukukhetha indawo ekahle yokuphumula owesifazane onesizungu, olambile inkululeko yesikhashana ebuhlotsheni, kubalulekile ukukhumbula izindawo eziningi zokuhlala eYurophu. Ukuvakasha kwe-cruise kuye kuwukuphela kuphela uma inhloso kuphela yohambo ukucabanga ngento ebalulekile noma ukuxhumana okusheshayo nomuntu wezizwe othakazelisayo. Kodwa ukuhamba ngezitimela noma ukuhamba ngendiza ehamba ngezindiza ekhululekile kuyithuba elihle nje lokubona lokho okwakungacabangi khona kuze kube manje, kodwa futhi nokuba nolwazi oluningi oluthakazelisayo.

EMexico, eFrance, eCyprus naseGrisi, eJapane, e-United States noma eNorway - ngoba owesifazane ongashadile angaba yisisombululo esihle kunoma yikuphi amandla aseYurophu noma izindawo ezihambela izindawo zokuvakasha zaseMelika. Futhi kuyoba ukutholakala kwangempela eHolland - izwe eladalwa ukuhamba okunjalo. Egcwele imibala nokuthanda, ekwazi ukuhlonipha inkululeko yokuzikhethela indoda, engenazo zonke izibonakaliso ze-chauvinism yamadoda - iyophendulela ngokoqobo isivakashi ngombono weholide elilodwa.

Futhi i-France - izwe lothando, iwayini elihle, imihlaba ekhangayo namagundane angavamile kakhulu - indawo enhle yereveli esheshayo noma ngisho nokudlala ngothando. Akekho owesifazane lapha oyozizwa eyedwa. I-France yizwe lapho intukuthelo ikhona kuwo wonke umuntu, kodwa ngakho-ke i-unobtrusively ukuthi iphela kuphela ukucubungula kokuthokozisa okutholakele ekuvakasheni kwayo. Ukuphumula ngokweqile kumfazi ongashadile nakho akukona ukuheha. Kungaya ema-Alps aseSwitzerland amakhulu noma kunoma yiziphi izindawo zokubhuka zezindiza zaseYurophu.

Ukufuna uthando.

Yiqiniso, ngezinye izikhathi owesifazane uba yisisulu sokuba nesizungu, hhayi ngokwabo. Uphoqelelwe ukuba ambekezelele ngoba kuphela isikhulu sakhe esiye sahlala ngandlela-thile endleleni eya enhliziyweni yakhe noma eyake isithandana naye, yamshiya, iholwa ngabathandi bayo. Abafelokazi, abesifazane abahlukanisile noma labo abangakatholi uthando lwabo, nabo bathanda ukuhamba. Imigomo abayilandelayo kuphela ecacile: basuke befuna ukungabikho okwesikhashana ezandleni zomuntu ongajwayelekile noma ubuhlobo obuseduze nabakhamuzi abavela kwamanye amazwe. Nakuba, endleleni, ngalezi zihambo, abesifazane bavame ukuhlangabezana nothando lweqiniso futhi ekugcineni balahle isizungu, kodwa hhayi ngabokufika, njengoba bekulindele ekuqaleni, kodwa nabanye abahambi abagibela isitimela esifanayo, ibhasi, indiza. Ngokudabukisayo, abangaphezu kuka-40% wabashayeli abangashadile abaye bafuna uthando lwabo ngeminyaka bakuthola emehlweni omfokazi, njengoba kuvela, behlala endlini eseduze.

Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kwakunjani, futhi uphumule owesifazane onesizungu, unxanela umphakathi wesilisa, futhi, lapho. Yiqiniso, ukukhetha kwakhe yizindawo ezigcwele izikhumbuzo zamasiko. Ikakhulukazi emazweni ahlanganiswe emlandweni, i-halo ye-romance. IFrance, iBelgium, iBulgaria, iSlovenia, iCzech Republic neCroatia - lawa yizindawo ezinhle kakhulu zenhliziyo efuna isifiso. Kodwa uma uthanda, owesifazane onjalo uhamba nohambo oluya eLos Angeles, eMiami, eFlorida noma naseNew York. Kodwa i-Italy ekufuneni uthando - ukuthola kwangempela. I-Venice yayo, i-Naples noma i-Florence edizayo ihamba ngokushayela abantu abaphambukayo futhi igule izivakashi ngokufuna uthando, ukuzwelana, ukuthandana nokufutheka okukhulu.

Uma ngabe ufisa, owesifazane ongashadile angaya emazweni ase-Asia, kodwa eThailand, eChina, eJapane noma eVietnam kuphela, akakwazi ukuthola abalandeli abaningi abazimisele ukumnaka. Ngaphezu kwalokho, lawa mazwe kumele aqaphele kakhulu: awukwazi ukukhohlwa ukuthi owesifazane uhlala kuma-Arabhu umuntu onamalungelo alinganiselwe. Ngaphezu kwalokho, lapha ngeke ukwazi ukukhazimula ekubukeni okuhehayo: ukuthobeka kwesitayela sezingubo zesifazane lapha kuzodingeka bame ngokuqinile.

Ukuzizwa yedwa kungumngane owamukelekile kuphela.

Yiqiniso, owesifazane uhlale efuna indoda. Futhi yena-uyomomele. Kodwa ngezinye izikhathi ngamunye wabo udinga ukuphumula komunye nomunye. Njengoba owesifazane engokomzwelo, ngakho-ke ukuhlukana okunjalo phakathi kwabantu kubaluleke kakhulu kuye kunokuba kube nobulili obuqinile. Ngenxa yezimo ezinjalo, akuwona wonke owesifazane oyedwa ohambweni odinga ukunakwa abalandeli, ubuhlobo besikhathi eside noma, ngokuyisisekelo, abajwayele ukuxhumana nabo. Abanye abavame ukugwema umphakathi ekuhambeni kwabo, bakhetha ukuhlola indawo ngayinye, ubumbano bemvelo, isifiso sokuthula ukuzwa umculo oyingqayizivele womlando wemizi yasendulo, okwaholela ekuhambeni kwakhe.

Kulezi zivakashi izimbombo eziluhlaza zomhlaba ziphelele - uhlobo lwe-Great Britain, Ireland, New Zealand. Bangaya eVietnam noma eChina ngokuphepha. Kula mazwe amangazayo, umhambi oyedwa angazidela ngokuphelele ekutadisheni izinto, ngaphandle kokuphazanyiswa izinkulumo ezingadingeki zezwe, ukuthandana noma ukuthandana ngokucindezela. ISlovenia, iSlovakia, i-Finland, iMorocco, iJalimane - yizwe elimangalisayo lokuhlola amaholide enesizungu. Uhlelo lokuvikela abashayeli abangabodwa kusuka ezinsongweni ezingenzeka kula mazwe lakhiwe ngezinga eliphakeme lekhwalithi. Akukho lutho okufanele wesabe. Kodwa kusadingeka ukuba sikhumbule uhlelo lokuqapha okudingekayo.