Kuyini owesifazane wesimanje

Kukhona izikhathi ezinjalo zeDomostroevsky, lapho owesifazane engenza imisebenzi yendlu kuphela. Amakhulu eminyaka adluliselwa emzabalazweni wabesifazane ngamalungelo abo. Ngalesi sikhathi, amadoda ahlasele izimpi eziningi, aqeda isisetshenziswa, futhi adubule i-tsar. Futhi bonke abesifazane balwa futhi balwela ilungelo lokuziqhenya, kwakukhona ngisho nokunyakaza konke okubizwa ngokuthi "ama-chauvinists". Abanye babo baphinde bagxilise umqondo wokulwa namalungelo (kahle, isibonelo, kuyini umzabalazo wabo wokushintsha okuthiwa "indoda-indoda" ekukhanyeni komgwaqo "kumuntu omncane-owesifazane"). Kodwa akukhona ngabo manje. Futhi labo abasebenzisa ngenkuthalo amathuba amasha omphakathi wanamuhla. Ake sibone ukuthi owesifazane wanamuhla uyini.
Kulungile-ke. Owesifazane wayeseke abe ngumuntu ojwayelekile, ongasondelene naye, manje usezifundweni zesayensi, ezemidlalo, ezomabhizinisi, ezombangazwe, owesifazane wangena ngemuva kwesondo, wathatha i-sambo, ibhola, amabhilididi, waqala ukusebenza kumengameli. ... uhlu lungabuye lwaqhubeka kuze kube phakade. "Yini ekhethekile kakhulu ngalokhu?" Le ndoda izobuza. Futhi iqiniso lokuthi ngenkathi lingapheli ukuqapha eduze indlu, fundisa izingane futhi zibukeke zinkulu. Lokhu akuwona wonke umuntu ongakwenza.

Owesimanje wanamuhla ubonisa ngokucacile lokho akufunayo. Futhi ufuna konke! Udinga umsebenzi, imali, imoto, indlu, izingubo ezinhle kanye nenduna ngehhashi elimhlophe. Nakuba kungekho isikhulu, i-wumen yanamuhla ayihlali kabi. Uma owesifazane engenawo lowo, kufanele akwanelise abaningi.

Owesifazane wesimanje ngeke ahlale futhi elinde efasiteleni, lapho yonke ingcebo yezwe izowa ekhanda lakhe, uzokwenza konke yena ngokwakhe. Kubandakanya, uzobe enqoba inhliziyo yomuntu ayeyithandayo. Ngesikhathi esifanayo, akaqapheli nokuthi uzothola kanjani amanethiwekhi ahlukanisiwe ngobuhlakani. Futhi yena uyojabula ngokuthi wangena kubo. Emva kwakho konke, uzogqoka, agqoke, agcoke futhi anakekelwe ngomusa. Kodwa owesifazane wesimanje akadingi ukukhunjulwa ukuze amfanise naye - kusebenza futhi, ngakho-ke, nkosikazi, kufanele uphuthumele ukuze ungayithwali le nkosikazi.

Ezamabhizinisi, owesifazane wesimanje nje akanayo olinganayo! Angakwazi ukuvula noma yikuphi ibhande! Endabeni, owesifazane angase abe nobudlova kunomuntu. Uhlale engowesifazane, ohlakaniphile, oqaphele futhi obala. Ngesikhathi esifanayo angeke akhathazeke ukubuza iseluleko esivela emadodeni, kodwa uzokwenza ngokudla okunjalo kanye nenkokhelo ukuthi ubani ozokujabulela ukululeka. Futhi uyayisebenzisa ngentshiseko!

Inhloko yowesifazane wesimanje ugcwele imibono ehlukene! Ulungele ukwabelana nabo futhi uwasebenzise.

Ngesikhathi esifanayo, njalo kufanele aqinisekise, uma kungenjalo ukuphakama kwakhe phezu kwamadoda, okungenani ukulingana nabo. Kwenzeka kuyo yonke indawo: ehhovisi, endleleni, ezemidlalo. Owesifazane wesimanje ujabule kuphela lapho eqaphela ngokuphelele. Uma kungenjalo, ngeke aphumule kuze kube yilapho efinyelela khona, lokhu kuyenzeka. Wonke amabutho akhe azophonswa kuye, uzosebenza ebusuku, eze kuzo zonke izinhlobo zezifundo, uzobe ekhanda lakhe uma kudingeka.

Yebo, ngezinye izikhathi owesifazane ucabange kakhulu kunomuntu, kumsiza ukuba aphile emphakathini wanamuhla, kumsize ukuba aphile ukuhluleka, kusize ukukhohlwa izikhalazo ezibangelwa abantu. Konke lokhu kusiza abesifazane abangenakuzivikela ukuze basinde.

Noma kunjalo, unesizungu. Ngakho yedwa futhi engacaciswanga ukuthi ingaba kanjani indoda enamandla ngempela yedwa. Ngaphambi kwesisindo somuntu oqinile, ozimele futhi ophumelelayo ukufihla owesifazane obuthakathaka, obuthakathaka. Enhliziyweni yakhe usengumfana ofanayo waseTurgenev. Usadinga uthando nokuthandana.

Bathandekayo amadoda ethu, bathande, labesifazane banamuhla, ngoba konke akwenzayo konke ngenxa yakho. Ufuna nje ukukujabulisa.