Ingabe owesifazane kufanele angene ngemuva kwesondo lemoto?
Ngokusho kwamavoti ahlukene, iningi labameleli bobulili obuqinile bakholelwa ukuthi abesifazane besondo baziphatha ngendlela engalungile futhi ngenxa yalokho, kuyingozi emgwaqweni. Ngabe la madoda angathini uma afunda ukuthi amaphesenti amakhulu abashayeli besifazane abakhulelwe? Kodwa-ke, inkulumo ngezindlela ezahlukene zokucabanga kwabesifazane nabesilisa iphikisana kakhulu. Kodwa ingakanani omama abazoba khona esikhathini esizayo, behlezi ngemuva kwesondo? Akunqatshelwe ukushayela owesifazane okhulelwe, kodwa odokotela beluleka ukukwenza ngokucophelela. Izinguquko zamahomoni ezimbi emzimbeni okhulelwe angeke zithinte kodwa ukuziphatha kwabafazi, futhi isimo sezempilo esiwohloka - ngokulalela kwabo kanye nokukwazi ukulawula isimo. Nokho, ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa kunezikhathi ezibucayi kakhulu.
Yiqiniso, uma ungumshayeli onolwazi, bese ubona imichilo emibili ebalulekile ekuvivinyweni, awudingi ukufaka izihluthulelo emotweni ngemidwebo. Kodwa uma unquma ukuthola amalungelo ekuphumeni kwekhefu lokubeletha, kufanelekile ukucabangela. Ukufunda ukushayela kuyinkambiso ejabulisayo kunoma yimuphi umuntu, ngisho nasesidinini esinezinzwa zensimbi. Umama wesikhathi esizayo unomusa, unengozini futhi awunakulinganiswa: isimo singashintsha ngokuphawulekayo ekuvimbeleni ukukhungatheka nokukhungatheka. Ngenxa yokuvuselela kanye nodokotela, futhi abafundisi ekushayweni kwesikole bazama ukuvimbela abesifazane abasesikhundleni ukuba bangene ngemuva kwesondo. Kodwa umthetho uvimbela omama ukuthi bafunde ukushayela, cha, ngakho-ke isinqumo sinjalo ngaso sonke isikhathi.
Ukulinganisa zonke izinzuzo nezindleko. Mhlawumbe, ukuya emsebenzini noma ukubonisana kwabesifazane ekuthuthweni komphakathi, uhlangabezana nokucindezeleka, okufana nokujabula ngokuhlolwa. Emigwaqweni kanye nebhasi kunzima, hhayi njalo kuhlanzekile, ngaphandle kwalokho, "ikhulu lama-knights athembekile lidlulile" hhayi bonke abagibeli abazinikezela ngokuzithandela kumama ozayo.Akumangalisi ukuthi ehoreni eliphakeme kakhulu uphupha imoto yakho, ngesithuba sakho okungenani isigamu semitha. Ngifuna ukugijimela masinyane emfundweni ukuze uthole amalungelo okufisa. Empeleni, eminyakeni yamuva, inani labesifazane besifundo se-auto liye landa kakhulu.
Abafundi abangaphezu kwesigamu bangama-ladies. Umshayeli wesifazane akafani nomshayeli wesilisa, kusho abafundisi. Kodwa, okuyinto enhle, evame ukuba ngcono. Eminye yemingcele, abesifazane bangaphezu kwamadoda amakhono okushayela: aqhuba ngokucophelela futhi ngokucophelela, athathe ukunakekelwa okwengeziwe ngezinto ezincane, futhi ahlale esengozini kakhulu. Ngakho-ke akukho lutho olwesabayo uma owesifazane, ngisho nasesimweni esithakazelisayo, efuna ukuba ngumshayeli wokuqala, kunesizathu sokukholelwa ukuthi uzophumelela. Abafundisi kuphela bacebisa abomama esikhathini esizayo ukuthi bathathe amahora amaningi okushayela futhi baqaphele ngokukhethekile izici zobuchwepheshe, ngoba abesifazane abavame ukuthola ukutholakala kwangempela komshini. Ngendlela, ezikoleni eziningi zesimanje zokushayela abaqeqeshi abaqeqeshwayo baqondiswa yizengqondo, ngakho-ke ukuqeqesha omama esikhathini esizayo kubheka izici zobungqingili besifazane.
Uqinisile imithetho yomgwaqo, hamba nomfundisi ozungeza umuzi, ufunde ukupaka nokuvula. Sekuyisikhathi sokuthatha izivivinyo. Khona-ke umama wesikhathi esizayo angalindela izimanga. Amaphoyisa omgwaqo asabela kumfundi okhulelwe ngendlela engafanele futhi ngokuvamile azama ukumvimbela ekubeni yingozi (ngokubona kwabo). Khumbula ilungelo lakho lokuthola ilungelo, nokuthi nokuthi uma uhamba ngokuhlolwa kwezokwelapha uzodinga isitifiketi esivela kumgogeni wezinkinga ukuthi awunayo i-pathology. Hlehlisa ngokuzethemba futhi ngokuzethemba imizamo enjalo.
Kodwa uma unenyanga engu-7-8 ukhulelwe, indlela engcono kakhulu yokwenqaba imoto. Indlela engcono kakhulu yomama ozayo kuyoba umbhede ophuthumayo nolwandle lwamavithamini.