Ukubona ukuphanga kwefulethi ephusheni
USonnik Miller ukholelwa ukuthi indlu ephangwayo ephuphile ibonisa ukuthi ngokuvamile umphuphi akenzi izinqumo ezizimele, azishintsha emahlombe abathandekayo noma ngisho eholwa izeluleko zabanye abantu. Isizathu kungase kube ukungakwazi ukuthatha imithwalo yemisebenzi yomuntu siqu.
Ngokusho kwencwadi yephupho likaTsvetkov, ukuphanga ephusheni kubonisa isimo sokuphikisana futhi, ngisho nokuhlukana okungenzeka nomlingani. Isizathu esingabazeki segebe kungenzeka ukuthi asibe ukungaqondani, kodwa ukubonakala komthandi noma umthandi engxenyeni yakho yesibili.
Intombazane encane, eyaphupha ukuthi iphangiwe, izincwadi zephupho zithembisa ukubonakala kwabafihli bezimfihlo nabavulekile, phakathi kwabo azokwazi ukukhetha iqembu elifanele kakhulu lomshado.
Uma uphupha ukuphanga indlu yabantu abacebile, lokhu kubonakalisa umona wakho kulabo abangcono ababekwe kulobu philo futhi bajabulele umcebo omkhulu.
Ngokumangazayo, ukuphanga kwefulethi kungabonisa ezinye zezimfanelo zobuntu abaphuphayo, ikakhulukazi ubukeka bakhe, ukuzethemba okuphansi nokuziphendulela. Ukuze ugweme izinkinga zesikhathi esizayo, kwanele nje ukuba ulahlwe ngokugcwele kubantu abajwayele ukuzwa nabo kanye nezinzwa.
Ukuphanga kwefulethi kungabuye kubonise ukungakwazi komuntu olele ukuthethelela lowo owenze iphutha. Kulokhu, ukungathetheleli kubangelwa ukukholelwa komuntu oyiphupha ukuthi umuntu oye wahlinzeka ngensizakalo noma usizo kuye into engambongi kahle.
Okunye ukuhumusha kwephupho elimbi
- Umphupho womndeni uhumusha ukweba njengokusondela kokulahlekelwa empeleni. Ngaphezu kwalokho, zingabonakaliswa ohlelweni lwezinto ezibonakalayo noma ngendlela yokuphikisana nezinkinga emndenini nasemsebenzini.
- Ukuphanga endlini ngephupho, ngenkathi ungekho, kufanekisela izinkinga ezinkulu ezibangelwa ukunganaki nokungahloniphi kwakho.
- Uma ephusheni izinkokhelo zokweba zinikwe kuwe, khona-ke icala elihleliwe ngeke likwazi ukuqhutshwa ngenxa yokungaboni kahle okuncane.
- Iphupho lapho ummangalelwa egwetshwa khona, akuxwayisa ngeziphetho eziphuthumayo - ungasheshi ukulahla umuntu, umuntu angenacala ngokuphelele kulokho okwenzekile.
- Ezinye izincwadi zephupho nazo zithi ukuphanga okuncane okuphushulwa ngenzuzo, kodwa ukweba ukudla noma isinkwa kuyathembisa ukulimala, kanye nokweba izinto ezincane ezibalulekile.
- Uma uphangiwe emgwaqweni futhi uqaphele umphangi, incwadi yephupho yeLongo inikeza izinketho ezimbili zokuchazwa: isela eliqaphele futhi elingenakusiza likuthembisa ukuthi ukhule ngendlela ephakeme, futhi ukuhlaselwa okusheshayo kubonisa ukulahleka okukhulu kwempahla esikhathini esizayo esiseduze.
- Umphuphi weTaflishi uphatha ukuphanga noma ukweba ephusheni lanoma yiluphi uhlobo lwempahla njengoba ebikezela inhlekelele enkulu. Uma lowo mphupha ngokwakhe enza njengompangi, izenzo zakhe ezingenangqondo neziphetho eziphuthumayo ziyoholela ekushiyiselweni okuzayo.
Naphezu kweqiniso lokuthi iningi lokuhumusha kwephupho elinjalo libi, umuntu akufanele adikibale. Phela, amaphupho yilokho akudingayo ukuxwayisa umuntu mayelana nezinkinga ezizayo futhi amnike ithuba lokuthatha izinyathelo ezifanele.