Abantu abadala, ngokungafani nezingane, baqonda zonke izinkinga zalesi sifo sokufiphaza futhi bazocatshangelwa izikhathi ezingaphezu kwekhulu ukuthi badinga isilwane. Wonke umama wendlu ufuna ikhaya lakhe libe lihle futhi lihle. Ukwenza lokhu, uchitha umzamo omkhulu wokuhlanza nokudala induduzo emndenini wakhe. Futhi ngokuqinisekile ukuthengwa kwesilwane, ikati noma inja yengane, ayifuni ezinhlelweni zayo.
Okokuqala, isilwane sidinga ukunakekelwa njalo nokunakekelwa njalo. Ingane enesifiso sokuba nesilwane endlini izohlala ithembise ukubonisa ukuthi uzobonisa konke ukunakekela kwakhe, lokhu kuhlanganisa ukuhlanza emva kwakhe, ukudla, ukuhamba. Bese kubazali abahle kakhulu beletha ekhaya isilwane esilinde isikhathi eside. Futhi yini okungenzeka ukuthi ubone okunye? Futhi-ke ukubonakaliswa kwazo zonke ukunakekelwa nakho konke ukukhathalela isilwane emntwaneni kungapheli cishe isonto. Kamuva bayathukuthela. Okokuqala, izingane zilahlekelwa isithakazelo sokuqala nesigqamile kunazo zonke kusukela ekubukeni kokuqala kwesilwane endlini, indalo enhle, ethandekayo iba yinto evamile kuye. Okwesibili, baqala ukuqonda ukuthi ukunakekela isilwane kuyinto enzima kakhulu namathayi okusheshayo. Ngakho-ke, ngaphansi kwanoma yikuphi ukuxoshwa, benza konke okusemandleni ukushintsha imisebenzi yabo kubazali babo, kuyilapho benza sengathi sebekhohliwe kakade izifungo zabo ngaphambi kokuthola indalo ehlonishwayo.
Futhi-ke, abazali abanalutho okumele balwenze kodwa bathathe zonke izinkinga phezu kwalesi silwane. Mhlawumbe lokhu kuyisizathu esibaluleke kunazo zonke abazali abaphikisana nokuthenga umntwana wabo isilwane. Phela, isilwane ngokwawo siyisidalwa esingenasisekelo, futhi ngaphandle kwalokho, singagula. Futhi-ke izinkinga ezinjengokudla, ukuhlanza, ukuhamba, ukwelashwa okude kwengeziwe, futhi lezi zihambo eziqhubekayo ezigulini zezilwane, izijovo kanye nezilwane kusadingeka zigezwe ngezikhathi ezithile, ngaphandle kwalokho (ikakhulukazi izinja) zingagubha yonke ifenisha, indlu. Futhi-ke wonke umsebenzi onzima womninikhaya ozohlala enakekela indlu ngokushesha uphelelwa ngaphandle kokulandelela.
Enye into lapho umndeni uhlala endlini ehlukile yangasese. Ngenye into, izilwane zingahamba ukuze zihambe ngokwazo uma zifuna, futhi kukhona inzuzo evela kubo. Izinja zenza umsebenzi wabalindi, ama-pussies aqhutshwa njalo ezindlini zamagundane, ekhulula ekamelweni lamantonga amancane angavunyelwe. Kodwa esikhathini sethu abantu abaningi bahlala ezindlini.
Ngokufanayo, abazali bayaqonda ukuthi izilwane zingabangela ukucindezeleka kwengane. Isibonelo, uma isilwane sifa, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi, kusukela ekuguga noma kwesifo, kufanele ukwenze. Ingane izobe isaba, futhi kuyoba nzima kakhulu ukuyihlisa.
Ngokuvamile, abazali baphinda into eyodwa, ukuqala isilwane kwengane kuyisimo esibucayi nesisebenzi esihogweni. Futhi lokhu kungaqondwa ngabazali. Kodwa-ke ngubani ozoqonda izingane ngokwabo.
Ungabheka enye iphuzu lokubuka. Ngokubukeka kwesilwane endlini, konke kuguquka ngesikhathi esisodwa. Inyane elizikhukhumeza liletha injabulo enkulu nenjabulo endlini. Futhi uma abazali bebonisa ingane yabo ukuthi kufanele banakekele kanjani inhlanzi ephazamisayo futhi konke kuzofundiswa kuye, khona-ke ingane iyoba nempilo enempilo ngokwengeziwe, ikwazi ukuzimela ngokwengeziwe. Uzofunda kusukela ebuntwaneni ukuthi umqondo wemfanelo unjani. Isilwane sizokuthokozisa ingane. Uma abazali behlala behlala emsebenzini, ingane ingathola kalula kusuka esilwaneni esinobubele nokufudumala, engabikho kubazali ngenxa yomsebenzi wabo oqhubekayo. Phela, isilwane sisoloko singumngane omkhulu kakhulu wengane, eceleni kwabo noma yimuphi umntanakho, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi umlingani wakhe awunjalo, ngeke azizwe enesizungu.
Ngakho-ke, uma unquma ukuthi unesilwane ingane, isilwane kufanele sicatshangelwe ngokucophelela. Ukwenza isinqumo esiqondile ngalolu daba, ngombono wami, akunakwenzeka futhi noma yikuphi ukubuka kuyoba okulungile.