Ngombono wethu, uthando luyinto enhle kakhulu, egoqa phansi. Yilokho okwenza izinkondlo zezinkondlo, futhi abaculi badonsa ubuciko. Izincwadi ezinhle kunazo zonke emhlabeni zikhuluma ngothando, abalobi, Yebo, bayithokoza. Iningi lethu luthando-luthando, luthando, luphawulekayo, luhlanganisa konke. Abanye bacabanga ukuthi uthando luzoletha ukuthula, ukuqiniswa. Eyokuqala, uthando lwabantu abadala asebekhulile, abaphila phakathi kwabo bonke, bakha induduzo futhi banikeza injabulo. Omunye wethu uhlukile, uhlukile, futhi kungaba khona uthando.
Sonke silindele othandweni oluhlukile futhi ngesikhathi esifanayo olufanayo. Kulingana nokuthi umuntu ngamunye ulindela yini lokho engenakho.
Ukukhathazeka
Ngomunye umuntu, uthando luyithando, i-adventure, imizwa edizayo. Uthando olunjalo luyadingeka ngabantu, cishe, bakhathele ubuhlungu bokuphila, impilo ejwayelekile. Abantu abanjalo bafuna izintshisekelo nokuzijabulisa, futhi badala umbono wothando ngesisekelo samafilimu, izincwadi, izindaba. Badinga iphunga lomuntu elizobonga ubuntu babo. Mhlawumbe, abantu abanjalo badinga nje imizwelo enamandla kakhulu noma bavele bahlangabezana nokuxabana, inhlekelele. Lesi sigaba sabantu asilungele ngempela uthando. Okufihliwe ngemuva kwesithando ngothando kanye nomdlalo, okugcina ekugcineni, ngaphandle uma kuphakanyiswa ezinye imizwa. Kubantu abanjalo, uthando luxhunyaniswe nezingxabano, "oluthululela kuphela amafutha emlilweni." Okunye ukungqubuzana kwangaphakathi kudonsa abantu ukucinga izithiyo, ukuvinjelwa kothando. "Uthando" olunjalo luphila ngenxa yezimo ezingekho emthethweni, ezinzima, ukucindezeleka, idrama. Isizathu sesifiso esinjalo ukunganeliseki kwangaphakathi, ukungabi nalutho, umbuzo ongaxazululwa noma ukungathandi ebuhlotsheni obubi. Efuna uthando olunjalo, umuntu angakwazi ukuthola i-adrenaline noma ngisho nesisombululo sezinkinga nezinkinga zabo.
Ukwesaba ukuba yedwa
Ngokuvamile, lapho sifuna uthando, empeleni sidinga indoda enamandla ezosisekela futhi isisindise ekubeni nesizungu. Ngamunye wethu uzwa ngezinga elithile elunesizungu, engaqondakali. Ukwesaba ukuba yedwa kusiholela ezimweni eziningi. Kwabanye abantu - lokhu yisizathu esiyinhloko sokufuna uthando. Ubuntu obuthakathaka, obunzima emhlabeni wonke, bufuna ukwesekwa, ukwesekwa. Uthando lugqozi olulodwa, lusizana komunye nomunye ezimweni ezinzima, ukuhlanganisa okufanayo. Umuntu oyedwa ufuna ukuthanda njengendlela yokwelapha zonke izinkinga zakhe, okuzogcwalisa ukungabi nalutho ngaphakathi nokusiza lo muntu ngokwesaba.
Kunesigaba sabantu abangeke babe ngabodwa. Kubo, impilo yonke - ukuthola umlingani ozobe eseduze kwabo, uzofihla ukungaphumeleli nokungaphumeleli komlingiswa wabo. Abantu abanjalo bafana "nengxenye elahlekile", engakwazi ukusebenza ngokuzimela. Uthando luyabasiza kakhulu ukuthola ukuzethemba, kusiza ukuxazulula izinkinga eziningi, ukusekela abantu ezikhathini ezinzima, kusiza ukuqonda izinto eziningi. Kodwa lokhu akusiyo i-panacea yezinkinga esingakwazi ukuzixazulula thina.
Abanye abantu bafuna uthando njengendlela yokuxazulula izingxabano, izinkinga, njengempendulo yemibono efihlakeleyo, ukhohlwe ukuthi uthando lumthwalo womunye umuntu kanye nezenzo zabo. Uthando lusekelo nokuqonda okufanayo, hhayi isixazululo sobunzima bomlingani oyedwa komunye.
Ukuze sibe njengeqhawe lethu
Sifunda ngothando ezincwadini, ubukela amafilimu amaningi. Cishe kukhona isihloko sothando, lapho sine hero noma intandokazi. Isifiso sokufana nesifiso sakho, ukuthanda ngendlela enhle njengencwadi, sinikeza isifiso sethu sothando. Sifuna ukubandakanyeka kokuthile okuhle futhi "okuphakeme", sifuna ukuqaphela ukucabanga kwethu. Ukwaziswa ukuthi i-nasokruzhaet, kusithinta ngendlela enkulu noma encane, ukumelela kwamafomu nokufaka. Abalingiswa befilimu noma izincwadi kithi ngokuvamile kuvumelana nempilo yethu. Sifuna ukufaka le fantasy, ukudlulisela kithi. Lezi zinsuku zisisiza ukuba sizethembe futhi siziqiniseke. Lesi sifiso singabonakalisa ukuthi sidinga ukuziqaphela, sifuna ukuthola thina futhi sibonise amakhono.
Ezingqondweni zethu sizibheka njengabadlali abakhulu futhi ngesikhathi esifanayo sifisa uthando. Nakuba eqinisweni, ayilungele yona, ngoba konke ukunakwa kubhalwa isithombe, hhayi inqubo. I-Lyubovtsie isebenza njengesizinda, isizathu, ukusiza, ukungasisho ngomlingani, okudingekayo kuphela kulolu script. Kulesi simo, lo muntu uthandwa ngesithombe se "hero hero" noma ngokuphambene naso, isifiso sokuthandwa, ukusungulwa. Kungabonisa ngokuziphendulela.
Uthando, kuyini
Phakathi kwazo zonke izizathu ezishiwo ngenhla, kufanelekile ukukhuluma into esemqoka - ukusesha uthando. Kukhona isifundo sezenhlalakahle esithakazelisayo, esibonisa ukuhlala kwezidingo ezinhlotsheni ezahlukene. Lolu cwaningo luzokwenza ukuphila komuntu kube yisikhathi esibucayi lapho izibaluleka ezibaluleke kakhulu kule nkathi zikhethwa khona, isibonelo, isizungu - esihlonzwe yiqembu, ukulalela - ukuzikhethela, ukuzodwa noma ukuthola umlingani. Ukucwaninga okuningi nokuhlola kuchaza lo muntu kubaluleke kakhulu ukuthanda, hhayi ukuba yedwa, ukuthola ukusekela kubangani noma "isigamu" sakhe. Ezinye izazi zefilosofi zithi ngamunye wethu uyingxenye, futhi ukuze sibe "okuphelele" sidinga isigamu sesibili. Ingabe kunjalo? Wonke umuntu othandayo angaphendula lo mbuzo ngokuqinisekile.
Uthando lusisiza ukuba sicabange ngokuphila kwethu, ukushintsha, ukuyeka imikhuba emibi ngenxa yomuntu othandekayo, ukuzithoba phansi nokuthethelela izono, ngezinye izikhathi ngisho nokuphambene nezimiso zethu nokuqhosha ukuzithokozisa. Uthando lufundisa ukukhathalela umakhelwane wakho, usifundise ububele kanye nokukwazi ukuqonda umqondo womunye umuntu. Uthando lungakusiza ukuthi uzithole futhi uzibonele wena, lusekela futhi lokho esikufunayo sonke kuyinjabulo.