Izinja zitholakala edolobheni yonke indawo, futhi abaningi bayesaba. Ngokuvamile kunengqondo. Kodwa kwenzeka ukuthi ingane iyethusa ngisho ne-chihuahua encane. Lokhu kuyi-phobia. Ungaba kanjani abazali? Okufanele ukwenze uma ingane isaba izinja - bheka impendulo ngezansi.
Kunemibono ehlukene yemvelaphi yokuzikhukhumeza. Abanye abakwa-psychoanalyst bathi lokhu kwesaba kwenzeka ngisho nangesikhathi sokuzalwa. Ngaphezu kwalokho, lokhu kwesaba kunezimpande zokuziphendukela kwemvelo - inkumbulo yama-tiger okugcoba ama-saber aqinile emajukeni ethu. Kodwa ngokuvamile abantu baqala ukwesaba izinja ngoba bamethusa ebuntwaneni.
Ingane nenja
Ukwesaba okunamandla kungalungiswa futhi kuguquke kube yi-neurosis, uma kwenzeka isenzakalo esesabekayo empilweni yengane engaphansi kweminyaka eyisikhombisa. Kule minyaka yobudala, ngezinye izikhathi kwanele ukubona inja enkulu kakhulu, isibonelo inja noma i-Doberman, ukuze wesabe. Ngisho nokukhala okukhulu kwezingane kungaba yingozi, singasho ukuthi kukhona, ngeshwa, izinja ezingamthandi abantu futhi zizilume ngaphandle kokucasula.
Umsila nezindlebe akuzona imidlalo
Kodwa into eyodwa iyethusa, futhi ukulungisa ukwesaba phambi kwezinja kuhluke ngokuphelele. Izinja azithandi ukudonsa ngemuva kwezindlebe nemisindo. Futhi bayazonda lapho bethatha ithambo labo abathandayo. Kulezi zimo, bangaluma nakakhulu umhlukumezi. Abantu abadala kufanele bachaze ingane ukuthi kubalulekile ukugcina imingcele yokuxhumana nesilwane.
Ngokuvamile abazali bangenza okuningi ukuvimbela ingane ekwesabeni izinja. Kusukela usemncane, udinga ukukhombisa ezinye izithombe nama-movie enezinja ezinhle nezinhle, udale izindabakwane, lapho izinja ezinhle zisebenza khona. Okokugcina, udinga ukuletha kancane kancane ingane yakho ezinja, ekuqaleni - enhle futhi enomusa. Kodwa okubaluleke kakhulu, ngesikhathi sezingxabano ingane nenja ayilwi nama-hysterics. Ukuziphatha okwanele kwabazali ngokuvamile okubangela ukuba izingane zilungise ukwesaba.
Ukuphelelwa amandla emehlweni enja
Bad, lapho ebona inja ingane iwela esabeni. Kodwa nakakhulu nakakhulu, uma lesi simo, phansi kokuphelelwa amandla, siza ngomcabango owodwa mayelana nenja noma ukubukeka kwesithombe sayo. Amazwe anjalo avame ukuphakama kubantu abanokukhathazeka kumlingisi wokugcina impahla futhi ahlotshaniswa nezimo ezenzeka ezincane. Isibonelo, ingane edlala ebhokisini le-sandbox, yagoqa futhi yacindezela phansi umhlabathi we-pit terrier. Emva kwalesi sigameko esikhulu, ingane yaqala ukwesaba: ekuqaleni wayeyesaba izinja ezinkulu nje kuphela, futhi lokhu kwesaba kwasakazeka kuzo zonke izinja.
Ukwelashwa ...
Yini okufanele uyenze uma ukwesaba ingane izinja kumvimbela ukuba aphile futhi athuthuke ngokuthula? I-Phobias ijwayele ukuphathwa ngendlela edala futhi efakazelwe yokungahlehlisi okuhlelekile. Endaweni enokuthula, ingane ichazwa kuqala ukuthi akudingeki ukwesabe izinja. Noma kunjalo, ngokuvamile uyazi yena ngokwakhe. Khona-ke ulethwa esimweni sokuphumula futhi ubonisa izithombe zenja. Odokotela baqinisekisa ukuthi akanayo ukwesaba ngesikhathi esisodwa. Lapho ingane isetshenziselwa lesi sithombe, uvumelekile ukuba ahloniphe izithombe ezicacile nezibalabala zezinja ezinezimvu ezivulekile. Bese ubonisa ama-movie nezinja. Bese behola izinja ezincane ezinhle kakhulu ehhovisi, bese zibavumela ngokucophelela, kodwa namanje umuntu uqala ukuzithumba. Okokugcina, ukuze ekugcineni uphulukiswe, isiguli sisondelene kakhulu nenja enkulu yomusa owesabekayo; kulo mzuzu ekugcineni uyakhohlwa mayelana nesibindi sakhe; ukwesaba kwafa. Lokhu ukwelashwa ngokuvamile kuthatha amasonto amabili kuya kwamathathu.
I-Phobias ibuye iphathwe nge-hypnosis, iphoqelela isiguli esimweni somzimba ukuthi sibuyele esimweni sengqondo sokuthi senze ukwesaba okukhulu. Umuntu udlala lo mlando futhi ngakho-ke inkumbulo yasebusuku ilahlekelwa ukubaluleka kwayo kwangaphambili. Ukuphathwa okufanayo kanye nokugwedla okubangelwa ukwesaba izinja.
I-Neurosis njengoba kunjalo
Ezimweni ezikude kakhulu kubalulekile ukuphatha ukwesaba okuqondile, kodwa neurosis ngokwayo. Uma kungenjalo, umuntu ophulukile ukwesaba omunye noma omunye uzoqala ukwesaba lapho ebona okuthile noma omunye umuntu. Ukuphulukisa izinkinga, izazi zisebenzisa amasu akhethekile. Ungacabangi ukuthi kufanelekile ingane ukuthi ichaze ukuthi labo abamesabayo - izidalwa ezingenabungozi nezihle, waphulukisa ngokushesha. Lokhu akukwenzeki, ngoba ukwesaba akusekho engqondweni, kodwa ezindaweni ezijulile ezingenalwazi, futhi ungavumeli izinkolelo ezingenangqondo.