Okokuqala, ngokushesha nje lapho umntwana ekhala, zama ukunquma uhlobo lokukhala. Kuncike ezidingo zomntwana futhi kuhluka ngokucacile ngisho nasezinsukwini zokuqala zokuphila. Ingane ikhula, futhi ukuthola ukuthi imbangela yokukhala ilula futhi kulula. Kungenzeka ukuthi ushintsho lwe-tonal sound, noma abazali babe nolwazi oluningi. Lalela ingane futhi uzame ukumnika ncamashi lokho akucelayo. Ukukhathazeka ngenxa ye-diaper engcolile ayincibiliki ubisi, futhi ufulawa ekuqongeni kwegesi ngeke kudlule uma ingane ithola isifuba.
Ngokuvamile, zonke izintambo zomntwana zibhalelwe indlala. Futhi bayamondla, bamondle. Kungenzeka ukuthi uvele ephule isimiso. Mhlawumbe ingane isilele kakade, futhi uyayiphinde uyikhumbuze? Noma wavuka ngesikhathi esingenakusihlwa, ekhathele ukudlala, walahlekelwa ithoyizi yakhe, wayigcoba izingubo zakhe, wamyisa kakhulu ezandleni zakhe, kwase kuyisikhathi sezinkathi zokuhlwa. Lokhu akulona uhlu oluphelele lwezizathu eziholela ekulileni. Ungabe ubisi ubisi ngokushesha.
Ngezinye izikhathi uzama ukuqonda imbangela yezinyembezi zezingane ... futhi umuntu wakho omncane usuqedile phansi ngalesi sikhathi. Mhlawumbe kufanele umshiye wedwa? Uma egcwele, eyomile futhi efuna ukulala, yibeke kalula futhi ungakhathazeki. Uzolala. Kodwa ukulimaza ingane ezimweni ezinjalo akufanelekile, kungani ukuhlakulela imikhuba emibi?
Qaphela ukuthi ingane yakho ikhala isikhathi eside kangakanani. Uthole umqondo wokuthi ukukhala kwahlala isikhathi eside? Futhi ngehora kwakuyimaminithi angu-5-10 kuphela.
Ngezinye izikhathi ingane idinga ukuzwa izandla zomama onakekelayo. Hug ingane, mambathe kuye, ukhulume ngomusa naye.
Kunoma yikuphi, zama ukuqonda lokho ingane enikhathazekile ngakho bese umduduza ngokwezimo, hhayi ngenxa yokuthi ukhathele ukumemeza kwakhe.
Siphakamisa ukuthi ucabangele ezinye izindlela ezisiza ukuzolalisa ingane ekhalayo. Ungasebenzisa kokubili izindlela kanye nezindlela ezimbalwa ngesikhathi esisodwa, uzihlanganise. Qaphela ngokucophelela ukusabela kwengane yakho. Ekugcineni, uzofunda ukuqaphela ulwazi azama ukukudlulisela ngezinyembezi zakhe. Futhi uzothola izindlela ezingcono kakhulu zokuzolalisa ingane esimweni ngasinye.
Ngezinye izikhathi ingane ingamangazwa kahle amanga endaweni efanayo, noma ingaphumelelanga - ukuzola ukukhala kuyosiza isimo esisha. Udinga ukuthatha ingane ezandleni zakho bese uyayishintsha kahle, ngenkathi usekela ikhanda ngezintende zezandla zakho. Uma iminyaka ivumela, ungafaka ingane emadolweni bese umcindezela kuye. Enye indlela ukuthatha ingane ezandleni zakhe bese iphakamisa ezingeni lamahlombe akhe, bese uya endaweni yokuqala. Futhi njalo izikhathi eziningana. Noma vele uyithathe bese uyigwedeza kusukela kolunye uhlangothi.
Ukucindezela ukukhala okulandelayo kuzosiza nokunyakaza kwesigqi. Hamba uzungeze ikamelo, uthathe ingane ezandleni zakhe. Yiphakamise kusukela phezulu kuya phansi futhi ngokuphambene. Hlala naye esihlalweni sokugunda kanye nedwala okwesikhashana. Ungase futhi ingane i-pokruzhit.
Ngezinye izikhathi ingane ayinayo ukushisa okwanele, ngomqondo wangempela wezwi. Vala ingane ngengubo efudumele. Ungacindezela wena bese ushisa ngomzimba wakho. Futhi ungakwazi ngaphambi kokuba ulale embhedeni, ukufudumala umbhede wakhe nomfudumala.
Ngezinye izikhathi, imisindo ethile ingasiza ukuzolalisa ingane. Ngezwi elizolile nelithulile, tshela amagama ambalwa. Hlabela i-lullaby noma ingoma ingane yakho ayithandayo. Awukwazi ukuzihlabelela - vula umculo. Vumela umculo ube nokuzola, okuyingqayizivele, i-jazz elula noma umculo we-pop, futhi ukurekhoda ngemisindo yamanzi kuzokwenza. Idwala elikhulu kuphela alivuli, kungenjalo ukukhathazeka kwengane kuzokwanda kuphela.
Ngezinye izikhathi kwanele ukuthinta ingane ukuyeka ukukhala. Ungenza ingane ibuyiselwe emuva. Ukufakela isilwane kanye nokunakekela ingane. Mxuse (izingane ziyathanda uma ziwanga). Beka ingane ngemuva bese uphaqa isisu sakhe nge-clockwise.