Abantu abaningi, ngaphandle kokuqaphela, banika izinkanuko zabo izikhathi eziningi ngosuku. Isibonelo, sivamise ukushaya umama, ubaba esesidleni, mfowethu, udadewethu, thumela izinkanuko kubangani, bange isilwane esithandekayo emphuleni noma ngisho nathi ngokweqile esibukweni. Kodwa-ke, konke lokhu akunakulinganiswa nalabo esasivame ukubiza ngokuthi "abadala" futhi okubhekiswe kumuntu othandekayo. Ngemuva kwalokho, bobabili umfana nentombazane, balindana omunye nomunye uthando, uthando, kanye nokuhlangana okuthakazelisayo kwezindebe zibe yingoma okuthiwa kiss. Kodwa bambalwa kakhulu abantu abazi okungenani ngalokho abakushoyo ngokuphathelene nokusebenza kwengqondo.
Okuqukethwe
Amaqiniso anesifiso mayelana nokumanga Amangakwane mayelana nokumanga Okushoyo kokubambaNgakho, sonke sikhumbula ukumanga kwethu kokuqala. Abaningi bethu bakhumbule ngalokhu okujabulisayo nangenhlanhla ngalesi senzakalo. Kodwa manje ake sizame ukukhumbula ukuthi umfana ofanayo naye wamanga kanjani wanikela lokhu. Wayehlobo luni lomuntu emva kwakhe konke: okuthakazelisayo, okwethenda noma ohlukumezayo futhi ovusa kakhulu? Akekho owayengacabanga ukuthi umsuka we-psychology uthinte ngisho nalesi sibonelo esiseduze. Ngakho-ke, ngokusho kwengqondo kwengqondo, indlela yokumanga umfana inganquma umhlaba wakhe wangaphakathi.
Amaqiniso anesifiso mayelana nokumanga
UPlato izikhathi ezingaphezu kweyodwa wabhala imibhalo yakhe ngesihloko salokho okwenza abantu ngesikhathi sokumangazela okukhulu. Wayeze angene nethimba lakhe siqu lomsuka we-kiss ngokwayo. Kulo mbono kaPlato kuthiwa ekuqaleni umuntu wayefana nebhola evamile, eyayinezingalo ezimbili, imilenze kanye nenani elifanayo lamakhanda ahlukaniswe abe wesifazane nowesilisa. Ngokwemvelo yayo, lesi sidalwa esimise ibhola sahlukaniswa nokuzethemba okukhulu nokuziqhenya. Kungenxa yalesi sizathu ukuthi ibhola le nqola yavutha kakhulu unkulunkulu wezulu, ukuduma nokukhanyisa, okwakukhona ngaleso sikhathi izwe lonke futhi ogama lakhe linguZeyusi. Lapha uZeyus wanquma ukujezisa lesi sidalwa futhi wahlukanisa waba ngamashumi amahlanu wesilisa nabesilisa. Ngakho, ubahlukanise. Futhi, ngokumangalisa nje, ukumanga kuphela kungaxhuma lezi zingxenye ezimbili zomqalo wesilisa nowesifazane zibe yinye. Ngakho, ngokubona kukaPluto, futhi lo msebenzi omuhle wazalwa.
Namuhla, ngokusho kwezibalo, iningi lamantombazane namantombazane baqala ukumangala eneminyaka eyishumi nesishiyagalolunye neshumi nane. Okumangalisa ukuthi, amaJalimane abhekwa njengabangane abathandekayo kakhulu emhlabeni wonke. Bangakwazi ukumanga ngosuku oluphindwe kabili noma kathathu, bethana ngomhlathi.
Izinkolelo mayelana nokumanga
Kungokumangazela ukuthi kunezinkolelo eziningi, ezinye zazo esinqume ukukutshela. Ngendlela, akuzona zonke lezi zinkolelo ezitholile ukuqinisekiswa noma ukuchithwa kwazo. Ngakho-ke, ngokwesibonelo, ososayensi base-US baphonse phambili umbono wabo, othi labo bantu abavame ukubanga, bahlala isikhathi eside kunaminyaka emihlanu kunomuntu ophika lo msebenzi omuhle. Lokhu kubangelwa ukuthi ngesikhathi sokumanga umzimba womuntu kuveza inqwaba yama-neuropeptides okuthiwa, ekwazi ukubhubhisa amabhaktheriya ahlukahlukene kanye nama-microbes. Ngakho-ke ngesikhathi sokuzivikela komuntu ongalungile kuqinisa.
Enye inkolelo ithi kiss ingashisa inombolo ehloniphekile yamakhilogremu emzimbeni womuntu. Lokhu kungenxa yokuthi ngesikhathi sokumangazela okuthandwayo mayelana nemisipha engamashumi amathathu nane, kubhidliza cishe amakholori ayishumi nambili futhi kungamaminithi amathathu nje okumanga.
Ngaphezu kwezinzuzo zokubanga, uyakhalaza ngengozi yakhe. Ngakho, ngokwesibonelo, kuvame ukukholelwa ukuthi lapho abantu beqabana bethintana nenani elikhulu lama-microbes ahlukene. Kodwa abantu abaningi bangathuli ngokuthi phakathi nale nqubo umuntu uthola ama-0, 7, ama-milligram ama-protein, ama-0, ama-milligram amafutha, ama-0, ama-milligram ama-salts, ama-0, 16 ama-miligri yemfihlo kanye namama-milligram angu-60 wamanzi. Kodwa akukho lutho olungangeze mayelana nokutheleleka lapha. Ngendlela, kubalulekile ukuphawula nokuthi i-human saliva iqukethe ama-enzyme akhethekile. Bakwazi ukulwa nama-microbes ahlukahlukene. Ngaphezu kwalokho, le sali iqukethe okuthiwa, i-androsterone, eyabangela ukuvuswa kocansi komuntu.
Okushoyo kokuthanga
Uma ubanga ngokulandelayo ngothandekayo wakho, vumela ukubaluleka kwendlela akwenza ngayo. Nazi ezinye izibonelo zokubanga, okuchazwa kusukela endaweni yokubuka kwengqondo.
Ubusuku obunzima. Umfana uzama njengokungathi ngesiphepho ukuthatha izindebe zakho, ukumba ngaphakathi kubo nokukhahlela ngothando. Ukumanga okunjalo kufana nokuhlaselwa okuthakazelisayo. Ukubaluleka kwakhe ekucwaningweni kwengqondo, njengoba odokotela bethi, yilokho onjalo ongaboni ikusasa eliqhakazile, futhi ukuthanda kwakhe kuyoba mfushane kakhulu.
Ubusuku obomile. Ubusana bomsana obomile kakhulu futhi bevinjelwe. Izindebe zakhe zisesimweni sokuzola, futhi kukhona umuzwa wokuthi ufuna ukukuanga, kodwa akenzi. la madoda abhekwa njengabangathembeki nabangalungile bokuphila. Yiqiniso, kunesidingo esisodwa, la madoda ahluke ngokuphelele kulolu hlobo njengokuthandana.
U-kiss obizwa nge-brace. Ngesikhathi sokumanga okunjalo umfana uzama ukukhuphukela kuwe wonke umzimba wakhe. Uhlala ehlangana nawe futhi uzama ukukukhombisa ngemisebenzi yakhe ukuthi ufuna ukuzwa kanjani. Lowo omela ubulili obunamandla uhlukile kwabanye ngokuthi uzoba ngumyeni othembekile futhi omuhle kakhulu.
A kiss ebizwa ngokuthi "izibhamu". Lolu hlobo lokumanga luhilela yonke imvula yokuqabana okuncane, futhi ngesikhathi sokubamba okuyinhloko ezindebeni umuntu angancelisa futhi ancelise. Ngezinye izikhathi kungase kube nomuzwa wokuthi umfana ukhetha inqubo entsha ngaso sonke isikhathi sokumanga. Ngokwezibalo zengqondo, amadoda anjalo abathandi abahle kakhulu namadoda angathembeki kakhulu.