Uphupha ukuthini uma uncelisa?
- Incazelo evamile kakhulu ukubonakala komuntu ozoshintsha impilo yakho kuze kube phakade.
- Owesifazane, iphupho elinjalo liwuphawu oluhle kakhulu. Ikakhulukazi uma ephupha ingane yakhe ephusheni. Ithembisa izinguquko ezinhle ekuphileni kanye namathuba amaningi okufinyelela okufunayo.
- Futhi, umbono obunjalo obusuku buhunyushwa njengesibonakaliso somshado ozayo ojabulisayo kanye nenzalo enempilo enamandla.
- Ukuze ubone ukuthi indoda idla isifuba sakho, hhayi nje ubuthongo obungavamile, kodwa hhayi obuhle kakhulu. Eqinisweni, lo muntu uzofuna ukuthatha impahla yakho, futhi abanye bayokuphikisa ngokuziphatha okubi.
- Kulabo besifazane abaye bahlushwa isifo isikhathi eside, ukubona inqubo yokondla umntwana kusho ukuthi empilweni yangempela bayobuya ngokushesha.
- UMiller ukholelwa ukuthi ukondla ingane noma ukubukela le nqubo kusuka eceleni kuyisignali enhle kakhulu. Ulindele iqembu lenhlanhla esikhathini esizayo esiseduze futhi zonke izimo zizokusiza ukuthi uqaphele lokho okuhlelile.
- Ukukhulelwa, uma ubona ukubeletha, kungathembela ekuzalweni okusheshayo nokungenabuhlungu.
- Ukubona isifuba sakho esingcolile sithembisa ukubukeka komphikisana nobuhlobo obunzima nengxenye yakho yesibili.
- Uma ubengadla ingane yomunye umuntu, khona-ke empilweni yangempela uzothola ubunzima nokungaqiniseki kwabantu owazama ukusiza kusuka enhliziyweni ehlanzekile.
- Ukondla umntwana endaweni yomphakathi kuyisixwayiso kowesifazane. Kufanele aqaphele kakhulu ezitatimendeni zakhe, ukuze izimfihlakalo eziyimfihlo zingaziwa wonke umuntu ozungezile.
Indlela yokuphatha iphupho ngobisi lwebele?
Ngokuvamile, lokhu kusho ukuzama ukuzinza namaphupho omama. Ezimweni eziningi, ukulala ubisi lomama kuyisibonakaliso esihle, esibonisa isikhathi esihle.
- Bheka eduze ukuthi ubisi bubukeka bunjani. Uma kuyiphunga elisha futhi elimnandi, lo mphupho kufanele alinde imicimbi ejabulisayo nempumelelo.
- Umkhiqizo omuncu futhi ongabonakali uthembisa ukuxabana okuncane nezinkinga eziningi.
- Ngemuva kokubona eziningi zesifuba ephusheni - ekuthuthukiseni okukhulu kwezinto ezibonakalayo. Lokhu kusho ukuthi lo mphupho ngeke athole inzuzo enkulu yesikhathi esisodwa, kodwa uzothola ithuba lokuthola imali eningi.
- Owesifazane ophushukile ephusheni, angaqiniseka ukuthi ulindele inqwaba nokuchuma empeleni. Akudingeki neze angqongqoze emnyango wakhe, futhi ubuhlobo nomngane womshado buzovumelana.
- Ukuze ubone ukuthi ubisi bugeleza yini kusuka esifubeni kuyinjabulo yangempela kumphuphi. Eqinisweni uzokwazi ukuziqhenya ngempilo enomthelela kanye neminyaka ende yenhlalakahle ngaphandle kokuhlupheka.
- Ukuphuza ubisi lomama ephusheni kufanele kuhunyushwe kuye ngokuthi ukunambitheka komkhiqizo. Uma uthanda, kufanele ulinde uchungechunge lwezehlakalo ezijabulisayo. Uma unesifiso sokuqala iphrojekthi entsha, manje sekuyisikhathi sokwenza, njengoba uzoba nenhlanhla futhi izimo zizokhula ngendlela enhle kakhulu.