Abesilisa nabesifazane bafana ngezindlela eziningi kepha nokho, ukuze baphendule umbuzo obhekene nawo, kubalulekile ukucabangela ukungezwani kwabo. Ukuhlukana kubangelwa izizathu ezahlukene: eziphilayo, ingqondo, kanye nezenhlalakahle.
Idivaysi ehlukile yezocansi idala ukuhluka kobulili obuhlukile. Owesifazane uhlale e-sexy, indoda kuphela ngezinye izikhathi. Indoda ilawula umzimba wakhe wobulili, owesifazane, ngokuphambene nalokho, usemandleni akhe. Endalweni ephilayo, owesilisa ngokuqondene nesifazane uyisixuku esicasulayo, esebenzayo. Insikazi iyinto yokuhlasela.
Njengoba umuntu ehlanganisa izinto eziphilayo kanye nezenhlalakahle ngendlela efanayo, owesilisa ocansini ujwayele ukuhlaselwa, futhi owesifazane cishe uyovuna. Umehluko ekukhuleni nasekusikeni kwemisipha akuhlukanisi nje amadoda nabesifazane ebulili obuqinile futhi obuthakathaka, kodwa futhi kubangele ukuphikisa okuningi: umsebenzi - ukungabi namandla, amandla - ukuhanjiswa, logic - intuition, oda - chaos, njll. Isizinda esihlukile se-hormonal siqinisa kuphela umehluko phakathi kobulili. Okuqukethwe okuphezulu kwe-testosterone kwenza indoda ibe nobudlova. Yingakho abesifazane besenza amacala ambalwa kunamadoda. Futhi, phakathi kwezinto eziphilayo zokuhlukahluka, kufanele kukhulunywe ngakho ngokuxhomekeka komzimba wesifazane kanye nesimo sengqondo emjikelezweni wokuya esikhathini.
Ukuba khona kokuhlukana kwengqondo phakathi kwamadoda nabesifazane akungabazeki. Iningi lezifundo ezenzelwe imiphumela lapho iziphetho ezilandelayo zingathathwa. Abesifazane bahle kakhulu ngamakhono okukhuluma, amadoda anenzuzo ekuboneni-indawo. Abesifazane banomzwelo nangokwengeziwe. Indoda iphila ngokucophelela, owesifazane - engazi lutho, uthola ulwazi lwakhe kumuntu.
Umcabango wesifazane ushukela phezulu, indoda isetshenziselwa ukungena ngaphakathi kwezinto ezibalulekile. Amantombazane nabesifazane bangcono ekusebenzelaneni nemisebenzi yesikhashana. Bajwayele ukungazithembi futhi bahlukumezeke, banesilinganiso esincane sokuzihlonipha. Amadoda anamakhono aphezulu wezinbalo, ashukunyiswa kakhulu imvelo. Abesifazane banezibalo eziningi ezithuthukisiwe, namadoda - umbono wokubuka (owesifazane uthanda izindlebe, indoda - amehlo). Ngendlela, amadoda nabesifazane bahluke ngokuhlukile ukubonakala komuntu: indoda "ibona" ngobuqotho, nowesifazane - ngokuningiliziwe. Futhi uzama ukumqinisekisa ukuthi umuntu uhle, uma ethi, akayithandi ikhala noma izinwele zakhe.
Umuntu nomphakathi abahlukana. Kuphela emphakathini kwakha ukukhathazeka. Ukuzibandakanya okuyisisekelo komuntu kwenzeka emndenini, emvelo, esikoleni. Futhi hhayi indima encane edlalwa yabezindaba. Ingane "izama" indima yakhe yobulili, futhi ulimi, imfundo, isiko, inkolo, inkolo iyayifaka kuphela. Futhi kule nkinga yezinkinga ziningi: ukuhlukunyezwa ngokobulili, ukwehlukaniswa kwemisebenzi ngobulili emisebenzini yabesifazane nabesilisa, ukubandlululwa ...
Ngakho-ke, umbuzo wokuthi kungani kunzima indoda ukuqonda izinkinga zabesifazane abakwazi ukumangala. Akuwona wonke owesifazane ozoqonda futhi ngamadoda. Amadoda awaqondi imvelo yabesifazane, abesifazane abaqondi abantu. Ukuzitholela ngokwakho nokwenyuka kwakho akunakwenzeka, futhi akukho sidingo. Uhlobo lomuntu wesifazane luvame ukuthi luvame ukuza nezinkinga ngokwakhe. Izinkinga zabesifazane - "Yini okufanele ugqoke?", "Nginamafutha," "Akangithandi," njll - kubangele ukumomotheka kwamadoda kuphela. Ngaphandle kokuthi "izinkinga" ezinjalo impilo yobuningi obuhle ingaba isithukuthezi esingenakubekezelela.
Ngokungangabazeki, izinkinga zangempela, okungukuthi, izinkinga ebuhlotsheni, uma indoda nowesifazane behlukana, kubalulekile ukunquma, hhayi ukuqoqa. Yenza lokhu, awudingi "kusuka enkanteni yakho yebell," kodwa ucabangela uhlobo lobulili obuhlukile. Uma kukhona ukungavumelani okuningi, ukuphinde ufundisane akusizi ngalutho, kufana nokusho kumuntu: "Yiba owesifazane!" Noma-kumuntu wesifazane: "Yiba ngumuntu!"
Uma unenkinga eminingi, ungase ungabi nolwazi olwanele kwezokwelapha kwengqondo noma ubuciko bokuhlala ndawonye. Kulesi simo, izinkulumo ezikhethekile nezinkulumo eziphathelene nobuhlobo phakathi kwamadoda nabesifazane ziyasiza kakhulu. Kubudlelwane, kuvela, futhi kunamalungelo kanye nemithwalo yemfanelo yawo wonke amaqembu. Ukuvakashela izifundo ezinjalo ndawonye, ungafinyelela cishe imiphumela esheshayo. Uma umlingani wakho ephikisana naye, qala ukushintsha wena. Ungasiza futhi izincwadi ezikhethekile, okusho ukuthi ngokuvamile kufana nokufundisa owesifazane ukuba abe owesifazane, futhi indoda ibe nesibindi.
Inkinga akumele iphoqelelwe ngokungafani, ukuze ukwazi ukuthola ukufana okuningi namaphuzu okuxhumana ngangokunokwenzeka. Abesilisa nabesifazane bahlukile, kodwa abahambisani nomunye nomunye, bayaphakanyelana kuzo zonke izinto.