Lokhu kungathathwa ngesimo sethu sengqondo ngokuqondene nesifiso somfazi sokuzikhethela empilweni, ukukhetha isimo sakhe senhlalakahle.
Ngakho-ke, ungubani, lona wesifazane waseRussia wanamuhla? Iqine kangakanani indima yabesifazane kanye nomama eRussia yanamuhla?
Nazi ezinye zezindlela ezijwayelekile kakhulu eziphathelene nabesifazane: kufanele ahlale ekhaya nezingane bese epheka isobho; owesifazane oyinhloko ayinalo amakhono omholi; ukuhlala njalo emsebenzini akufaka isandla ekwakhiweni kwezingane, ukugcina indlu ihlanzekile; ezombusazwe akuyona ibhizinisi lomfazi.
Indima yabesifazane emphakathini ihlolwe yizici ezimbili: kuqala, yizibalo ezisemthethweni. Okwesibili, lena yinkomba yokuhlola umphakathi.
Ngokwezibalo zabantu base-2002, inani labesifazane baseRussia ngamaphesenti angu-53.5%. Phakathi kwabo, u-63% usebenza abesifazane, futhi kuphela ama-49% wabesilisa abasebenza. Yini le mibono esinika yona? Abesifazane abasebenza ngemfundo ephakeme abasebenza emisebenzini yabo banamathuba amabili okuhlala bengenabantwana njengabesifazane abazinikezele ekuhlelweni kwekhaya. Ngokwezibalo zesibalo, isilinganiso seminyaka yokuzalwa kwezibulo kanye "nabasebenzi" sekuyiminyaka engama-29, kanti abesifazane - abesifazana - iminyaka engu-24.
Kuyoba okuthakazelisayo ukuphawula ukuthi eRussia inani labesifazane abanezinga, futhi lokhu kungukuthi othisha, ososayensi, badlula kakhulu izibalo zomhlaba.
Futhi lokhu akuwona umkhawulo. Njengoba bethi, akukho mkhawulo ekupheleleni!
Ngokwesinqumo sikaMengameli weRussia Federation No. 337 ka-04.03.1993 "Ngokubaluleke Kwenqubomgomo Yombuso Yabesifazane," kuyadingeka ukuqinisekisa ukuthi iqhaza langempela labesifazane emisebenzini yomphakathi nasemisebenzini yeziphathimandla zomphakathi phansi. Ukuze kusetshenziswe lesi simiso ngokuzikhandla, amakomidi kanye namakhomishana wokuvikela abesifazane, abantwana kanye nomama wonke awakhiwa kuwo wonke amazinga kahulumeni eRussia, kuhlanganise namazinga wendawo. Ngo-1997, iKhomishini Yokuthuthukiswa Kwabesifazane yasungulwa. Kodwa-ke, ngeshwa, ngo-2004 kwaphela ukuba khona. Kodwa-ke, abesifazane baseRussia bathole futhi bawuthola ithuba lokuzibandakanya ngokugcwele empilweni yezombusazwe yezwe futhi basebenze emzimbeni womphakathi ngokuhambisana namadoda.
Kukhona uhlu lonke lwezenzo ezijwayelekile zokuziphatha zase-Russian Federation ezilawula amalungelo abesifazane eRussia yanamuhla: Uhlelo lukaZwelonke lwezenzo zokuthuthukiswa kwabesifazane nokuthuthukiswa komsebenzi wabo emphakathini, olwamukelwe yiSivumelwano No. 1032 kaHulumeni waseRussia Federation ka-Agasti 29, 1996; Umqondo wokuthuthukiswa kwabesifazane eRussian Federation, evunyelwe yiHulumeni waseRussia Federation ka-8 Januwari 1996 No. 6; Umthetho we-Federal of 15.11.1997 "Ngezenzo zesimo somphakathi"; Umqondo wokwenza umthetho wokuqinisekisa amalungelo alinganayo namathuba afanayo amadoda nabesifazane, avunyelwe ngo-1997; Isihlinzeko esilinganiselwe esikhungweni esibucayi sokusiza abesifazane, eshicilelwe njengesithasiselo esinqumweni sikaMnyango Wezabasebenzi Nokuthuthukiswa Komphakathi we-Russian Federation ka-10 Julayi 1997 No. 40.
Esimweni sobunina eRussia yanamuhla, kubalulekile ukugcizelela ukuthi ngaphambilini, ngesikhathi Soviet Union, indima yomama kamama ngaleso sikhathi yayinkulu kakhulu. Futhi nakuba izihloko zomama azizange zinikezwe ngaleso sikhathi, igunya lakhe lisekelwa umsebenzi okhuthele osebenzayo.
Owesifazane nowomama eRussia yanamuhla akuyona nje umqondo wemiphakathi yezenhlalakahle, kuyinkinga yamasiko engaxhunyiwe ngokungahambisani nomqondo wokuthi "isiko", ukucwaninga nokuthi ukucabangela kwakhe ngokuziqhenya komuntu wesifazane wekhulu lama-XXI kulesi sikhathi kuyinkinga yomphakathi esheshayo.
Kulesi sigaba sokuthuthukiswa kwemvelo yomndeni waseRashiya yanamuhla, ukubonakala kwezingane, njengoba kuphawuliwe ekuqaleni, kuwela esikhathini esizayo, ngokuvamile abesifazane bathanda "ikhishi" lomsebenzi.
Ekuziqhenyeleni kwabesifazane kuze kube yimanje, kunezintambo ezimbili eziyinhloko. Omunye wabo umsebenzi womphakathi osebenzayo. Futhi omunye, njengoba cishe usuqagele kakade, yilungiselelo nokugcina ikhaya lomkhaya, ukuzalwa nokukhuliswa kwezingane. Wonke owesifazane uthola izindlela zakhe zokuziqhenya empilweni yakhe.
Umbuzo onzima uwukuthi - yini eyinkimbinkimbi kakhudlwana: ukwakha umsebenzi noma ukuba umama omuhle, umkami oyisibonelo? Ukuzalwa kwezingane akubonakali kunzima kakhulu kunabesifazane abaningi namuhla. Ababheki izindlela ezilula.
Kodwa, kunjalo, kukhona labo abakulungele ukuyeka yonke imisebenzi, inzuzo, e-altare lomndeni injabulo nokuchuma. Njengoba bethi "uKhesari KaKesari". Ekugcineni, ukuphila komkhaya kwabazali bakhe kudlala indima ebalulekile ekukhuliseni intombazane encane. Ngemuva kokusencane, abesifazane abasha bakha imibono nemibono mayelana nomndeni wabo wesikhathi esizayo, njengoba bacabanga.
Futhi kuthiwani uma indawo yasendlini yentombazane encane ishiya okuningi okufanele ifakwe? Ubani ozomsiza ngokukhetha? Ngokuvamile, lezi zinsizwa zakha isithombe esibi somqondo wokuthi "umndeni" unjalo, zivame ukuba nezimo zokuziphatha okuphambene nalesi sisekelo. Amantombazane amantombazane amasha ayesabeka. Bacabanga ukuthi ngeke bakwazi ukunikeza ingane yonke ukunakekelwa okudingekayo nothando. Kodwa lokhu kuyinto ehlukile kunomthetho. Isimiso sokubeletha sibandakanya owesifazane ngokwemvelo ngokwayo. Futhi azikho eziningi ezingenayo noma ezingakhiwe ngokwanele.
Kukhona abesifazane abesaba ukukhulelwa ngenxa yokuthi kungaphazamisa impilo yabo, ukubukeka. Kodwa amaqiniso azikhulumela. Ukukhulelwa kuthuthukisa kuphela owesifazane, okwenza isithombe sakhe sibe nzima ngokwengeziwe emphakathini, nangomuntu obaluleke kakhulu empilweni yakhe - indoda ekulungele ukugqoka othandekayo wakhe.
Ukufingqa konke okungenhla, singasho into eyodwa. ERussia yanamuhla kumfazi wesimanje kunezinketho eziningi zokwakha impilo yakho siqu, iphethini ngayinye. Emibhangqwana eshadile, kunezihloko eziyinhloko zomama nezinhlelo eziningi zokusekela imindeni emisha. Kubomabhizinisi bamabhizinisi, yonke iminyango kuyo yonke imikhakha yemisebenzi yobuchwepheshe ivulekile.
Ukuzikhethela kungokwakho!