Imibono mayelana nesifazane ophupho ngamadoda ngezinye izikhathi ihluke kakhulu kulabo abafazi abathintekayo. Ngakho ake sicabangele nawe kulesi sihloko lokho okuheha abantu, futhi yini ephikisayo. Yiziphi izinkolelo eziphathelene nalokhu?
UKUPHILA 1. Amadoda ayesaba abantu abahlakaniphile kakhulu - kunzima ukuphatha
Eqinisweni . Eqinisweni, iningi lamadoda afana nabesifazane abahlakaniphile, abazethemba ezinhliziyweni zabo, okuletha ukuzola nokuthembeka. Kodwa-ke, ubulili obuqinile abuzweli nabesifazane, abahlale "abahlakaniphile" njalo behlela ukuthi bahlolwe i-erudition. Akekho othanda lokhu. Futhi uzicabange endaweni yakhe. Ukube wayezocosha ulwazi lwakhe, ngesikhathi esifanayo wabonisa ukuthi uwazi kangaki uma uqhathanisa naye.
Inganekwane 2. Owesifazane ofanelekayo kufanele abe nokubukeka kwesibonelo
Eqinisweni . Ukuba nezinyawo "ezivela ezindlebeni" akuqiniseki neze ukuthi indoda izobiza lo wesifazane ekahle. Inqwaba yamadoda afana nesiginci segitala (isambatho esincane nesinqimba esikhulu). Lolu hlobo lwabantu abakhetha ngokukhethayo - owesifazane onjalo uyakwazi ukukhuthazelela futhi abelethe indlalifa enempilo.
Umkhandlu . Akukhathaleki ukuthi awukhiphi ukulinganisa imingcele, nje kufanele uzibuke. Akudingekile ukuhambahamba ekhaya ngengubo yokugqoka kanye nengubo yokugqoka. Bonisa konke ukubukeka kwakho okukhangayo, ngisho nalapho ulungiselela isidlo sakusihlwa.
OKUNGENZEKA 3. Owesifazane ovelele wakhuliswa ngemithetho eqinile
Eqinisweni . Yiqiniso, ukukhuliswa okuhle nemikhuba emihle kubhekwa njengokufanele, kodwa kubanjwe amakhaza. Futhi njenge-nira-epidemic, futhi "uhlamvu" oluthile, ukungabi namandla nokuphuluka kwe-"bitchiness" yamadoda kungase kube nesithukuthezi ngesikhathi.
Umkhandlu . Ukuze kuphakanyiswe isithakazelo kumuntu, owesifazane kufanele ngezinye izikhathi enze izenzo ezizenzekelayo, aphule imithetho evumelekile, futhi abe nombono wakhe futhi angesabi ukulikhuluma. Yenza isikhathi esisodwa ebuhlotsheni bakho. Lokhu kuzobapha kancane kancane. Umlingani wakho ngeke akhathazeke nawe futhi ngeke abe nesifiso sokubuka omunye umuntu.
UKUPHILA 4. Owesifazane ongcono kufanele abe nomsebenzi ohloniphekile
Eqinisweni . Okokuqala, noma yimuphi umuntu ufuna ukubona umqashi naye nge-interlocutor ethakazelisayo, ongamxoxisana naye kuphela ukuthi iyiphi i-akhawunti "yezokuxhumana". Yingakho owesifazane osebenzayo angase akhetheke kumuntu wanamuhla. Kodwa akudingeki ukuba abe ngowesifazane webhizinisi futhi abe nomsebenzi ohloniphekile.
Umkhandlu . Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi umsebenzi wakho ungakanani, zama ukuthuthukisa ngokwengqondo nangokomoya ukuze umyeni wakho ahlale enesithakazelo kuwe. Indlukazi engenalutho futhi engenalutho ayinalutho kunoma ubani, ngisho noma ingumpheki ekhishini, futhi indlu ihlanzekile futhi ihlanzekile.
OKUNGENZEKA 5. Owesifazane ongcono kanye nehhashi e-gallop uzoyeka
Eqinisweni . Lowo owaziwa ngokuthi "owesifazane oqinile" usungulwe, njengombuso, ubonisa amandla ayo ngaphakathi ekhaya, ezama ukuthelela zonke izigaba zempilo yomyeni wakhe: ngokukhetha i-hairstyle ezindaweni ezikude kakhulu. Kodwa isithombe emqondweni wesilisa awuhlotshaniswa nokuhleleka. Akekho umuntu ozoqhubeka ehlaselwa ensimini yakhe.
Umkhandlu . Yiba ngowesifazana futhi ungesabi ukubonakala ubuthakathaka. Ngikholelwa, khona-ke lo muntu ngeke abe nalutho ngaphandle kokuba abe nesibindi.
Ungapheli ukumangaza umlingani wakho, wenze ubuhlobo obuseduze, bese uyothandwa, ngakho-ke, kuhle kumuntu wakho.