Indlela yokubala i-waxer?
Indlela yokususwa
Into elula ehlukanisa umanizer womuntu ojwayelekile ngumuntu ojwayelene naye. Ngokuvamile indoda eyaziwayo iziphatha ngokuthobeka futhi ngobuqotho, okuvame ukuheha abesifazane, ngoba yenza bazizwe bebalulekile futhi bebalulekile. Umanizerzi uvame ukuzama ukudlala indima yowesilisa, okholwa ukuthi ungaphezu kwakho konke, uzama ukugcizelela izimfanelo zangaphandle, njengomshini, futhi uziqhenya njalo. Ngesikhathi esifanayo kungaba yinto enhle kakhulu.
Ukuphikisana kwamagama emibono
Ngokungangabazeki, wonke owesifazane, ngisho noma engazange ahlangane naye, tozh uzwe nje ngalabo bantu abalungile kuphela ngamazwi, futhi uma kuziwa ebhizinisini, khona-ke balala khona ndawo. Lokhu kungenye yezimpawu zomfazi ojwayelekile-ngokuvamile ngamazwi ukulungele ukukuyeka konke, ukuhlukanisa, ukuwazisa izisulu, ukunikeza isandla sakhe nenhliziyo, kodwa kuphela kuze kube yilapho ethola umbono, nangemva - kuphela ombonile. Uma umuntu ethembisa okuningi, kodwa akanaso isikhathi sokukunika isikhathi, noma ngabe awunalo nhlobo, noma awunandaba naye njengoba edweba. Bheka kangcono umuntu ozovuma ukukukhombisa ukunaka.
Isikhathi sosuku
Uma umuntu ejabule ukukubona kuphela kusihlwa noma kusihlwa, cishe cishe kusuka kuwe udinga eyodwa kuphela - umbhede. Kulula ukuqaphela, ikakhulukazi uma usuku oluvela kuye alukho izindaba ezilodwa, futhi kusihlwa ucabanga zonke izinhlobo zezizathu zalesi sizathu. Uma umuntu ehlonipha intombazane njengomuntu, uyoba nesithakazelo ekukhulumeni naye nganoma isiphi isikhathi sosuku nanoma iyiphi indawo, okungukuthi, uzoba nesithakazelo sokuhamba naye epaki noma kumyuziyamu, uhambehamba edolobheni.
Ubuningi bokuncoma
O, kula madoda 'abesifazane' angaphezu kwamadoda avamile - emva kwakho konke, kuningi lamacala, sinezinyanga neminyaka yokuqeqesha. Noma kunjalo, kaningi ukuncoma kwabo kungokwenyama. Ukuhlukanisa ukuhlonipha okuqotho kusukela kusezingeni elijwayelekile lokuncoma lomkami kungaba uphawu olulandelayo - uma kuhlonishwa ukubonakala okukodwa nje, futhi ngokuhlukahluka okuphindaphindiwe kubuyele into efanayo - qaphela, cishe umane uzama ukuvimbela "ukususa".
Ayikho impendulo, ayikho eyamukelekile
Enye yezenzo ezimbi kunazo zonke ezingalandelwa yi-womanizer yilapho, ngemuva kokuchitha ubusuku bothando, engabe engabonakali futhi empilweni yakho, imane idlule ngaphandle kwezixwayiso, amanothi noma izingcingo. Kulesi simo, kungcono ukulikhohlwa futhi uqhubeke. Lapha ungakwazi ukuqonda ngokushesha lokho akufunayo kuwe, ngakho ngenxa yokuthula kwengqondo, kungcono ukucabanga ukuthi ufuna okufanayo kuye.
Amanethiwekhi omphakathi
Ubuchwepheshe banamuhla obubhekene nokuxhumana okufanayo nomphakathi kungasiza ukufunda okuningi mayelana nomngane wakho omusha. Futhi uma ekhasini elisezindabeni zomuntu, lapho echitha khona amantombazane ahlukene, abangane bakhe babuswa yilo wesifazane, lokhu kuyisizathu esicacile sokuthi uqaphele. Indoda evamile ayinakwenzeka ukuguqula impilo yakhe ibe ngumcimbi omkhulu ngabahlobo.
Isizungu eside
Kunabantu abambalwa abesaba ukwesaba izibopho, noma abafuni ubuhlobo besikhathi eside, noma abafuni ukubopha othile othize. Kuzo zonke lezi zimo bazama "ukuthatha" othile ngosizo lokudlala ngothando, kodwa bonke abafuna ukukwanelisa ukuthanda kwabo. Uma umuntu engakaze ahlangane nentombazane iminyaka eminingana elandelanayo, futhi ngesikhathi esifanayo eqinisekisa ukuthi akadingi ubuhlobo obunzima, cishe cishe uyidokotela. Indoda ethatha owesifazane ngokungathí sina kufanele ihlale naye okungenani isigamu sonyaka.
Ukudlala ngothando
Yiqiniso, njengoba kwaziwa kabanzi, isimo samadoda sinjalo kangangokuba amehlo abo adonsela ebuhle. Kodwa-ke, kuyadingeka ukuthi ayiweleli imingcele - uma indoda engaphakathi ikhokha ukunakekelwa kakhudlwana kwabesifazane abazungezile, hhayi wena, umngane wakhe, khona-ke lesi yisikhathi sokucabangela. Ngomuntu ojwayelekile, umlingani wakhe uhlale ehamba phambili, kanti kwabanye kufanele anake kancane kancane, ngoba abesifazane bakhe bayamanele.