Amaphupho ethu angenamkhawulo wokuthi ungabona noma yini kuwo. Yonke iphupho inezincazelo ezithile futhi konke esikuphuphile kungachazwa ngezindlela ezahlukene. Enye yephupho elivame ukukhulelwa. Ake sibone ukuthi lokho kusho ukuthini.
Kuwesifazane ongashadile, kodwa ongeyena osemusha, owesifazane okhulelwe ophupha uyamemezela umshado ongaphumeleli.
Uma uphupha ngentombazane engashadile, kodwa ukhulelwe, khona-ke esikhathini esizayo esiseduze uzobhekana nenkinga enzima ukuxazulula.
Uma uphupha owesifazane okhulelwe ogulayo, iphupho lithembisa izinkinga, futhi liphilile - ngokuphambene nalokho, inhlanhla.
Ukuze ucabange owesifazane okhulelwe ephusheni, abazali abaxosha ekhaya, kusho ukuthi empeleni kuzodingeka ulalele ukusola ekhelini lakho.
Uma uphupha owesifazane okhulelwe, obesekuqaleni kokukhulelwa (okungukuthi, ngaphandle kwesisu), khona-ke iphupho libonisa ukungaqiniseki kwakho esikhathini esizayo.
Uma uvame ukukhulelwa ephusheni, awunelisekile ngokuphila kwakho kobulili, futhi uphinde uthole amaphupho angagcwaliseki.
Indoda ekhulelwe ephupha ukuthi zonke izinhlelo ozozakhela zizowela esikhathini esizayo esiseduze.
Uma ungashadile, kodwa ubona intombazane ekhulelwe ephusheni, khona-ke esikhathini esizayo esiseduze uzothola uthando olukhulu.
Uma uphupha ukuthi uphikisana nowesifazane okhulelwe, khona-ke empilweni uzothola ukudumala nokuhleba.
Uma ungashadile, kodwa ngesikhathi esifanayo uzibone ukhulelwe, khona-ke iphupho lisho ukuthi esikhathini esizayo esiseduze uzolalela ukuhleka nokuhleka kwamahemuhemu.
Ukubona owesifazane onamawele embonweni kusho inzuzo enkulu kakhulu.
Uma indodakazi yakho encane iphupha ukuthi yakhula futhi yaba yintombazane ekhulelwe, wena, Mama, kufanele unakekele indodakazi yakhe - ayikho uthando lomama.
Uma olele ekhulelwe futhi ngesikhathi esifanayo ubona ekhulelwe, bese ubuthongo bubonisa indlela ekhulelwe yokukhulelwa nokuthi ukuzalwa kuyophumelela.
Uma ukhuluma ephusheni nentombazane ekhulelwe engashadile, khona-ke ekuphileni kwakho kufanele unakekele othile isikhathi eside.
Ukubona owesifazane okhulelwe ephusheni, lapho ukulwa kuqala khona, kusho ukukhathazeka.
Uma uphupha ukuthi intombazane ekhulelwe, engashadile, iyazibulala, khona-ke empilweni, "ukukhanya ewindini" kulindeleke ezindabeni zakho.
Uma umuntu ephupha owesifazane esimweni, iphupho liveza inzuzo yokuqala noma ukukhushulwa. Kodwa ngezinye izikhathi ukulala kungabonisa izingxabano emndenini noma ubunzima.
Uma umuntu ephupha othandekayo wakhe, ngubani osesikhundleni, kusho ukuthi uthando lwakhe luqinile futhi luqotho kulabo abathandekayo, futhi nokuthi angathanda ukuba nezingane kuye.
Ukuze umuntu azibonele ukhulelwe kusho ukuqaliswa kwezinhlelo ezilinde isikhathi eside, kanye nengcebo noma inzuzo. Ngokwezinye izincazelo, ubuthongo bungabonisa ingozi, ukugula noma ukuhlubuka.
Uma uphupha owesifazane okhulelwe kakhulu noma oyingozi, kufanele uqaphele - othile obeka ngemuva kwakho ugobe ngokumelene nawe.
Ukubona intombazane enhle nekhulelwe ephusheni futhi ngesikhathi esifanayo kumangalisa ubuhle bayo kusho ukuthi iphupho likhuluma ngokuthola umklomelo ongalindelekile, kodwa kuzomele kusebenze kanzima.
Uma uphupha umngane wakho okhulelwe, kusho ukuthi ukukhulelwa nokuzalwa kuzodlula ngokuphepha, futhi nokuthi intombi ijabule emshadweni.
Ukuze intombi ikwazi ukuzibona ikhulelwe kusho ukuhlazeka nezinkinga ezihlukahlukene.
Uma umuntu ebona ephusheni owesifazane obeletha, empeleni kulindeleke ukuthi abe nezinkinga ezindabeni zakhe.
Uma umuntu ebona elele eduze nowesifazane okhulelwe, ulindele ukuthi amathemba amnandi.
Uma owesifazane ephusheni ebona ekhulelwe futhi ebeletha indodana encane, khona-ke impumelelo yayo iyoba yikho kuzo zonke izinto, futhi uma indodakazi izalwa, khona-ke empilweni yakho kuyoba nezikhathi ezizoholela enjabulweni esilinde isikhathi eside.
Uma owesifazane okhulelwe ephupha owesifazane omdala, kufanele alindele izinkinga zempilo esikhathini esizayo esiseduze.
Ukuphupha owesifazane okhulelwe kubantu abanezikweletu, uveza ukuthuthukiswa okuncane esimweni sabo.
Futhi kubantu abanezimfihlo, iphupho elinjalo lithi kufanele uqaphele ukuthi izimfihlo zakho azikho emphakathini womphakathi.
Ngakho sibheke ukuthi ukukhulelwa kubonakala kanjani. Sithemba ukuthi uzoba namaphupho amahle kuphela. Iphupho elimnandi kuwe!