Lapho amakhandlela avutha ukudla kwesidlo sothando, inhliziyo yakho iqala ukushaya kanzima. Kodwa hhayi ekulindeni kwalokho okuzolandela i-dessert, kodwa ngenxa yokwesaba ubuhlungu - umngane wakho ongunaphakade we-tenderness no-passion. Kungani izikhathi ezimnandi kakhulu zokukhulumisana nabathandekayo bakho ezikuhlupha kakhulu? Futhi kungenzeka yini ukuba uziqede?
Angifuni futhi angikwazi?
Isizathu semicabango emibi ngesikhathi oxhumana nabo ngokocansi besifazane wesimanje kungenzeka kube ukungahambisani kwengqondo nomngane wakho. Futhi imfundo engafanele, lapho abazali kusukela ebuntwaneni bekhuthaza intombazane ukuthi ubulili buziphatha kabi futhi buyingozi. Konke lokhu kuholela ekutheni umzimba uqala ukumelana nawo wonke amandla angenakufunwa "ukungena ngaphakathi", okuholela ekutheni ukuqina kwengculaza kunamandla.
Enye inkinga "yinkinga" yobuhlungu: uma kwenzeka unento engathandeki, awusoze ulikhohlwa futhi esimweni esifanayo uzolindele ukubonakala kwabo. Ngezinye izikhathi kwenzeka kanjalo nokuthi: le ndoda ayizange yamthinte ngisho nowesifazane, futhi isivele ibamba amazinyo ebuhlungu.
Ukuze uphume kumbuthano ononya, okokuqala, udinga ukushintsha imibono yakho ebuhlotsheni obuseduze. Funda izincwadi ezinikezelwe kule ndaba, bukela amafilimu othando-okubukeka: azosiza ukuvusa izinzwa.
Uma uthanda indoda, zama ukumenza abe yizinto ezifiseleka kakhulu. Dala isimo lapho ubulili obungenakwenzeka khona, kepha ungabonisana ngothando. Kulokhu, ichibi lokubhukuda, i-cinema noma i-club. Ukuthinta ubuso obathandekayo nokubukeka ubuso bakhe bese ubona, uzokunikeza ukucabanga okukhululekile emqondweni wakho futhi uzizwe ufisa.
Kungaba okufiselekayo futhi kushaywe
Indlela yokuthokozisa ngesikhathi sokulala ngokocansi owesifazane wesimanje ugcwele izingozi eziningi - ukukhulelwa okungafuneki, ukutheleleka ngokobulili, ukungabi nandaba nokufika kwe-latex ... Eyesaba, intombazane ayikwazi ukuphumula futhi izwe ubuhlungu ngenxa yokucindezeleka ngokomzimba.
Ukuze ungacabangi ngezinkinga ezinokwenzeka, qedela ukwesaba kwakho bese ucabanga ukuthi ungazivikela kanjani. Ikheli ku-gynecologist - uzokusiza noma asize ekutholeni izisu zokubeletha. Futhi ugweme oxhumana nabo ngezinsuku "eziyingozi".
Umzwelo wokuphepha nokuxhumana kocansi kowesifazane wesimanje uphinde uthonywe indawo yokwenza uthando. Ngesikhathi osondelene naye, akufanele ukhathazeke ngombono wokuthi ngabe ukulala kombhede kuzwakala ngemuva kodonga, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi umama noma ingane ingena ekamelweni.
Kulula, othandekayo.
Mhlawumbe "ukuhlushwa kothando" kwakho kuhlobene neqiniso lokuthi okhethiweyo wakho unomzimba omkhulu wobulili. Uma ungathuli, lo muntu kungenzeka angazi ngenkinga yakho. Ngokwemvelo, akazwa iziphi izithiyo, okusho ukuthi uyancipha amandla akhe futhi akayikulawula imizamo yakhe. Ngenkathi ungaceli ngokucacile "inzuzo engezansi", lo mlingani angase angaqapheli ukuthi imisindo oyenzayo ayiyona imizwelo yokuziphendulela, kodwa izikhala zobuhlungu.
Ukukhuluma nomlingani ngalesi sihloko esibucayi, ungagxili ekudumiseni futhi ungakhathali ukuphinda uphinde umthande omthandayo nokuthi uziqhenya kangakanani ngobukhulu besithunzi sakhe. Futhi-ke, ngokuzisola, uthi ukwehluleka kwakho nokunciphisa kwakho akuhambisani nokuhlukunyezwa kwakhe. Ukuvuma okunjalo kuzomenza abe mnene kakhulu.
I-pose ibaluleke kakhulu. Ubulili "ekusebenzeni kwe-classic" kungcono ukuthanda ukulinganisa isenzo. Futhi, kufanele uqale ukuthatha isinyathelo kumuntu, uphume phezulu. Ngakho ungakwazi ukulawula inqubo ngokwakho futhi ungesabi nanoma imiphi imiphumela engalindelekile.